Singles & Dating - 4 November 2006

I'm depressed because I feel so alone in the world... like I know people love me ex. my family, friends, but I want someone closer, some one that I can say she's mine and you can't take her away from me I want the one my dream girl... but I can't see to find her let alone anygirl yeh I've been in relationships but they come and go so quickly I feel alone and scared please help me i'm 14 5'11 1/2 and i'm black please help me

2006-11-04 13:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like, i flirt woth this one girl alot. But i am crazy about her. I wanna be her boyfriend but i dont know what to do other than ask her out, any tips?

2006-11-04 13:10:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been hurt too many times and I need a solution!

2006-11-04 13:09:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I barely know, *Thomas. The only reason I know him is cause he's in the same school play I'm in and he won our school "American Idol" contest. He, of course, is a good singer and actor and the main guy character in the play, while I'm the ensemble. I think he's cute and he looks so adorable with the main girl character, who's also his GF.

I have no crush on him whatsoever because: 1) I have a loving BF 2)I'm shy and sweet and he's popular but nice 3) He looks sooo good with his GF! 4) I'm just not attracted; I don't see me kissing him or gettin cuddly...until I'm dreaming.

Last night, I had a dream about him. It seemed like it lasted forever. We were making out on a bed, him in just his boxers and I in a negliche. I could practically feel us touching. I know it seriously couldn't have happened. He even sang "Sexy Back" and my mind replaced Justin T.'s face with Thomas's.
I'm seriously not attracted to him in real life, so why do I dream about him? HELP

2006-11-04 13:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3

Why is it that you flirt with 18 yr olds more than older ones? aren't we immature in a sense?

2006-11-04 12:59:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

All I did was ask a question about myself and people responded with the negativity,why are you jealous just because I'm a good dude good with the ladies, and I KNOW IT people think I'm coming across as an azzhole or jerk and for those of you who thought I'm not confident you're mistaken

2006-11-04 12:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

to the wise and who have been there, is being in a relationship while in college a distraction??

2006-11-04 12:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by vincent m 2

So theres this guy that I like, we'll call him Jeff. & Anyways Jeff and I are 14. We have known each other for about 2 years, because we go to the same school. In short, Jeff and I really like each other. Lately, we've been calling each other, seeing each other, emailing, everything. I'm curious though, am I too young for this? Is Jeff really al that? Or this a disaster waiting to happen. Jeff is sweet, funny, dependable, cute, and so much more. He just seems so perfect.

What are your thoughts.

I mean were not going to go serious, but like I think he's going to ask me out sometime soon. & I like him, but im not sure if saying yes would be the right choice.

2006-11-04 12:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

why when I ask a bf in the Yahoo Answer.....it always turn out to b answer abuse?.......anyone who would like to tell me straight away..pls IM me at kute_35@yahoo.com

2006-11-04 12:54:12 · 2 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3

Is this normal, well I am a overweight so I blame it on that. I just want to give up hoping that I will find true love. I honestly think there isn't anyone out there for me. What do men find in women, besides being in shape and all that?

2006-11-04 12:52:21 · 27 answers · asked by ~*StarryEyedSurprise*~ 2

I just clogged my girlfriend's toilet and her and her parents are on their way home. Should I take off? (no plunger)

2006-11-04 12:51:12 · 20 answers · asked by PS 4

you know when you go out with a girl and shes too shy eatting in front of you?
do you think of that as "annoying" or weird?


do you like girls that eat in front of you as you are too with out hesitaion? or
girls that are too shy too?

i just wanted to know

2006-11-04 12:49:37 · 29 answers · asked by Grack 5

he is the love of my life and yet gets me fired up to the point that I yell and can't control it. He comes home from work, I've missed him all day and he just starts complaing about everything you could think of! I try to ignore it but he gets disrespectful to me because he had a hard day. I care - I sympathize - but his bad day had nothing to do with me, so why should I be the one he bitches at? He goes on and on and on some more then we argue and I yell. I hate yelling and I feel wrong for it but I feel it's the only way he will hear me cause he wont let me speak. What do you think?

2006-11-04 12:47:55 · 14 answers · asked by valentine 1

What is the biggest turnoff about a girl and why?

2006-11-04 12:47:13 · 3 answers · asked by precious girl 1

About 4 years ago I met this great guy and we started dating. We were together for a year. After that we broke up and he went out with my friend. I asked her not to date him but she did anyway. They went out for about 7 months and then they broke up. Well about a year ago I got together with this guy and we are so happy. However my friend says I should not be dating him because she says I stole him from her. What should I do?

2006-11-04 12:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Angry 1

When I go to a party house with matrue women in their 30s tend to flirt with me rather than any other older people. Why is it like that?

2006-11-04 12:43:52 · 18 answers · asked by cough cough 4

Surfs porn behind my back, but won't share erotic stories or watch porn with me. Won't ravish me, but swears he loves me. I'm beautiful (I swear) but apparently not appealing to him. Don't know what to do. He wants to marry, but I will not until our sexual issue is addressed. I love sex -- alot!!

2006-11-04 12:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by cam_walker 1

I know one of them liked me (don't know if he still does) he is 15 days older than me really nice funny ect. The other guy, he always acts like he likes me kind of pervie at moments. he is younger than me. what do I do?

2006-11-04 12:37:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i doubt that im in love after only 2 months... but how do you know the real difference, they seem so similar, im assuming it is still infatuation..?

2006-11-04 12:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by re33b9 2

Look im young and got a good job and just want to know where the love of my life is!

PS i am blessed in all the right places!

2006-11-04 12:34:20 · 19 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1

I met this girl from my place of work about 3 months ago, she is 21 and I am 25. We started dating and things started to get serious, we had so much in common, and we always had fun, we had become really intimate and ended up in a full sexual relationship.
After a while she wanted to slow things down as she felt things were going too fast and now she says her feelings have faded, but she want to remain close friends.
Is it possible for lovers who become friends, to be come lovers again?
I don't know what to do, we both admitted our love for each other early on, she means so much to me, how can I get her to see me as a more than a friend again?
Please help me I am clueless as to what to do!

2006-11-04 12:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by DC 1

My fiancee keeps pushing back our date for our wedding for the last 3 years and he keeps saying he doesn't know if hes ready yet, (if he wan't ready then he shouldnt' have asked me to marry him). what should i do? Should i stick with it, or just say something???

2006-11-04 12:30:06 · 34 answers · asked by babeydede 2

my bf just broke up w me.He has these friends that told him lies about me and he thought they were true.I really liked him and wanted to kiss him but i respected him about that because his mom wont let him and he respects his mom more than anyone!
anyway he broke up w me and i want him back!I even still get jelous if i see him tlking to another girl!Plz tell me how to get him bck!Thanks soooo much if you knew how much i miss going out w him you would really understand why im asking!
ps -i havent even told my bffs

2006-11-04 12:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy at my play practice who is really nice and cute. He's one of the leads, and I'm in the chorus. We are in a lot of scenes together. I've known him for a few years now from previous plays, but it's been a really long time since I've seen him last. He's a year older than me- I'm fifteen, he's sixteen. We go to different schools. I really wanna be closer to him, but he has so many people around him all the time and I am kind of reserved (always with my two friends there). Any ideas? We all already have each other email's and numbers, so I can't ask him for either. Any advice or suggestions are loved. I don't know if I should just hang back and let him come to me, but do you think he ever will? We talk when we can- it's never awkward of anything. Sometimes we catch each other's eye and then we both look away. But I don't know if that's just coincidence.

I know I have posted this a few times, but it's hard to get good advice. I'm also self-concious... just thought I would say

2006-11-04 12:26:37 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah 1

Football, rugby and cricket do not appeal, swimming neither. Computer games, motorbikes and cars leave me cold. Guns, knives and stupid films are anathema to me. I like the colour pink but only on girls. How do I persuade them that I crave their company?

2006-11-04 12:26:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, my ex and I have been through a lot. Recently, about a month ago, he came to a party I had and I told him about how I still care. A few weeks later, due to a dispute with friends, he began to hate me, and has been talking about me behind my back. This is also the same ex who would visit my webpages every day a couple of times. When I asked him about his strange behavior, he claimed he had nothing else to do. Also, he told me he was looking for me at a concert, but when I asked why, he said because he wanted to see if I was there. I'm friends with his old girlfriend now, and I don't really like her, but she still talks to him. He doesn't care about her however, and made out with some girl he met from Myspace. Ugh...I still miss him, even though that girl stole him from me, and it's been months. Help, please?

2006-11-04 12:26:05 · 1 answers · asked by thenightsky_isblack 1

her and i like eacother. and i wanna ask her out, but i dont know because of the age differnece??

2006-11-04 12:25:19 · 33 answers · asked by 约瑟夫 3

The sex isn't even that great, I just like the monogomy while I look for another potential boyfriend on the side. I'm not promisquous, just flirty and fun. Should I break it off, or stick it out?

2006-11-04 12:24:28 · 23 answers · asked by elshay2 1

I KNOW THE MOST OBVIOUS ANSWER IS 'NO CONDOM, NO SEX'
but im trying for something more creative and seductive that will make him put on the condom. thanks people who actually answer this question...

2006-11-04 12:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by missjdljdl 1

I am in love with someone who used to be a sex addict. He has had sex with over 300 women in his lifetime, seen prostitutes and at one time he cheated on his girlfriend by having sex with 3 to 4 different women a week for hire from Craiglist. He has had sex with shemales and gone to sex clubs. He is a charmer picked up women at bars and at work and on the subway. He still surfs pornography on a regular basis. Since meeting me, he has gone to therapy and say s that both our relationship and his love for me have changed his life. He vows never to cheat and claims that he realizes that easy sex was a way to fill an emptiness he didn’t know he felt at the time. He wants us to marry me and have children. I adore him, the sex is amazing and he knows me better than anyone but I am afraid to be overly optimistic about his ability to change. I dont know if I should pursue this relationship.

2006-11-04 12:23:52 · 4 answers · asked by CCalias 1