Singles & Dating - 30 October 2006

Okay, me & my friend-with-benefits stopped sleeping together a few months ago because I started to have feelings and the timing was wrong because he still has feelings for his ex.

I am very open & upfront and I emailed him yesterday and told him that I am dating someone new. He knew I was talking to this guy anyway, so I doubt he is suprised.

I said "I know you could careless, but I wanted you to know anyway. I am not trying to make you jealous or piss you off. What would be the point in that? I know how you feel. He doesn't know about anything regarding...us. And I'd rather keep it that way. He does know that we are friends though. He & I aren't exclusive. Which means that you can still flirt with me, if you want."

He never replied. So, does this mean that he is cool with it? Is he pissed at me? I know I shouldn't care, but I don't know if he is mad or not. I feel like if I call or ask him what he thinks, it will be pushy.

Anyone have any thoughts?

2006-10-30 01:38:08 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

please give honest opinons and don't write me off cos i know i might sound jealous and petty. my boyfriend is moving in with his best female friend just him and her who he fancied when he first met her. she is renound for sleeping around and has no scruples for going after men in relationships in fact it gives her a buzz to do that. she isn't very pretty so it's not like i think she's a real threat cos she's a real stunner and he doesn't fancy her now and nothing has ever happened between them and they have been friends for 2 years. he knows i don't like her and don't like the way she behaves. don't get me wrong i have loads of close girlfriends and usually i'm a real girls girl.

basically can someone tell me i'm not being ridiculous cos he says i am but can he love me that much if he moves in with her when he knows it makes me feel prickly and is it understandable i feel jealous and weird about it cos whether it's right or wrong i just do!!!

elp!

2006-10-30 01:38:01 · 34 answers · asked by fionazzz 2

my boyfriend's sister-in-law wants nothing to do with me.She thinks I've hurt him,I've changed him,and that I took him away from himself.I tried to resolve the conflict directly by calling.She said "Too Late and don't ever call here again","I never want to see you","You are no good for him."She called me names like psychotic.She said I suffer from some mental psychoses.My boyfriend's brother (her husband) got on the phone with me.He started listening to me and understood my side.All she did was yell at him to hang up.My boyfriends mother and father get along with me just fine.My boyfriend has lied to me on multiple occasions.He proposed to me and then told me it was premature.He was living with me and then moved out.Now he is back with me trying to make it work.I have forgiven him.My family accepts my decision.I went through a depression last year & a miscarriage recently.It has been tough on BOTH sides.I did nothing to HER.Should he defend me or allow me to be insulted and excluded?

2006-10-30 01:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by confused and hurt 1

Wow, why is everyone so agressive & easy to provoke on here, am only having a bit of fun
Plus, would like to point out that I am not married, nor am I "doing the dirty" on anyone, just chilling after a harsh weekend
Peace & love to all

2006-10-30 01:34:59 · 13 answers · asked by poguig 1

please look up our first list of questions and give us your answers,, also why do so many married girls respond!! we are a couple of college guys writing a essay on the quirks of social sexual opinion! Tks from the whole crew!

2006-10-30 01:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by Bobby W 1

2006-10-30 01:30:47 · 14 answers · asked by luzdevina04 1

Its, been 5 long years, and we have an 12 month old son, just the other day before i was dumped, he told me how much he love me and would marry me if i got pregnat agzin, and that he would never leave me...now the next day its, its not going to work its over, get out, i have 2 other kids also. What to do. Im so screwed up right now, i dont know what to do? Help i need an easy button..i triped for a minute now im playing calm..i could kill him, but im not.

2006-10-30 01:28:56 · 25 answers · asked by CHEEETERS 1

GIRLZ ONLY

2006-10-30 01:28:16 · 6 answers · asked by Da #1 Chick 3

We have made out a couple of times, but never had sex. We flirted with each other for at least 6 months before anything happened. The only time anything happens is when we just happen to run in to each other. It's just a casual friendship, with obvious attraction and a little fun. One day he said "I like you as a person, in addition to wanting you." Then we didn't see each other for 3 weeks and he said "my feelings for you haven't changed." Then he held me close for a few minutes and didn't try anything else.
The only reason I am skeptical is because he always compliments me on my looks, except for when he said he also likes me as a person.
Is it possible he is falling, or just trying to get some?

2006-10-30 01:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a singal black 24year old --- I am above average in maney ways witch makes me the pirfect partner. My problem is that I like all types of wemen but dont have the guts to talk to so I have been singal for over year. what is the best way for me to aproch wemen of diffrent races?

2006-10-30 01:27:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found this perfect girl who has everything. good looking and a brain with a sense of humour. We get on really well and i have told her alot of times how i feel about her. I compliment her on everything. She was going out with a lad who was a tosser and she has just realised what type of person he was. I was a shoulder for her to cry on. She then started to become very nice towards me. I then told her again how i felt about her and asked how she felt and she said that she likes me as a friend. I am going to ask her if we can take friendship any further. What else can i do????

2006-10-30 01:26:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

did u met yours or do u know smone that met his/her soul mate?

2006-10-30 01:25:37 · 12 answers · asked by black_cat_heart 2

Isn't telling a guy he can have sex equal to telling a woman she can have a thousand dollars and all the time she wants at the Mall? In either of these situations there is very little chance of just a terrible experience. Women don't fare so well in the bedroom, so isn't it obvious we'd not be rushing to go there?And what might be the reaction if a guy made his wife's/gf's experience sexually like that Mall experience? Or should women be trying to make it that Mall experience themselves?

2006-10-30 01:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by createdorjustcrap? 2

When a guy tells a girl that she's his everything, what does that mean?

2006-10-30 01:23:51 · 8 answers · asked by Ieysha G 2

2006-10-30 01:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-30 01:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by illiot 1

I was 5 ft6 and only 102 a little while ago now i have always been slim 114 being the most i have ever been and my normal weight. I lost the weight because i was extremley sick and stressed out for months and very unhappy i lost a lot of my muscle mass that i had prior because i ran crosscountry and track.Anyway in september i decided i did not want to feel like a corpse because i was only fitting into a size zero and it was fitting me baggie.So i started eating better 3 full meals and 4 small snacks plus working out with a trainer every 5 days a week.My body is now coming back i am about 110 pounds again and feel so much better about myself my face even has cleared up and i have started doing my hair again and taking care of myself.My grades in school are doing much better but my bf seems to hate these changes and makes fun of me. last friday a guy made a comment that i was hot and my bf hit the roof! what can i do?

2006-10-30 01:13:58 · 24 answers · asked by shelly m 1

He dont call me like he use to and When i ask him where he is going he say he cant tell me and he always talking about my ex boyfriend to me and when we are in public he dont want to kiss me and huge up with me and everytime he comes to my house we may play around and then we have sex then he leaves can you tell me whats up cause I love him to death!

2006-10-30 01:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by AFRICAN QUEEN O 1

there is this guy lets see i like him and he likes me and well we work 2gether and recently we made out.... then 2 days l8r i found out that HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND AND A BABY!!!!!! i was so pissed and i confronted him about it he was all like " well she's ONLY my baby's mama" i dont know wat to do we work at a grocery store and im a cashier and hes a stock guy i have seen her at the store since then and i dont know wat to do....should i tell her? she's so pretty i feel really bad for her

2006-10-30 01:10:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-30 01:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by illiot 1

flirt with guys who are their friends but it doesn't mean anything it is just to have fun???

2006-10-30 01:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

every guy i know has said that although girls with money would be nice theyd all prefer a nice looking girl. are you all like this?

2006-10-30 01:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5

i finally get the guts to tell this guy i like him and he told me he liked me too but it's been days and i see him everyday yet he hasn't asked me for my number or even talked to me face to face other than to ask a simple question. Did i do something wrong?

2006-10-30 01:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-30 01:06:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl who i have feeling for...we talked for months and she started to call me dear and i address her as darling. However, recently she stop talking to me and told her close friend that she's going to have a relationship with some guy. After knowing this...it really seems like a knife has just stab me in the heart. So, i really want to take a sweet revenge by proving to her that she has made a mistake by rejecting me silently...without even telling me. damn..it really hurts..till now..

Anyone...please Help..thanks

2006-10-30 01:06:34 · 11 answers · asked by Red Beret 1

we need them.

2006-10-30 01:01:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I want to know if guys like a girl that is always available to go out with them in times of going out or a girl that will say no at times when asked to go out on a date????? What is better and will keep the guys around? Is there something bad in saying yes and being available all of the times when asked out? For example, my best friend is always working and going to school. Well, she always makes time for everything. So when her exboyfriend asks her out, she says yes and they go out. But she wonders if that is good in the long run or not? What should she do? What is the best thing?

2006-10-30 00:59:51 · 24 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2

2006-10-30 00:58:05 · 55 answers · asked by leonardo 2

An associate of mine claims to not be racist but is upset because his daughter is dating a black man. When I ask him why, he doesn't give a legit answer. i.e. "we should all stay with our race but that doesn't make me a racist."
Maybe so, maybe not...
What do you think?

2006-10-30 00:57:22 · 14 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 1

I would just want to know how a lady wants a gentleman to treat her. Specifically?

2006-10-30 00:56:50 · 12 answers · asked by JaZz 2