my partner left 5 weeks ago we have 3 kids togetherhe has said that he doses not want tobe with me but he keeps having sex with me ahhhhhhhhhh
2006-11-04 04:40:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't agree that you are a fool....you just need that closeness that you are use to...i think your partner is a fool though for leaving you with 3 children...what a jerk!...but you have got to be strong try to restrain yourself from sleeping with him i know it might be hard, but try, because he will have that power over you even though he said he don't want to be with you...don't give it up to him...he dosent deserve you.
2006-11-04 04:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, what a situation you've gotten yourself into. If your husband--the man you love and took vows with---tells you he doesn't want to be with you anymore than he doesn't love you either. Just saying something like that to your significant other really shows how much he dosn't care about you or your feelings. I mean really----that has got to hurt--a lot! It would break my heart if my husband said that. I wouldn't even be able to look at him in the eye.
Continuing to have sex with him is not going to get him back either. He's just using you. You have to stop sleeping with him right away! NOW! TODAY!
And, if he wants to leave--pack his bags and call him a cab. There's no reason for him to live in the house if he wants nothing to do with you.
As for the children, please keep their hearts, minds, and best intentions in mind when going through the big D. Most likely they will want to see their father and it is your responsibility to make sure they are allowed this, with ease. If he refuses to visit or care for the children take him to court.
2006-11-04 13:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by rchl782 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r not a fool! U just need to learn how to let go and leave him alone. I'm pretty sure there are a lot of other guys who would love to date you- and not just want you for the sex! It's not going to help you get over him either if you keep on having sex with him.
2006-11-04 12:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him. If you don't stop the cycle it will go on forever. He might not have feelings for you and just using you for sex. You might still be in love with him, then when he finds someone new it will hurt really bad. But, you might not like/love him like that, you could be just using him for sex. Whatever the case its probally not healthy. Tell him to commit if thats what you want or just be there for the kids.
2006-11-04 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then he's got a pretty good thing going for himself doesn't he. If he says that he doesn't want to be with you emotionally but is more than willing to be with you physically and your allowing it, why would he eve change his mind. I'm afraid that it is time for you to grow up and realize that your actions dictate a lot of his actions. Try considering breaking off ties with your partner and see if things either improve or deteriorate. I would think that it would be pretty difficult for a woman, or a man for that matter, to accept a partner who tells them that they don't want to be with them. Good luck in making your decision and I hope you are able to make a mature decision for both you and your three children.
2006-11-04 12:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of someone still being with a girl because they were having sex.
I suggest that you STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM.
He needs to make up his damn mind with you.
It seems like he's just in it for the sex.
You need to talk to him about this.
About how you feel.
If I were you, I'd feel like a piece of meat.
A PISSED OFF piece of meat.
2006-11-04 12:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God! i thnk your partner is a fool...he left three kids with you because he doesnt wann atake responsibility...but he has sex with you because he likes it.....sounds like a mean and selfish person.
2006-11-04 12:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you allow him to use you as a masturbatory device he will continue to use you for sex.
If he will not commit to a relationship you need to stop letting him do the bump and run.
2006-11-04 13:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Axeman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So stop sleeping with him,he's just using you for sex.
2006-11-04 12:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you keep on having sex with him?
2006-11-04 12:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋