Singles & Dating - 4 November 2006

I asked a question before saying that how do you know if a man was after one thing , but say if you know someone,

and like you say no too him, how do you know if he might attack and assault the women meaning rape her,

Im really just confused because Ive heard that in most cases people get raped with they boyfriends, and I just worry about

how do you know to be safe with a man if you like him, and want to go to each other houses espeacilly his house he could do anything

so if I like someone, and we want to meet up , how do I know if hes not up to no good,

2006-11-04 03:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by chrstian jesus is god 1

What should I do. I am thinking about buying a farm with lots of animals, but she will probably want to marry me then as she grew up on a farm and loves animals also. She has been b itching at me a lot lately and I think she likes other women so that is why I haven't told her about the money yet. I am confused but rich. Please help.

2006-11-04 03:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy on the Internet and phone for over 4 months. We talk everyday but just have'nt had the time to meet up.
He says he wants me to be his girlfriend and I feel the same way.

Anyway, he asked me to go to a movie and I was excited, then the movie we wanted to see wasn't out at the theatre so he asked me to come to his house.

I got kinda weirded out by this..I mean I trust him but, meeting his whole family on the first date - I would have liked to get to know him face-to-face on our own..like a traditional first date is usually like.

I told him this (we were online at the time) and he got REALLY angry and said ''I think of you differently now''..'' I don't ask anyone to my house'' etc,etc and signed off (MSN)

I sent him a message on Myspace and he hasn't replied or called me.

Was I wrong? What should I do? Is it over? p.s He's 20 ...I'm 19

2006-11-04 03:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by shy_dixon 1

im moon like u

2006-11-04 03:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by moon s 1

i have a boyfriend but when we got together months ago i thought i was already over my ex.but i guess i was wrong because, although it's been two years since we broke up,i keep thinking about my ex and sometimes i even want to give him a call.i'm stopping myself coz i don't want to hurt my bf.what do i do?i don't wanna be with my bf anymore.how do i tell him?

2006-11-04 03:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by lilac18 1

Help!

I was supposed to go on a date with a woman I worked with. I dont have her phone number or email and she was fired from the job. What do I do? She has my contact information. But my male friends say I have to find her contact information and contact her. Is that too crazy to do or is it the assertive thing to do?

2006-11-04 03:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 years old

2006-11-04 03:06:42 · 15 answers · asked by jake c 1

2006-11-04 03:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3

Soooo.
I like this girl.
She really likes me.
She got drunk the first night I met her and slept with my friend.
No big deal since we didn't really know each other.
Well we hit it off extremely well.
Then she got really super trashed again when I wasn't around and had sex with that guy again.
I figured she was just another 'whore', which sucked because I really did like her, I'm not one to devalue sex and so I wasn't even gonna mess with her, just be friends....
Well the other day she was signed on to her email account and I was super curious to see what her actual intentions were... so I read one to a guy that I kind of know.
She was basically saying that she was depressed because she really likes me and she just got trashed and made that 'mistake' she didn't even want to do.

Soooo, is it bad if I still like this girl? Should I stay far away?

2006-11-04 03:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by notsohated 1

my bf gave me tickets to a concert should i give him a reward 2 like sex.he knows im a virgin but hes expectin it wat should i do?

2006-11-04 03:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Shanae :) 2

what's your definition of true beauty (inside and out) and who in your life has both?

2006-11-04 02:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2

Females only please!

This is more of a survey than a question.

I think that we all have our more "selfish" things that we want in a partner when we are dating and meeting other people. Most every girl looks for the "standard" stuff in a guy: someone who is loyal, loving, honest, etc...

But what I want to know is the more "selfish" things that different girls look for and/or require when dating and meeting guys. Things that go beyond your standard relationship material. Being very specific is encouraged!

Very broad examples could includes some type of physical requirement, looks, money, sexual abilities, job title, living arranagements, etc. But I'm looking for more specific answers.

2006-11-04 02:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a dream sounds strange I know but I can't shake the feeling that with me residing in the US have my soulmate in Europe. I drept of him being very hansome but unlike my regular dreams this one of him was so clear that its as if I can touch him feel. I was inlove with someone I drept of and I had a boyfriend at the time and the guy I drept of I've never seen him before all I remember was his face and love and sadness in those I as if it says come and find me.

2006-11-04 02:56:40 · 19 answers · asked by tency23 1

I am one of the hottest girls at my school..Well my best friend is like totally in love with this guy that dosen't even know her name! Well the other day I bumped into him at the mall and we started to talk.We ended up hooking up that night. Well now we are a couple, and I told him about my friend being in love with him.He told me she wouldn't give him what I would..I told me friend and now shes mad at me! I have no idea why! Should I stay with him or go back to her..I think I want to stay with him sicne she is a loser anyways and no one likes her..but I just want some advice on what others suggest I do.

2006-11-04 02:54:12 · 21 answers · asked by ILene Dover 1

you think love is about two people making a commitment to be together and then sticking with it? I mean, do people just DECIDE or be in love with the same person?

2006-11-04 02:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 02:49:59 · 27 answers · asked by haileyhs 1

I rock the school I am 12 and am hot as tthey get the ugly girls try nand they get one but I just caint

2006-11-04 02:48:51 · 19 answers · asked by melissab 1

2006-11-04 02:47:52 · 8 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

2006-11-04 02:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by Raje 1

Im almost 16 and at my private highschool I am considered to be one of the funniest guys in the school. I also love to flirt and I sort of have a way with the ladies but its hard to figure out which ones really like me and whoes just messing around. What do I need to do to find out whoes for real?

2006-11-04 02:42:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 02:42:20 · 5 answers · asked by Wickedsoneandonlygreengirl! 2

I broke up with my ex for another guy. I know I made a mistake and I want my ex back. I've tried talking to him and he won't give me another chance. He's not dating anyone else and when I asked him if he cares about me he said no. Hearing that hurt me alot and I told him if he gives me another chance I will never do something like that again. How do I break through to him and get him to believe me?

2006-11-04 02:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by crystal 1

Like how girls like to be told we're beautiful, pretty, etc.

2006-11-04 02:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by LindseyLouWho 3

I have this friend and he's a complete gentleman when I'm alone with him or with one of his close friends...but when we're surrounded by a lot of people, he treats me like crap and ignores me. We're good friends and it's getting annoying cause although some say that he might have feelings for me, I'm pretty sure that he's not over his former flame.

Is he just being a jerk?

2006-11-04 02:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by slayerettewithdreams 1

Recently a friend and I were discusing how a relationship should be built on friendship not sex or lust, yeah sex and lust play an important part, but building a relationship on sex and lust alone will most likely end very sour . So far this way has worked for me, but that is just me, I would like to know what other peoples thoughts are on this. Stories, thoughts and experiances are wellcome. Thank you for your time

2006-11-04 02:39:32 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Leo 1

My boyfriend's birthday is today he is 31 and I was looking for some gift ideas. I am on a budget, so be creative. I want this to be perfect, because he means so much to me. We have been dating for 3 months. I really care for him a lot and I want to give him a gift that says I love you all over it, not literally, though but sentimentally. Thank you in advance.

2006-11-04 02:38:49 · 12 answers · asked by alleybug_2003 1

And what do u understand that being masculine is and what ISN't? also pls mention ur age or aproximate age (cuz age can b a factor of influence since young women expect diffrent things then older ones).

2006-11-04 02:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by James Blond 4

i still love her..... the other day she was writing on my hand.... she's somewhat cuddling with me.... and she's been hugging me a lot lately....

we broke up about 80-85 days ago..... there isn't a day i don't think about her... we broke up because she said that she had too many things going on.... i thought that would be the right thing to do since it just wasn't the right time... and i thought i could possibly get back togeather with her when all this stuff is over... but then around 4 weeks later... she starts to go out with her ex b. from washington... who just recently moved here in LA... i guess she's been having problems with him.... today's her birthday, but i've already done something for her... n e wayz... we're still friends... i wouldn't mind making it out to be something more.... but is she giving me the signs that i want her to... or is she just playing around with a friend???

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-04 02:36:47 · 18 answers · asked by the sign 2

This girl at my work who i thouhjt was my friend keeps calling me retarded in front of people, what shoul i do. how do i tell her i dont want to be friends anymore? she is not a friend but bothers me to go to lunch but now i cant stand her anymore?
without causing a scene or getting my self in trouble for standing up for my self? dhould i tell her fuuuuck u the next time she says that?

Additional Details

7 minutes ago
my boss lady said simiar things, and i told her i didnt appreciate and got reprimanded for confronting her. this other co-worker is violent and if i tell her where to go what if it gets ugly and i lose my job? even though im right?

2006-11-04 02:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 02:36:16 · 24 answers · asked by coach mora 1