My bf just broke up with me after 3 months because i mentioned the future (im not even sure if thats why) he gave me a bunch of excuses, including saying that he couldnt be in a relationship for too long. this happened 2 days ago, and for both of those days, i cried my eyes out, but today im all happy and thinking about some other guy that i wanted to go out with for the past year and even when i was with my bf. am i in denialor did i truly not like him i cnt tell. anyways, now i dnt know what to do to get him out of my head, any ideas?
2006-11-05 07:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all.........don't go out with another guy out of spite or pure loneliness. He will be a rebound project and you don't want to do that to him. Instead, find something that sparks your interests and allows you to better yourself. Join a gym, take a class or find a new hobby. Also, hang out with family and good friends. You need this time to deal with your break-up!
2006-11-05 07:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion... is give your self some time to think about YOU... granted the relationship is over between your bf and you... but it is so much better for you to just be free and single for a bit... then decide if this next person you are thinking about is TRUELY the one person you want to commit your self to. You have plenty of time to live life... do it now while you are young. Perhaps someone more special than you have ever dreamed about will come along and knock you off your feet. as far as getting someone out of your head my suggestion is to stay busy... hang out with friends.. keep your mind off of him . Best wishes.
2006-11-05 15:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by A W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to this old guy like your through the grieving process already and ready to move on to bigger and brighter relationships. Just be sure that you are not trying to get into a relationship on the rebound and take your time getting to emotionally involved.
2006-11-05 15:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure you did care for him, but you were only together for 3 months. that really isn't enough time to truly care for someone anyway. the guy sounds like he has some serious commitment issues. you are better off without him anyway.
2006-11-05 15:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Find a guy who wants a future with you. Was that so hard to figure out?
2006-11-05 15:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dealt with your loss by crying, and now you're through crying, and ready to move onto something new. It sounds to me like you're doing just fine.
2006-11-05 15:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the other guy even if you dont love him it will help you move on from your old bf
2006-11-05 15:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating him again
or me
2006-11-05 15:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋