Maybe it's me but i have dealt with men who thought about themselves sexually; they want to be the ones to get off but when it came to reciprocate they aren't willing.
Maybe a couple of touches here and there but that's it.
2006-11-02 01:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. He doesn't know how to please a woman.
2. His mother overindulged him and he is now spoiled.
3. He doesn't love you.
4. He hates everything about women except when he wants to get his jollies.
Take your pick. Then dump the b*stard.
2006-11-02 01:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick the right dudes then.....how i wouldn't know, but that's what getting to know the guy is all about.
I'M not a selfish lover by any means....because my whole mission is for her to get off first anyway. I can't even get OFF unless she's just as into it as i am. So the whole biased 'all men are selfish bit' is as false an 80 year old grannies teeth is.
And it works both ways, i've known a few who just wanted the good stuff and then booted my behind out the door once they were done with me. I never knew what a 2 dollar ho felt like until those moments.....never again.
2006-11-02 10:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are DEFINATELY with the wrong men honey. I know men who are very selfless lovers who are more than willing to give give give. Men I know seem to be incredibly turned on by pleasing their woman and it's always the most important thing to them. It's not just my man now but past fellas too and my male friends say the same so I would say you're either young and they will grow out of that or you are seeing a wrong type of man.
2006-11-02 09:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are selfish creatures. They always have been, always will be. It comes with maturity that they realize that pleasing a woman (making it all about her) is 10 times more the fun for them in the end. You will experience those who have lived and learned, and believe me - watch out when you do! Those men knock your socks off in bed!
2006-11-02 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the basic needs...procreation. We as animals have the basic desire to spread our seed...not to make the other person happy.
However, we have since evolved into animals that desire to be with one person. Now, we should make sure the other person is as happy as we are (I sure do!). Having said that, not everyone is keen on doing what it takes to reciprocate with a woman. From a guys perspective, it does take practice and LISTENING to a woman to get it right.
IMHO, every man who has a woman who is willing to have sex with them should respect her enough to make sure she is satisfied!
2006-11-02 09:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Samuel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your're right but there are some guys out there who actually feel its more important to please their women than themselves. They actually get the most pleasure in seeing their women "pleased" It just hard to find these days everyone seems to be very selfish. I am one of those guys however I'm taken. You just have to look for them. You're probably just dating the wrong kind of guy in general.
2006-11-02 09:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Almack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your dating BOYS or immature men. Satisfying a female is what turns me on and gets me off.
2006-11-02 09:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was like that. Keep looking, sooner or later you'll find someone who'll make sure you are taken care of first before he lets go. Took me 35 years to find a man who was like that, but thank god I finally found him.
2006-11-02 09:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you keep picking the wrong type of man. Talk to him. If he cares anything about you he will listen.
2006-11-02 09:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by bill c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think they should get of first and you can get off anytime,but not all guys are the same keep on looking girl
2006-11-02 09:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_chiffonsweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋