We have made out a couple of times, but never had sex. We flirted with each other for at least 6 months before anything happened. The only time anything happens is when we just happen to run in to each other. It's just a casual friendship, with obvious attraction and a little fun. One day he said "I like you as a person, in addition to wanting you." Then we didn't see each other for 3 weeks and he said "my feelings for you haven't changed." Then he held me close for a few minutes and didn't try anything else.
The only reason I am skeptical is because he always compliments me on my looks, except for when he said he also likes me as a person.
Is it possible he is falling, or just trying to get some?
2006-10-30 01:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good Question ----For some men like me when I don't make that move it is because I respect the girl and have strong feelings about her. So maybe this guy has got it bad for you so bad he does not want to blow it so he is tacking it slow. If you feel the same way you may have to be the one who make that move
2006-10-30 01:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let just say that he does care's for you but there's something holding him back like he doesn't want to make that move because he'affaird that you might not give in or you might tell him (no i don't like you like that ) you need to sit down with him and ask him to tell you the truth about the both of you if you are interseted in him i think should tell him or you should make a move on him ( I have a question for you , why is it always that the man has to make that move first there's nothing wrong with a women making a move first). yea we might think she's fast but i think in this case he wont say that to you . It doesn't hurt to try ok . I've been there .
2006-10-30 09:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by airborne1082 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's holding you close to keep from falling? LOL Every man is just trying to get some that's the only generalization that works for 100% of men! Unless they too young, got hang ups, or are gay1
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2006-10-30 09:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....continue testing the waters and see for yourself. I would advise you to be cautious....but to pursue things if you want to. The scenario you described sounds pretty sweet to me. It could be that this guy will remain a really good friend...or a future romantic interest. The only issue I picked up on...if the fact you only see him when you happen to run into him. If you want something else besides friendship...it'll have to be through planned dates. This could be a good thing. Good luck
2006-10-30 09:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to know for sure, but keep up the friendship if you like him and give him some encouragement and see what he does. If it is only for the sex you will know real soon.
2006-10-30 09:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like he is falling, but the not seeing or speaking to each other for extended periods of time (3 wks) is kinda hairy. he might like u or be falling but he isnt committed or serious yet either. and trust me there is a difference
2006-10-30 09:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by jenivive 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What would be wrong with asking him straight up? You seem like a really great person. Don't be shy and don't try to read his mind. From what you've said, it sounds like he's waiting for you to ask... HIM! Go for it girl!!!
2006-10-30 09:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, your intuition. What's your gut feeling about this guy? Only you know how you feel about him, and how you guess he might feel about you. Go with your intuition, because, chances are, that's what will tell you if he's falling or not. Good luck!
2006-10-30 09:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋