Singles & Dating - 2 November 2006

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-02 02:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy i like will talk to me but he doesnt get the hint that i like him. wat can i do????????????

2006-11-02 02:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im torn between two guys, one my ex and a new guy. The ex is desperate to get me back having realised what he lost, and he's become more perfect than when i first fell in love with him. But this other guy deserves a chance does he not? He's been so sweet to me. Do i go back? Or see how things go with the newbie?

2006-11-02 02:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by Chez 1

Do you prefer a guy that has gone out with a lot of women(like a player) in the past or a guy thats had like two or three?

2006-11-02 02:00:48 · 25 answers · asked by Taco Bomber Baby 2

2006-11-02 02:00:19 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

My boyfriend is turning 17, he's a Junior in High School, and plays Varsity football. I'm not too sure on what to get him! Any ideas?

2006-11-02 02:00:08 · 22 answers · asked by chandee_international_beauty 3

2006-11-02 01:59:42 · 34 answers · asked by PRINCESS! 2

Ok, so, I've been hanging around this girl for 2 or so weeks now. She flirts with me and we hang out alot. I really like her, but there's only one problem.

She's got a boyfriend out of state.

How should i continue with this? Should I date other people and wait for her to break up with him or should I just continue hanging out with her? I'm really torn about this because I had vowed i would never mess around with another guy's girl, but she's just too awesome not to talk with. But i dont want to date other people have her assume that i dont like her.

The thing is, she never mentions her boyfriend when we're together, and she's never asked me before about who i liked.

Thanks!

2006-11-02 01:59:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Snowballing. I just learned what that is. As a male, if I do that, does that make me bi? And has anyone done that? I need guys and girls on this one.

2006-11-02 01:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 01:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetness 2

2006-11-02 01:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

I've been seeing this guy for over two months. We've only been out once because of my busy school schedule. He's also busy juggling three positions (I recently found out he carries three cell phones, two of which were issued to him by his job(s) and the third is his own personal cell phone.) We talk as often as possible and text each other little messages during the day to let the other know we're thinking of them. But sometimes, when I text him back, he doesn't respond. I noticed it in the beginning but didn't think much of it. Now it's getting annoying because I feel ignored. I know that he hasn't lost interest in me and this is probably due to his hectic work schedule. But I feel like a guy shouldn't do that, especially so early on. Am I being too demanding or self-centered? Should I mention it or just let it go?

2006-11-02 01:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok last week i was talkin to this dude right and he said that he did not have time to think about a girlfriend and he had to think about his grades and job. but he does not ever go to class so apperlanty he is not to worried about his grades right. ok then friday wheni got off the bus he asked myu best friend if she would **** him. then she said no and he came to school with a hicky on his neck and swear up and down that it is a slow roaster burn from work butif that was the case then he would of burnt his arm also right. so plz help me

2006-11-02 01:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1

i know this girl that has ahrd time meeting a guy. it seem like everybody she meet is rude and have no morals and very young and stuiped, but she did meet this guy whom is cool respestable to her kids and is also good to her, but the thing is he is married but he claims that he love her and by far he is the only man that is good for her, but he do have that hang up, so ladies my ? is would u settle for love in that matter?

2006-11-02 01:55:32 · 23 answers · asked by izzo808 1

I don't know exactly what to do...it'd be great if some of you could give me a couple hints...?

2006-11-02 01:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by The Nutmeg Master 1

2006-11-02 01:53:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

B/c...I'm just bothered by him...He seems 2 always wanna b up under me now...But...We dun't tlk on da phone...b/c he always works...Why do i really wanna break-up?!

2006-11-02 01:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by SyMoNe H 1

he is 31 years old and he is a diabetic. he has no trouble acheiving orgasm but actually c u m ing is a whole other story. if the mood is not just right and he is not 100% relaxed he won't c u m a drop. he says he still feels as much pleasure either way and right now the last thing on his mind is children. i already have one and we are happy with that. but i am young and he wants children of his own someday and i do want at least one more. so if we continue to be together will this affect our ability to have children? oh and i am not relying on this as a form of birth control. i use the pill and condoms.

and and another thing.. a few years ago he had his sperm count checked and he has a high count but a low volume. but alot can change in a few years.

2006-11-02 01:52:19 · 5 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4

2006-11-02 01:50:16 · 49 answers · asked by Joe 1

Thought I would fall for one and slept with him (incredible sex) when the other came along. I dropped the first because of disagreement we had, then started dating the second guy. Then the first guy starts texting/emailing me wanting to see me again (I know for what :)) Now I am talking to them both (not sleeping with both) and I feel like an idiot because I want to be with both, without the other knowing (which is so wrong)! I know I cannot do that. I know I am being selfish because I want to hold on to both in case the other doesn't work out. The first guy is such a great lover(I mean really great), the second guy is not good in bed (suffers from ED), but he's a good man. How important is sex in the long run? I know this is messed up. I fantasize about the first lover, but I know I cannot have both of them.

2006-11-02 01:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by wwjd 2

Twice i thought i found the right guy; the ist lied about his status, his already married and the second cheated on me. Im terribly hurt but was able to move on, i want to get married yet i cant find myself trusting again the way i did...what can i do to overcome this feeling?

2006-11-02 01:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by gie 1

so last night my b/f's ex called AGAIN last night....when i said something he got mad ( as usual) and was like " i dont know what you want me to do" so called and checked his voicemail...and she said she was coming back home from college, and she wanted to get together. When I asked if she left him a msg he said no. Is this b/c he doesnt want me to get mad...or do I have a cheater on my hands? I told him to call her back and tell her to stop calling, but he refused b/c " he HATES her", and wants nothing to do with her. Is this sketchy or it just me? pls give advice....I feel like Im going crazy. All night long I stay up wondering if hes cheating, Im depressed, and have no one else to talk to.
xoxo
randi

2006-11-02 01:49:03 · 6 answers · asked by RANDI B 1

If a woman is over 35 with no baggage (emotional or otherwise) is she ever likely to be asked out by a guy around the same age? Or do men in their mid to late 30's only date young woman?

I know you don't know me and it does have a lot to do with the person as an individual - their looks (I'm not a fugly), their personality (I'm loads of fun) - but should I start housing stray cats now?

2006-11-02 01:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by ShoCh 5

Me and one of my ex girlfriend who i'm deeply in love with was suppose to go to the prom and then she started talking about all these others guys and how she want me to pay for everything. so i told her that i didnt want to go to the prom with her anymore and then i seen her at prom with this dude! now me and her don't talk at all, but i still deeply in love with her and can't get over her what do i do?

2006-11-02 01:46:55 · 12 answers · asked by soutelzfinezt 1

We were chatting on MSN while suddenly he told me that he would like to go out with me . I agreed . Is it too fast cos I'm only 12?

2006-11-02 01:45:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe it's me but i have dealt with men who thought about themselves sexually; they want to be the ones to get off but when it came to reciprocate they aren't willing.

Maybe a couple of touches here and there but that's it.

2006-11-02 01:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2

skinny,chubby? Does it REALLY matter?

2006-11-02 01:45:16 · 4 answers · asked by milo2angel 2

actually I'm after practical tips ( aside from looking away or ignoring them) or any words of wisdom or biblical truths for instance. thanks!

2006-11-02 01:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by beulah v 1

2006-11-02 01:38:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi my name is Lin and i'm 18 years old an d i'm in love with a boy who is 16 years old.he is in love with me too but i don't know what i must do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!although he is 16 years old he is very mature for his age and i'm in a dilemma...i'm in love him but i'm not sure if i should continue with him because i believe that many people will critise this because i'm 19 and he is 16.they will say that i should have a relationship with someone who is 19 but i really love him.i want a lasting relationship but i'm always thinking about the others reaction.Can anybody help me?it's an emergency..thank you

2006-11-02 01:36:37 · 38 answers · asked by Lina M 1