Ok, I want to know if guys like a girl that is always available to go out with them in times of going out or a girl that will say no at times when asked to go out on a date????? What is better and will keep the guys around? Is there something bad in saying yes and being available all of the times when asked out? For example, my best friend is always working and going to school. Well, she always makes time for everything. So when her exboyfriend asks her out, she says yes and they go out. But she wonders if that is good in the long run or not? What should she do? What is the best thing?
2006-10-30 00:59:51 · 24 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is good for a woman to be available to a man when he asks her to do something with him. It shows him that the woman is very interested and cares for him. Vice-versa, if a woman is willing to be available anytime, then the man should return the favor. Men love it when a woman will stop what they're doing for him.
2006-10-30 01:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know u wanted only guys to answer this question, but I just thought I would respond because I just read an article on this the other day so I thought I would share part with u. It said that guys don't want a girl to be available on their beckon call........especially guys u just met. By saying u are busy once in awhile shows the u have a life for one thing (which they like) because they like to know they don't have to be available at all times either, it shows them also that u do spend time with your friends outside of dating, which they also like to do, shows them u will not be needy, and most of all by being available every time they call means there is no pursuit, no challenge, and guys like the "chase" You have to leave them wanted more and working to get it. They used football as an example........guys get all excited to the lead up to the touchdown.........their adrenaline flows, if the touchdown happened 2 Min's into the game, its not near as exciting. Hope that gave u a little insight, I know it helped me. Good luck :-)
2006-10-30 09:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sacrificing your time is always a choice. If either partner has 100% availability expectations, then they will ultimately be the one hurt in the long run. Each person must have a personailty of their own so they can enoy who they are. The worst possible end in this scenario is when one partner has sacrificed their personality only to have the other partner leave. The one who has sacrificed will find themselves alone, and without knowledge of who they are without the other partner.
2006-10-30 09:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple sweetie.... if there is HONESTY, SINCERETY and LOVE then both of you will want to spend all the time together you can. I don't believe that life's daily plans like work, school or responsibilities should be cancelled but I do believe when you are in LOVE sweetie you both want to share all the time you can, it's a desire... Again if you are and you are with an honest person that is sincere it will work out but if not and either one is a player then I think no matter waht the decission it will fail... Check out the Sincerety, the Honesty and is that person a man/woman of his/her word.... liers and cheaters do not make good partners for life. Hope this helped.
2006-10-30 09:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cub 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if a girl (or a guy) is always available it may make an impression that she/he is a loser who has no social life apart from that person whom she/he is dating right now. and we all know nobody like losers. so it is highly suggestable even if u don't have any social life and really re always available just PRETEND that u re busy, say u re going out with someone else but in reality just stay at home watching tv. this will make impression u re socially popular and have very active life . and everybody want popular people's company
2006-10-30 09:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmm it is nice because it gives you an idea of the priority that the lady puts on the relationship ---- this is a two edged sword --- the guy should be equally willing to be available at all times OR better yet make times to go out that cause the least amount of disruption for both of them
2006-10-30 09:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys say they don't want games....but a lot of them love the chase.
I think the safe thing to do is to not be overly available in the beginning and don't have sex with them too soon. If they aren't the game playing type, they will understand and if they are, they'll love it.
2006-10-30 09:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey always a girl shd look for her priorities and then decide. If she thinks that it is Yes then say Yes and when she thinks it shd be NO then say NO.
A good guy is the guy who understands u and not who always wants his way out.
2006-10-30 09:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's a good idea going out and being available all the time, cause sooner ar later if something comes up it will catch up to you, another reason sometimes on purpose you should just have some space.
2006-10-30 09:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ankit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question is ... is she putting her own life on hold for this guy? Does she neglect her schoolwork to be with him? Are her grades suffering because she jumps every time he calls? If your answer is yes to any of these questions, then the answer to you is yes. She is harming her own future to live in the present.
2006-10-30 09:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋