All I did was ask a question about myself and people responded with the negativity,why are you jealous just because I'm a good dude good with the ladies, and I KNOW IT people think I'm coming across as an azzhole or jerk and for those of you who thought I'm not confident you're mistaken
2006-11-04 12:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, it depends on how you responded to the question. I think that some people can be too cocky or bold, but it's nothing wrong with having confidence in yourself. It just means you have a strong outlook on life and you really value who you are as a person. I just feel that everyone are different, so they think differently and you still have to respect that. Just be careful how you phrase something or how you approach a certain issue. Some people are offended very easily or more sensitive than others, so that's why they probably did think you were an ****** for it. As for being a female, I know first hand that some guys do come off as rude when they are too arrogant, so if you are truly a gentleman, display the positive qualities more than coming off as being narcissistic.
2006-11-04 13:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I didn't see the question you make reference to. But, just by reading this "question" I can offer a bit of advise:
There is a huge difference between being confident and coming across as being an arrogant person.
Nobody likes a show off. Saying that you are "good with the ladies" implies that you are someone that has no respect for women and that you are a self centered person.
Try to find some humility in your life. That will get you much further than acting like a tuff guy!
2006-11-04 21:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your last question,so I don't know.There is one thing I do wonder about in men in general.All men on the net looking for a woman to date somehow thinks they deserve the hottest, trim,sexy,smartest woman ever.I go through the pictures and wonder if the see the same face in the mirror as in the picture they posted.I by no means think I am sexy,hot, but I am smart. I know I'm not gonna get the chiseled chest dude and frankly I don't want one.Give me a chubby man any day.But why are all the guys like that?Why can they be homely but expect beauty.
2006-11-04 21:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey you're obviously mistaken...not everyone is jealous of you. Obviously you don't have much to offer, so there is nothing to be jealous about sweety.
2006-11-04 21:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
loo if you fell you have to ask advice about yourself from a bunch of strangers then maybe you do have a confidence problem and you should consider mental help.
2006-11-04 21:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by imalwayswatchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are so good with the ladies...wat u doin on here?
2006-11-04 21:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. no hate .. good for you that you have no problems with the ladies .. but why are you here ?
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2006-11-04 21:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them catch you ridin dirty.
2006-11-04 21:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋