So theres this guy that I like, we'll call him Jeff. & Anyways Jeff and I are 14. We have known each other for about 2 years, because we go to the same school. In short, Jeff and I really like each other. Lately, we've been calling each other, seeing each other, emailing, everything. I'm curious though, am I too young for this? Is Jeff really al that? Or this a disaster waiting to happen. Jeff is sweet, funny, dependable, cute, and so much more. He just seems so perfect.
What are your thoughts.
I mean were not going to go serious, but like I think he's going to ask me out sometime soon. & I like him, but im not sure if saying yes would be the right choice.
2006-11-04 12:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him date him and dont go too far. Do it for fun and tell your parents. You seem pretty mature n smart for your age so I'm sure you'll be fine and you wont do anything stupid! Have fun! ♥
2006-11-04 12:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just have to know, do you have a parent caring for you? Dating is decided by the parent of a 14-year old. You sound like you make a lot of decisions on your own. That is not good. You are not going to get good info from others at or about your age on this question because many of the girls will encourage you because they are involved too deep and scared. They will not want to admit they are cheating on their parents and having to cover lie after lie. Get back to achieving something in school and forget about boyfriends until you are a Junior in H.S. Life can be so simple and satisfying if only young girls don't skip the "childhood" stuff and move into adult territory. Take a look at many of the adults you see in your community or neighborhood and see how their days are drugery having gotten pregnant prior to graduation. Lost opportunities and married to the ball and chain. Take care.
2006-11-04 21:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just puppy love and that's sweet. Don't try to make it difficult because it doesn't have to be. Be 14, don't try to act too mature for your age, like thinking about sex and all. You can have a nice relationship at a young age, without all those complications. It' s a good thing, you should be happy and not regret the way you are feeling. I think everyone goes through this phase or something as close to it. Most people think 16 is the best age for dating, and I agree, but if you really like someone, you like them and it doesn't go away so easy. You are a normal teenage girl, so don't even sweat it.
2006-11-04 21:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just F it and go for it. Life is short enough already. You got nothing to lose. Just don't get pregnant. And do it when you are ready. And by that i mean the sex thing. Again don't get pregnant. That will ruin your school years. Trust me, i have like 3 friends who messed up their lifes because a new one was born. They are fine now. But imagine what the baby will think when it finds out it's mommy didn't finish highschool!!!Ok ,ggod luck and take care!!!
2006-11-04 21:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by blak_nite 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look you are young and dating and relationships are not about who we can date or we have to have someone but it is about finding someone who you will fall in love with and be with the rest of your life. I think that you should really think things through. Listen to your heart but don't allow your flesh to get in the way of what is right. Is this person good for you? Are they going to respect you? think about it.
2006-11-04 21:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by jrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could go for him.Just make sure you dont make a wrong turn.If you do,you can peck kiss but dont go to the french.
Dont let it get tooo serious,IF he would eveer want to break up with you then you would never get over him.
Mine sux but it worked on me b4
2006-11-04 20:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well AS long as you don't go further into the relationship, there is no problem. ok but if you actually go to the movies and start going into restaurants I think you should wait till' you are a bit older and then do that. :)
2006-11-04 20:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, then you should say yes. you don't have to answer right away, you can take your time and consider it. Tell him that how you feel, and he should understand. Good luck!
2006-11-04 20:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not to young for it and if you two really like each so go for it all ready
2006-11-04 21:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basic dating is fine, but wait a few years before sex.
2006-11-04 21:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋