I'm depressed because I feel so alone in the world... like I know people love me ex. my family, friends, but I want someone closer, some one that I can say she's mine and you can't take her away from me I want the one my dream girl... but I can't see to find her let alone anygirl yeh I've been in relationships but they come and go so quickly I feel alone and scared please help me i'm 14 5'11 1/2 and i'm black please help me
2006-11-04 13:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen hun.
your just 14 you have your whole life ahead of you..
yeah i know how you feel about loseleness and feel depressed all the time .. but dont look for her .... let her come to you ... have fun while your young ... im just 16 and i have been though realationships that have came and gone but you half to be stonge .. you get though it .. life it not all about having a girl friend
2006-11-04 13:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, I know exactly how you feel... and you don't feel like doing anything anymore, right? Well, try and go talk to some girls because what can you lose? You have only to gain! And also, I know I'm repeating a cliché, but you know what? Go out and run.. at least for a little bit. You'll feel so much better because no guy/girl should get anyone down... (in your case, girl)... but just run outside... do something outside! You'll feel a whole lot better... And don't worry, you'll probably meet someone cool soon; you just haven't met the right ones yet. And think about anything you've done that could have made the girls go away... maybe there, you can fix your problem (if you have one, that is) Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 21:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be depressed. I felt that way. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 17!!! I'm still 17!!! It gets lonely yeah but keep your head up you still have plenty of life ahead of you. There could be a girl checking you right now but girls don't like a guy with no confidence so just vibe!! Oh yeah maybe you should just say you are 6'0. It's alot sexier than 5'11 and 1/2!
2006-11-04 21:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Muffin Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't think that a girl can complete you, to me it seems like you have to learn how to be comfortable in your skin first before you decide to get into a serious relationship. it seems like you would be a little too protective, and/or "needy" which might make her feel uncomfortable and leave. You are young, and maybe you should get into sports, or some other forms of arts to keep you busy and happy. Relationships takes a whole lot of work, and at 14 I don't think that you are ready to make such a commitment, so do't rush life, she will find you, especially when you least expect it, which makes it a whole lot more interesting. Take Care!!!!!
2006-11-04 21:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to be alone Tyson, but we all have to do it. Just remember you are only 14, why dont you enjoy your friends and family, trust me, the right girl will come along. You are tooooo young to be depressed !!!!! Get off the internet and hang out with some buddies, watch a movie, have fun !!!
2006-11-04 21:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all sweetie. its not the end of the world. your only 14. and your still young. if i was 14 again i would love it and change a couple things ;) but anyways. dont worry so much. stay single..and look at your options. you have more fun being single than being attached. but i know its hard to be alone. i was there once. but you know. if your single and you meet different people its actually really cool b/c you can talk to anyone you want. just know that you have your whole life in head of you.
2006-11-04 21:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by beth-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tyson at your age just have a lot of different friends and go out and Have a good time. When that right person comes along you will know it . Good Luck
2006-11-04 21:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to put yourself in a calm atmopshere. It sounds like you are denieing yourself freedom, and by that i mean that you feel the need to have something that you dont have yet....what you need to do is put yourself out and look for that one thing that you need that 'dream girl' trust me you will evetually find what your looking for. GOOD LUCK!! =)
2006-11-04 21:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! you sound just lilke me!! except I'm white and im a girl and i want a guy and I'm 5'10. My favorite way to cope is to hang out wiht my friends and blow $50 dollars on movies and starbucks
2006-11-04 21:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, buddy, your girl will come, be patient. Just enjoy life, don't be so down, and one day that girl will just show up.
Good luck finding that girl!
2006-11-04 21:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋