Oh I've done that a few times! I ask my partner stoopid questions knowing very well I'm gonna get highly pissed at him lol Now I just don't ask the questions that I know will piss me off. Sometimes we do it because there is 'something' on our mind or we are comparing ourselves to your 'past experience' very competitive thoughts we can have! lol. To be brutally honest, your in a minefield when it comes to the 'questioning' and I feel very sorry for you because no matter how honest you answer her question it will not always be the right answer and the most mental thing about it is that there actually is no right answer! So next time she asks you a question that could lead you into the 'danger zone' try and figure what is 'really' behind that question. Some women can be very cryptic and ask you a question but there is actually a 'hidden' question underneath it. Example "why did you and your ex breakup?" MEANING I hope she doesn't come back, I better be better than her, I hope you broke up with her because if you got dumped then there might be a chance you would want her back if she comes running to you..........Scary huh? lol Or if you answer her questions honestly and she gets the sh*ts with you, tell her if you don't like my answer don't ask anymore questions that is gonna wind you up. Good Luck!!!!! ;)
2006-11-05 07:37:00
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answered by Starjarus 2
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My husband does the SAME thing to me. I dunno why he does it. Sheer morbid curiosity, and no regards for the consequences of the answers I guess. Some ppl just don't think things through. Some things are better left UN SAID.
My husband asked me about my past oral experiences with an ex bf.....OMFG.....2 1/2 yr later we still have weekly fights about it!
I actually called Dr. Joy Brown about the issue. And she advised me and all the other viewers NEVER to disclose past relationship details to your current partner. She says not only is it a stupid idea, but it will most certainly cause conflict. She even said if they will not take no for an answer tell them what they want to hear...no I never did it, yes once, no I didn't like it, no I didn't love her ect.....
Goodluck!
2006-11-05 07:32:13
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answered by Amber 4
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Not all girls do this, but those that do have insecurity issues and want to know if they compare 'better' than your former girlfriend. My ex (it works both ways, although chicks do it more) used to do that and I finally told him, "Look, my past is my history, you are my present and I'd like to create a new history with just you...and no one else." It worked until the guy went psycho...good luck!
2006-11-05 07:22:16
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answered by SoCalBeachGal 3
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I do this all the time... out the blue in conversations with my bf i will ask him about his ex, im very jealous of his ex, even though i dont know her or even met her!
Women have their insecure moments which we cant help, we ask silly questions knowing that the answers are going to hurt, but we dont want the "truth", we want what we want to hear to make us happy and secure!
2006-11-05 09:50:35
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answered by Anonymous
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She probably already knows the answers to her questions, or suspects she knows the answers. And what she knows/suspects, she doesn't like. So instead of being strong enough to 1) leave you if she has so much of a problem with some things about you or 2) to come right out and tell you that she doesn't like some things, or that she's worried about some things about you .... she does it in a more roundabout way. That is typical of someone that's emotionally immature... they can't be direct... it's sort of passive-aggressive.
2006-11-05 07:23:05
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answered by Lynn N 2
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I do the same thing with my boyfriend but I don't really get mad. I don't know the real reason why, we're just girls and we do stupid **** all the time. Maybe she's just curious. She probably just wants to hear that you love her and the past doesn't matter to you.
2006-11-05 07:20:47
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answered by Anonymous
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i do no longer see how he must be your boyfriend in case you have in no way even kissed him. individually, if he left you because you won't touch him i would not blame him. in case you like a efficient dating you are going to ought to grow to be actual at one time or yet another. that would not propose you ought to have intercourse and by potential of all potential you are able to abstain from that for extremely a while previously it would be superb in case you gave it up. regardless of the shown fact that kissing your boyfriend into giving him hugs is the least you're able to do because it does no injury by any potential to you different than possibly in case you had the chilly. If he likes you and you extremely desire to be sure him returned then i might end making relaxing of him and somewhat kiss him.
2016-12-28 13:46:11
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answered by ? 3
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because they are immature. girls like to think that you were never alive before you met them. so for you to tell them that you have done whatever with someone else, they get mad. it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. tell your girl that if she is going to make this an issue or is not prepared to hear the truth to the questions she asks, not to ask those questions.
2006-11-05 07:24:38
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answered by redpeach_mi 7
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she is asking because she is wondering and she cant help but want to know. so she asks. and when you say something that she doesnt want to hear she gets mad. just try lying about something you know will cause a fight. lol
2006-11-05 07:32:17
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answered by aimsterff 1
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because women are psycho and that's what they do to perpetuate an argument with you.
Telling the truth is never an option..... god you must be young....
If they ask you "do they look fat in a dress" you say "NO" you don't tell them that "yes it does and it makes your hips look wider." My god man.... don't ever tell them what you really think.
she is also bating you into telling her what kind of whores that you dated before you dated her... and how you are "experienced" in the ways of sex. Just tell her you are a virgin and you have never done this thing before.... it goes a lot smoother... and they don't get as pissed off about it...
2006-11-05 07:31:16
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answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4
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