Singles & Dating - 4 November 2006

There's this guy at work who I really really like, but he's not available, I accept this and we're just friends. I'm not sure it would work anyway even if he were single, cos we're just so different.

The thing is, whenever I see him my heart skips a beat, and I get kinda nervous, and it's the same thing if someone mentions his name. We were chatting on messenger earlier and I could hardly type cos my hands were shaking. I also seem to suffer from a loss of appetite when he's around, and he occupies a lot of my thoughts.

I've never been in love before so I don't know whether I am now, or if I just like him cos he pays me attention. I REALLY hope this in not love - what do you think?

2006-11-04 04:55:37 · 22 answers · asked by Kirsty 7

me and my girl have been going out for almost 5 months now but i been knowing her for 6 years. the relationship is good and everything but i have the tendency to say stupid **** to my gf and always say **** before i think. when im mad i usually say things that i dont mean. we have a long distance relationship and she doesnt trust me saying that im a guy and she considers all guys cheaters, i told her to deal with it, its not my problem. also i ended up yelling at her for the whole situation. i really hurt her feelings and upset her, she doesnt know if we should still be together because of the way i act, but i dont want to lose her. i really love this girl. she said that ill never change and ill always be like this, but i want to change, is there anyway i could control my temper and for me to think before i speak. any help is appreciated.

2006-11-04 04:55:29 · 3 answers · asked by l_a_d0dgers 1

im engaged to a man 12 years older than me,to what extent can age difference affect married life and how.Im confused if i made a mistake especially now when i know my fiance is more concious about the age difference v have between us.We both are very keen to live a happy married life but can this issue be a hinderance in living a happy married life in all its aspects.

2006-11-04 04:53:08 · 34 answers · asked by pretty pc 1

2006-11-04 04:49:40 · 20 answers · asked by kenneth_mcdonough 1

to each other

2006-11-04 04:48:49 · 17 answers · asked by hagop g 1

How do get a casual acquaintance to like me? I'm a girl - and quite afraid, maybe I bore him.

How do you make a guy fall for you, when you have only but average looks, and lose your words when you're around him......

2006-11-04 04:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by just me.. 3

I went to the bank to make a deposit and there was this lady there, very cute. I was lookin at her smiling, and she smiled in the beginning, but stopped after that. But there was a long line (social security checks, old grumpy people). Could that be why she didn't seem interesting, and should I go back at another time?

2006-11-04 04:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by bloodsanctum 4

How do i go about the situation?
I dont know how to go about this situation?
i met this girl in the summer and we had a thing going on for a bit. NEver actually went out but we hung out a lot and one day we talked about a relationship and she said maybe. A couple days later she wanted to have sex and I am a 20 year old virgin cause I feel that it is important to me to meet someone I really care for before having sex. Then she tried to have a threesome when we were drunk? I again, had to refuse although I will admit it was difficult. She started sleeping with 2 of her ex boyfriends and stuff. Now, i told her I refuse to talk to her because i need to get on with my life in hopes of finding a girl that wants to be with me. One of her ex boyfriends is my friend and she made out with him in front of me 2 days ago. Now it seems that she continually tries to keep in contact with me and is sorry for what happened? Considering that she told me she wasnt over her boyfriend is it possible that she wants to be with me down the road? Or am I just lost?

2006-11-04 04:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by canuck131986 2

2006-11-04 04:44:47 · 15 answers · asked by skarface 1

Hey Guys!!
I want to go do something fun with my bf this weekend, but I don't know what. I have a family of 6, and we're barely teenagers so we can't drive. With the family, it can't be 2 $$ and I have to be able to convince my parents.
I was thinking something like lasertag, or go-cart driving or someting. (Both of those aren't options due to the cost)
Please help me think of something fun and easy to do. He could also come over, but we have so many restrictions all we can basically do is watch movies, and we've already done that!!!
Please help, and please be APROPRIATE!!
Thanx, and have a Great Day!!
♥ S's Girl

2006-11-04 04:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

i am a girl and i want to no if anyone has anygood ideas for how to make the first move..??? thanks for any info

2006-11-04 04:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by kati 1

there's this really pretty but shy girl at my school tht likes me.im not usally shy but i am around her.i asked my friend to ask her if she liked me ans she said yh but she wasnt sure if i liked her back. does she think i dont like her bc i dont tlk to her?

2006-11-04 04:41:49 · 16 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

hi guys can you please help me? My boyfriend just broke up with me and we have been together for 5 years! Usually an emarrasing moment will help me. Please give me one! It might help me get over my tradgity!

2006-11-04 04:40:52 · 6 answers · asked by winkypink64 1

she tell me she loves me and wants to be with me, but also wants to have time and space, she says i am everything she wants, yet theres something missing, help i am lost here?

2006-11-04 04:40:27 · 3 answers · asked by firstknight 2

my partner left 5 weeks ago we have 3 kids togetherhe has said that he doses not want tobe with me but he keeps having sex with me ahhhhhhhhhh

2006-11-04 04:40:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I get in the sam old rut and we ned to get out and find some new things to do! We live in the Midwest and it can be pretty darn boring!!! Any suggestions? We are on a budget so cheep is the way to go!!!! Thanks!!!!!

2006-11-04 04:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3

Why do we take things for granted when we're in a relationship and get surprised if things go off course?

2006-11-04 04:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by NotsoaNonymous 4

2006-11-04 04:37:43 · 3 answers · asked by turnertot1992 2

2006-11-04 04:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by track 2

This is getting pretty irritating, so I'm going to point this out right here and now. If you like him/her you should get to know them better. Become their friends before you have these thoughts and you won't regret the "Pre-teen Doom" or in other words, them saying no. All it takes is knowing you can move your mouth and words will come out.

2006-11-04 04:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by wizard of stealth 3

I think my problem is that i can't get him to like me so it makes me think that i like him

2006-11-04 04:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by i_heart_jonathan<3 1

And I love her very much

2006-11-04 04:33:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked her on a date and she said yes. I was thinking about picking her up, blind folding her, setting up a picnic with all of her favorite foods. You know baskets and all.
Good idea? Think of another way to surprise her?
She's an opera singer, we're both intellectual and are theater geeks. As to give some insight to the personalities involved...

2006-11-04 04:32:48 · 4 answers · asked by eriquele 1

i'm a blonde but don't let that change your answer

2006-11-04 04:32:40 · 24 answers · asked by Phi 1

what heppened , whats the story?

2006-11-04 04:32:07 · 28 answers · asked by sanity789 2

2006-11-04 04:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of thing a guy say to you lady that makes you think special and will definitely fall in love with him?

2006-11-04 04:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know my situation is, I started dating one of my friends boyfriends cousin, well my friend intentionally sabatoged the relationship. This has caused many problems because me and the guy are still dating, now I am through with my friend. Another thing, I am in an interracial relationship, why did all of my friends ditch me when they found out who I was dating? Only one of my friends has stuck throught this with me, but all of my long term best friends have totally ditched me. I am so pissed about this, I feel like all of my friends abandoned me when I needed them the most. I am talkingfriends I have had for 10 years up and ditching me over this. Why is there so much racism in the world today. I just want to date who I want and be happy. I truly love this guy, and he loves me too. No one understands what I am going through. Any commments or suggestions appreciated.

2006-11-04 04:29:31 · 6 answers · asked by alleybug_2003 1

Do any of you women do this? Are you unsure if you want to go out with the guy or do you not wanna seem to easy? What is with that?

2006-11-04 04:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Chris D 4

I'm a nice girl with a lively sweet personality, I'm sweet, I treat my man with dignity and respect like a king, I will give anything for him and I get nothin? I am not hideous lookin either...I'm 5'2", blue eyes, nice full lips and a nice body!! ugh...help.

2006-11-04 04:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous