I am one of the hottest girls at my school..Well my best friend is like totally in love with this guy that dosen't even know her name! Well the other day I bumped into him at the mall and we started to talk.We ended up hooking up that night. Well now we are a couple, and I told him about my friend being in love with him.He told me she wouldn't give him what I would..I told me friend and now shes mad at me! I have no idea why! Should I stay with him or go back to her..I think I want to stay with him sicne she is a loser anyways and no one likes her..but I just want some advice on what others suggest I do.
2006-11-04 02:54:12 · 21 answers · asked by ILene Dover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not wrong at all u obviously are better with him and its your life why should u change it 4 her. Heres an example:if u both were applying 4 a job and u were better qualified would u give her the job? Anyway thats my opinion
2006-11-04 03:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Agent Buckwald! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, you're not a very good friend for a number of reasons.
First of all, If you knew your "best friend" was "in love" with this guy, you would NEVER have "hooked up" with him.
Secondly, calling your best friend a "loser" is a pretty lousy thing to do.
I don't give a sh** if you're the hottest girl at your school (which I assume you're not. The pretty girls are usually humble about it. It's the ugly insecure ones that brag about the guys they get and the looks they don't have); you should NEVER do that to your friend.
I don't think you should plague either the boy or your "best friend" with your presence anymore. Just leave them both alone, and learn how to be a better person.
2006-11-04 11:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm curious as to why the first sentence of your paragraph began with "I am one of the hottest girls at my school".....it would seem irrelevent to your question. You also just called your "best friend" a loser and that "no one likes her"....WHY THEN DO YOU CALL HER YOUR "BEST FRIEND"??
Yes--what you're doing is wrong AND A HALF....and I might look into the definition of "FRIEND" in any given dictionary.
2006-11-04 10:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you really have to question how loyal you are to your friend. She may be angry because she did tell you that she liked this guy and now your seeing him. and ofcourse if were in her position I'd feel upset too. you need to see it from her point of view. be fair and understand that she trusted you enough to tel you she liked him so she ovbiously considers you as a friend. if you do decide to saty with this guy dont do anything to annoy her even more as it wont help the situation and may just make her more upset. you should respect her even if you dont want to be her friend
2006-11-04 11:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG are there really ppl out there that shallow. i had no idea. hell no wonder ppl think women are inferior if that's what they have to go on.
1.she was your best friend.
2.you stole the guy you knew she wanted.
3.he flat out told you he is only with you instead of her because your giving it out like Halloween candy. Translation(your a hoe and your friend isn't)
4.why wouldn't she be totally pissed at you?
2006-11-04 11:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by phrani c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"She would not give him what you would". She probably would not jump in to bed with the guy, especially not the first night they met, but you did. Now he is with you and I am sure sex has something to do with that. So, you ruined a friendship for sex.How can you not get that your friend is angry at you? She deserves a better friend than you who even calls her a loser!
2006-11-04 11:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Eileen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn, what kind of school do you go to??? So you mean the other kids are fuglier than you are? Second, I saw another one of your answers that says it's nice to have sex with a dog. So I suggest you leave this guy alone, for his own protection.
2006-11-04 11:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"With friends like you, she needs no enemies". AND you're not looking for advice at all - you are bragging about something of which you should not be proud! Grow up!
2006-11-04 17:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she angry with you. you being her best friend instead of helping her get the guy she wanted got him for yourself. i would be too. anyway since it's alredi done, it's up to u who you wanna keep. but don't belittle you friend. the guy could say that you're everything to him now coz his banging you.
2006-11-04 11:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Apricot Brandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered your own question, but I'll gladly take the 2 points for it!
2006-11-04 11:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋