About 4 years ago I met this great guy and we started dating. We were together for a year. After that we broke up and he went out with my friend. I asked her not to date him but she did anyway. They went out for about 7 months and then they broke up. Well about a year ago I got together with this guy and we are so happy. However my friend says I should not be dating him because she says I stole him from her. What should I do?
2006-11-04 12:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't the guy have a say in who he gets to date? Tell your friend to take a hike. If she can't be happy for you...she's not worth keeping as a friend.
2006-11-04 12:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only guy in ur town, I mean 1st u had him then she had him now u have him again. Is he a boomer ring? u & she should know better then to fight over a guy. He seems to enjoy the fact that he can get with her then get with u, I hope the 3 of u are using protection.
Theres no reason for her to get too upset with u because ua bd he can breakup and he'll just end up back with her.
So why don't u just dump him all together and get with a guy who wouldn't go back and forward U & ur friend and u and she don't have to fight.
I say dump him because
1.he's with u then ur friend and u again( thats nothing to be proud of if u look at it from the outside) he went between friends
2. He may end dumping u and get with another girl and then u and ur friend will still be mad at each other and he went off with someone else.
3. If he get with ur friend then he'll do it again or he'll get with a family memeber then WHAT?
Dump him he's not worth it
2006-11-04 12:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the hub bub all about?
Is there only one guy living in the town you live in?
Does this guy like test driving and enjoys jumping back and forth between the two of you?
There is an unwritten code between friends and that is if one gets rid of a guy,the other one doesn't pick him up.
Both of you are wrong and this guy needs to go.
As friends it is great to have things in common but a man should NEVER be one of those things.
In the end,he is going to break up with you and move on as this guy looks as though he is one who doesn't like committment. . .thus far he hasn't fullfilled one yet be it you or your girlfriend. . . . Fun is but he's a player. . . get rid of him and BOTh of you find someone else with some morals.
2006-11-04 12:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Just Q 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind your friend of the historical sequence of events between this triangle of love.
If that doesn't work, why not just split the guy in two so you can both have him.
Naturally, this means that your friend is jealous. If she's jealous, she's not over him, no matter what she says. If you've been with the guy for a year now, he's yours. You own him.
2006-11-04 12:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by s g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girl your friend sounds like a total b**** to me, cause she is asking you not to date him when you asked her not to date him and she did so i would say, date the guy!!!..... but this guy also sounds like a jerk cause he shouldn't of started dating your friend in the first place cause he should of known that sooner or later somthin like this would happen, beetween you and your friend.
so it all depends on if you like the guy and if you think hes worthit, and if you still wanna keep the friendship with her.
2006-11-04 12:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Very harsh. Thats a little harsh of her but she goes ahead and does it anyway. I mean really she said that you stole him from her when she just broke up! I think thats kind of retarded. So I would just ignore her.
2006-11-04 12:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you sleep/kiss or want to be with someone your friend did. It doesn't matter the order. Your friend was wrong but this guy is the one who is getting off while you two r upset.
2006-11-04 12:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody "Steals" Anybody away from Anybody.
People are with who they choose to be with when they choose to be with them.
This guy could start seeing someone else while he's with you too. Or you could become interested in someone else while you are with him.
Stuff Happens! That's Life!
2006-11-04 12:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, keep dating him, shes upset because you always get the prime beef and she keeps getting 2nds
2006-11-04 12:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Keanu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep him you got him first...And get rid of that girl...she ain't your real friend if she don't want you to be happy!
2006-11-04 12:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by i_no_the_answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋