I have been hurt too many times and I need a solution!
2006-11-04 13:09:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that most of us are to eager to find someone,thinking that if we don't HURRY and find someone we might be "left out" and in doing so we allow people in our lives and in our hearts too quickly.
We don't really give a relationship to develop before we "jump" right in and we don't take time to really get to know that person before we "fall in love".
In the end we have only allowed ourselves to be set up for another heartbreak.
Do as I have done and look at the common thing(s) in all of your failed relationships and you will be amazed at what you discover. . . we tend to pick the same kind of people.
Another thing I tend to do is to find NEEDY people that I can take care of and in reality,I don't need someone to take care/remake etc.
2006-11-04 13:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Just Q 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, that is a very vague question. There is no rememdy to cure a broken heart, but the treatment to stop the pain is to find that "Mr. Right" who you feel that will sweep you off your feet and full of love and romance. We've all had our share of hard times. I know I have. But the only advice I can give you is to not give up on love. It will work its way around to you. Just listen to your heart and let it be your guide.
2006-11-04 21:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey there really isn't away to stop that from happening. Being a girl isn't easy. I have had my heart broken way to many times. Just remember that if it happens again you are a women so there for you are strong enough to over come any heart ache. Also remember that one day you will find Mr right and he will not break your heart. Good luck sweet heart.
2006-11-04 21:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating for now, because you're obviously choosing the wrong guys! Take time for yourself, get to know *you* better! Spend time with your girlfriends, go have fun! You need to heal your heart and mind. Once you take some time for a breather, you may be able to more clearly see why your heart gets broken, and then you'll be able to take steps to prevent it from happening again!
Good luck!
2006-11-04 21:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Demon Doll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we give our hearts to easily, to the wrong person, and for the wrong reasons. we don't seem to see that in our life time their will be many to pick from,and we just need to take our time, and not fall in love so fast. we invest so much, give ourselves too soon, and when it doesn't work out we feel rejected, and hurt. we expect that other person to give what we did, and in relationships there are no guarantees, not always a sure thing, just because we love someone that they will love us back equally. we sometimes open ourselves up for hurt, because we don't choose wisely, we choose people for all the wrong reasons, maybe overlooking one that we should pick for someone more exciting or one we think is better looking.
2006-11-04 21:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to date the same kind of men. Maybe your in a vicious cycle (dating guys who are abusive) If your not, then maybe when your in a relationship, try to give or leave some love for yourself too. It's really inevitable(having your heart broken) you just have to learn and grow from it :-)
2006-11-04 21:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a brake from dating a while and take some time to get to know yourself and why you are making bad choices. Don't put so much pressure on youself and be absolutely certain of your self-worth. You deserve to be respected and treated well (as does any human being). Go into relationships knowing this and don't take any BS (well, to an extent-- everyone has some BS). I know its easier said than done...
2006-11-04 21:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by kiffmekl1979 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you meet a guy,you need to make sure hes the right one.
MAybe you didn't give him enogh attention,or maybe even you spoiled him too much.Don't believe what guiys say.Your probley
a girl who has a heart unlike those guys.STay single until you know who your gonna go for.
2006-11-04 21:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop getting attached. just go out and have fun with ur friends if you can find a second job or take more hours. be a waitress or something. keep occupied. go to the gym just do something so u dont think about guys.
2006-11-04 21:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by omg! Its me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont knoe but i would like to know to because i have gotten heart broken to many times by the same guy
2006-11-04 21:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋