her and i like eacother. and i wanna ask her out, but i dont know because of the age differnece??
2006-11-04 12:25:19 · 33 answers · asked by 约瑟夫 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not WRONG...but you can get in trouble for it--especially if things progress when you are 18 and she is 15. I can't give you sound advice about it, but all I can tell you is that when I was 14/15 and liked older guys--they were very careful because of the age difference. And in today's society---you can get in a lot of legal trouble...so just be careful!
2006-11-04 12:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong. Just because others do it does not make it right! You are about to finish high school, she is about to start. Her focus should be on family and school. Your focus should be on what is next for you ex... college, military, career. A 30yr old with a 21yr old is ok. a 14-15 yr old with anyone over 16 is morally wrong. Your goals and interest might seem the same now, but they will change when you get out of high school. ANY older person knows this rather they want to admit it or not. If you to like each othe then remain friends for another year and a half and see then. Trust me man it is worth the wait. Emotions at this age tend to shadow logic. At least think about it for a while.
2006-11-04 12:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by brian_gros_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both under 18? Looks good to me. A three year difference is not uncommon over the age of 18. I'm 24 and seeing a 20 year old. Just remember when you turn 18 there are more consequences to you actions.
2006-11-04 12:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by tallspot07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what i dont get is why would a 17 yr old be attractive to a 14 yr old? But i was 14 and lost my virginity with an 18 yr old but if you guys like eachother than go for it! its only 3 yrs away. Lol
2006-11-04 12:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by latina_lachula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 3 or 4 more years, then see if you both still feel the same way. Her parents aren't likely to be comfortable with the two of you dating while she's so young.
2006-11-04 12:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Empy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I met my husband,I was 14,he was 17 same age as you,only thing I lied an told him I was 16,when he found out the truth it was to late he was hooked.We have been married for 42yrs. (I was 16) he was (19} am I sorry ,yes I missed my teenage yrs.My mom used to say "if only I knew then what I know now" so as I'm writing this I'm having a glass of wine,feeling sorry for myself.So if I am of any help enjoy your youth while you can.
2006-11-04 12:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lw's Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a freshman girl... I don't know. It depends, honestly. My close friend dated a senior when she was a freshman and it wasn't awkward or bad. So, if both parties are committed, then I'd say go for it. It's only a three year age difference. But remember that you can't do anything sexual because it would be /almost/ illegal...
2006-11-04 12:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a tricky one....I wouldn't really know either way but, if it seems alright with the parents I wouldn't think so...It also depends on when you turn 18 and she turns 15 that could also make a big difference good luck though wow that made my head hurt
2006-11-04 12:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. it's ok as long as it stays PG 13. she's too young for anything more than that + it would likely be illegal. if you're unsure, why don't you talk to her parents. if you're respectful it might be ok. when I was 14 I went out with a 17 year old & everything was very nice.
2006-11-04 12:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think its gonna work then go for it. Just be aware that when you are 18 you can get into a lot of trouble with her because you will be considered an adult. If you think that you can handle the resoponsability go for it. If not just be friends.
2006-11-04 12:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Matt A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋