Singles & Dating - 1 November 2006

i told my g.f i was in love with another gal from my school (which is actually her) we have become really close friends now but she keeps asking me about the gal i mentioned to her i have given her hints i love her but she doesnt seem to get me
now i feel i should not have lied to her and i am scared how she will take it if she knew my true feelings but i love her a lot how do i tell her that and that i lied for a reason help me pls!!!!!

2006-11-01 03:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by razr 1

ok (big breath!) Here's the story - I'm relatively new at work - I was in a differnt wing than usual and went ot use the bathroom.
While I was making I heard one of the tiles slide back and then a c*ck came through the hole. I ws not sure what to do - it was just staring me in the face.
Finally i decided to help the guy and jerk him off.
and then I decided well the heck - and gave him a b j.

I finished doing my stuff in the bathroom - flushed and then walked out on the guy before he had a chance to c*m.

I thought it was kinda funny - what would you have done?

2006-11-01 03:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by lady j 1

Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now, he is a heavy drinker and is drunk most nights, so its no fun for me - hence to say that some aspects of our life are none exsistant, and it makes me so down. But when its good its great! But hes very depressed a lot. I was speaking to someone on line and we met up and things happened. And yes at this point everyone is going to slate me and tell me that I shouldnt be doing this, I know coz I feel really guilty but at the same time I want to be happy. Im so confused and dont know what to do. Yes I know its unfair on my other half - I wouldnt want it happening to me but at the same time, he doesnt treat my feelings with respect when he drinks.

Its such a mess. Part of me is thinking to not see the internet chap and fess up to my chap - coz its weird and didnt think I would feel like this and Ive never done this before - Ive always had it done to me. I have so much in common with the internet bloke tho. Its so hard. Please help!

2006-11-01 03:21:13 · 31 answers · asked by passionate_angel101 2

Why do I feel so bad and depressed when my best friend (a girl, I'm a guy we are 15) gets a boyfriend and when I see them together? I know I like her more than a friend, but shouldn't I feel happy for her? What should I do?

2006-11-01 03:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by flaminious 1

2006-11-01 03:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by revbotin 1

When I'm out of town I go to a bar and talk to different women, usually the younger ones. I went to Macy's and bought gift cards and put only $1.00 on them for value. On the gift card envelope I write down it has a gift value of $500.00.

I give one of them to one of the girls. When I'm gone in the morning, it doesn't matter. It usually gets them hot and bothered. I tell them I am an executive with the company and they light up thinking about all the gifts they are going to get. It works good as a closer.

Sometimes I use a fake business card saying I am an M.D. The broads fall for that one too.

Do you guys have any good ones that work like this? This has technique has been good for at least a BJ many times.

2006-11-01 03:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Irv S 1

whan im making out with my bf?

2006-11-01 03:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 2

"I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had sexual relations for around 9 months now. To begin with we did it often. It dwindled to 1-3 times a month..."


Thanks for all the good suggestions, and not really for the bad.
I have tried spicing things up, and I know he's not cheating, or not not interested in me. We have a great relationship besides this. We've talked about all that. I think it's just something in his body.
I think part of the problem is whenever we start, he normally comes pretty early on, but he can keep going, till he comes again. And I think he has a big self-esteem problem in that whole "minute-man" thing. I've heard being new to it, and stress and all that can contribute to stuff like this. I just want to know if any other guys go through this, and if it ever reverses and you get your libido back. Thanks.

2006-11-01 03:17:40 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 2

I am married but I deeply care for another guy who I have been intimate with. He is no longer speaking to me and I am hurt deeply. Is this love or just lust?

2006-11-01 03:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She complains how I don't miss her and other things of that sort. I explain to her that I do, the problem is knowing that she is involved with this other person bothers me only half of the time, I don't want to get all wrapped up in her, only to get my heart broke, I do date, but me and my friend remain friend. We are long distance at this time, but i will be relocating there in two months, she always says i can't wait till u move here, we gon do this and that. I'm not gonna be just worried about and still date. what should i do? how do you think she will react when i date other people?

2006-11-01 03:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How come every time I like a girl, she likes somebody who treats her bad? I always thought they just wanted to save people, but she's already saved me.

2006-11-01 03:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by Asdf000000 1

Unfortunately, I only see my guy about twice each week...we live almost an hour away from one another, and one of us works nights, while the other works days..so, that's all we get. How often do the rest of you get to see the person you're with?

2006-11-01 03:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by LibraT 4

It is often said that, "when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer"....it is also said that they can stretch only so far before they come springing back...i think this is actually a really good metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle...what do you think about this is this true?.........

2006-11-01 03:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think "desperate" & "desperation" are highly subjective terms, as different individuals will likely have different answers, when applying those terms to dating, romance, and sex.

I personally would define desperate as:
Abandoning one's morals, standards, and values to settle for less or to achieve a quick-fix.

Some examples of what I personally would describe as desperation: having an affair / soliciting a prostitute / having a one night stand / booty calls / patronizing strip clubs / rape / date-rape / taking advantage of someone who is intoxicated / continuing with someone who is abusive to you mentally, or physically / etc.

There is an overwhelming misconception in society, of what desperation is, in my opinion. Contemporary society says "looking" for someone, or desiring someone is wrong. If you are "looking" you are automatically labeled as being "desperate." All you hear are cliches, "It will happen when you least expect it," or "It will happen when you stop looking."

2006-11-01 03:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO KNOW IF I WILL "STAY" IN LOVE WITH HIM. WE HAVE BEEN DATING ONE MONTH NOW. I AM A SINGLE MOM, WITH 2 TEENAGERS AT HOME. MY CHILDREN DO NOT CARE FOR HIM THAT MUCH BECAUSE HE TENDS TO BE VERY DIRECT ABOUT WHAT HE THINKS AND HAS NO PROBLEM SPEAKING HIS MIND. NORMALLY THAT IS A GOOD THING, BUT MY CHILDREN FIND IT OFFENSIVE. THEY THINK HE IS RUDE. I KNOW HE CAN BE "GRUFF" AT TIMES. SHOULD I DROP HIM IF MY FAMILY DOSEN'T LIKE HIM AND THINK HE IS WRONG FOR ME? DO THEY SEE THINGS I DON'T?

2006-11-01 03:11:47 · 14 answers · asked by wwjd 2

Me & my boyfriend of 8 years broke up 5 months ago, since then I have met several guys, there is one that I am kinda interested in. My dilemma now is my ex has found out about him and now has had this epiphany that he wants to marry me now and can't live with out me. My ex is now telling me every thing I waited 8 years to hear. And I don't know if I should get back with my ex because it is the safe move, or should I move on and see what what my chances are with this new guy ( oh and by the way, I just found out last nite he does have some type of feeling for me)????????????? What should I do???????????????

2006-11-01 03:11:29 · 6 answers · asked by 806-203 1

The Average Guy has sex 1.5 times a week (79 times a year), and lasts about 14 minutes.
He has a 1-in-4.3 chance of cheating on his wife and enjoys a total of 12.4 sex partners throughout his life.
The odds that his wife will cheat on him are 1 in 8.3, and the average woman enjoys a total of four sex partners throughout her life.

2006-11-01 03:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by boythunder99 1

2006-11-01 03:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not talked to my ex-gal over two months, but I still miss her and love her. Her birthday is in a couple of weeks. Should I send her a card or call her to see if she would like to go out?

2006-11-01 03:10:04 · 19 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1

I haven't had a boyfriend for almost 6 months, I broke up with my ex because he didn't appreciate me, and a few other minor details. But, I am lonely, I don't want to hang out with my ex, my best friend is wrapped up in all of her own problems- and when I fall asleep I feel so alone. I want someone new, but I don't feel like going to pointless parties, and getting drunk- isn't there an easier way to find someone you can have a long lasting relationship with?

2006-11-01 03:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by Fran Y 3

yeah - NO ANSWERS INVOLVING 3somes please.
(wow, im a guy and i actually just typed that ;)
ok so i have been flirting with this girl for a while, finally got her number and have asked her out 2 times but shes always busy (which i KNOW is the truth) we had a party this weekend and i again met her sister. I was busy flirting and being flirted to by the one i know more.
Last night they both came out with us and we had a blast. i actually talked with the sister and she seems really really cool and she was flirting with me. WHILE i might add the one ive known longer barely talked to me... until i grabed her and pulled her out to dance.
Question is .....
ive "technically" flirted with both.... the both have flirted with me,
both are nuts cute and fun, question is how the hell do i handle this. I REALIZE I NEED TO CHOOSE ONE but is it already too late to go for one or what. How should i handle it.
thanks

2006-11-01 03:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:06:27 · 25 answers · asked by sexygirl 2

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had sexual relations for around 9 months now. To begin with we did it often. It dwindled to 1-3 times a month. I've talked to him about it several times, asking the normal "is it me?" because that's the only reasonable conclusion I can come to. He said it isn't me, it's him. He says he just never feels like it anymore. He says he really enjoys it when it happens, but it's so hard just to get it to happen at all. He's lost his libido, and he's only 21!! Do any other guys go through this? Does it ever come back? Will we ever stop acting like an old married couple and more like bunnies again?

2006-11-01 03:05:34 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ 2

is a brown noser? I am laughing so hard when that girl calls me that. But seriously what does it mean? Last time I asked her she showed me a picture of caca. Yeah you guessed it Princesses impersonator. I think she's obsessed with caca.

2006-11-01 03:05:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl really hurts me somehow, should I tell her? Or would it be better for our friendship if I kept it in?

2006-11-01 03:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by amber s 1

My girlfriend and I broke up after about 2 years of dating. I had bought her an engagement ring, but didn't give it to her. After we broke up I gave her the ring because I didn't want to see it anymore. When I saw her the other day (almost 4 months since we seperated) she was wearing the ring. Why would she wear it? I didn't ask her about it, but I intend to do so.

2006-11-01 03:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a little upset and she doesn't understand why? am I wrong ? why is there a need to call him when they haven't seen eachother in about 7 months and hasnt talked to him since the early summer??
does it matter that their birthdays are 2 days apart

2006-11-01 03:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by uwantme 1

was in a relationship for a couple of years but knew this person for 5 years all up, were best friends.still love him and have to work with him everyday.found out he wasnt the person i fell in love with but am having trouble letting go of the dream.was lead to believe he was something hes not and now am crushed.would never have him back but cant get rid of the feelings.

2006-11-01 03:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by tigerella69 1