Singles & Dating - 20 October 2006

2006-10-20 21:14:31 · 15 answers · asked by Tericka 4

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time (over 3 years) and things have generally been pretty good. A little while ago things got really rocky because this girl who's in our friend group started coming onto him (and when a pretty girl shows him attention he always gets a crush). Normally this is nothing. It's alright for guys to look at other girls. But this is more serious. It's seems like almost obsession sometimes. And she's just taunting him, like she does with all the boys to get attention. It's driving me crazy. I'm not sure who to be mad with. I had a talk with him about it and he said that he would try to get over her. But the other day when I pointed out that he hadn't really been doing well in that department he was pretty unapologetic. I know he's not cheating on me, at least not physically, but I hear about this girl all the time. Everyone thinks she's so great and can't see what a manipulative person she is. What should I do?

2006-10-20 21:07:41 · 21 answers · asked by Jacqui 1

Hi, I'm a total right brain and this girl I am dating is a lefty. I can't remember anything but my experiences, feelings, concepts, colors, and emotions. She remembers words, words, words, and just about everything factual and she likes logical statements, I only resonate to feeling statements! She did spelling bees as a kid. I surfed and played football. She has concrete things that she says she likes and dislikes. I am open about everything and not concrete, but am decisive like her.... Our styles of communicating are different even though I think we really want to support each other. How can I become more left brained to help her and resonate with her as a right brain creative type?

2006-10-20 21:06:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had seen many a men who i had no knowledge of
Not one posessed what it was that i was looking for.
When i first lay my eyes on you, a figure a form of distinguishness, in truth you made my head turn.
Your eyes spoke to me in such a way, and i became undone
And lost all conciousness of the world, because my heart was won.
I soaked up everything you stood for, with my whole being
Intoxicated with my thoughts, and not getting a moments peace.
In my awakening of what i felt inside, I could but only hope you saw my heart, when you searched within my eyes.
I saw and fell for, you conqured, and rendered,
And stirred in me the measures of love, that made it hard to breath.

2006-10-20 21:04:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 21:04:03 · 14 answers · asked by C T 2

about 6 monthes ago i was in the bar just got done w/ my shift adn a i was talking to a girl and she was hitting on me but i 'm too dense to realize it and then she hooked her leg around mine... well i didn't act on it and no i'm regretting it should i still go for it what would you girls do if you were in her situation i guess you could say, if a guy comes up 6 monthes after the fact..

2006-10-20 21:02:44 · 12 answers · asked by justaguy 1

do you drive better toxicated or sober...?

2006-10-20 21:01:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl, after the second day I lied to her that I won't leave her after having sex with her. but I broke my promise the other day. How can I break this stupid habit of lying?I feel guilty for doing this and this is my first time. help me out!

2006-10-20 21:01:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating a girl who doesn't like to hear that she is skinny. She thinks that being called a skinny girl means not eating enough and throwing up. I think that's rediculous, but how else should I describe her beauty then, she is beautiful and skinny, I mean My God!!? What else can I do to make her feel appreciated in her body? Thanks!

2006-10-20 21:00:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you finish with her

2006-10-20 20:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The girl I am dating says that she doesn't like public attention, she wants to be private?? It's hard to know how to treat her because I like public attention. I like being in a conversation with as many people as possible. Indeed she does too, she hangs out with a bunch of people on her birthday for instance, has a few very close friends that really like hanging with her. She's very attractive. I don't think that definitely has anything to do with it. She knows who she is, she's very funny not in a nerdy or corny way either, she's not shy in the passive traditional old skul girly way, she's outspoken, she's very confident, strong and independent. That's why I don't get it, I just don't know how to treat her and what to "shy" away from doing so as not to make her feel bad. It just doesn't make sense that she'd even bring it up, but I know it's important to her. I just don't know what this looks like when it comes to how I treat her and how I deal with her, her friends, my friends, etc.

2006-10-20 20:56:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

DO GIRLS LIke awkward boys?
dont say yes if you dont mean it
(for example, all girls say they like nice guys and its the INSIDE that counts.but we all KNOW that that's total bs haah)

im the most awkward human being on the planet. (my friends think its funny though)
WOULD YOU DATE ME

no guys answer this please

2006-10-20 20:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 20:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to this girl for a while. She keep ask if I would like to meet up sometime this week. I say sure, but when end of week get closer, I tried to email her and she didn't answer it until few days later. She would apologize and talk about how busy she have been and ask if I would like to hang out again. Same thing happen again!

I have been through this with a girl I use to date and it's my biggest pet peeve when a person cancel plan more than half of the time. So I want to somehow tell her that I'm willing to meet up but this is her last chance to stick to her words.

I'm thinking about telling her "if you really want to meet up, I guess we can, but if it's so hard for you to find a hour or two to meet up, then may we shouldn't make any more plan"

Would that sound good? Or do someone got any suggestion?

2006-10-20 20:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the best place to pick up a nice girl, I don't like bars/club scene, I'm a smart/funny/confident guy, I just moved to a new city, want to meet girls, I'm kinda shy, but my friends all encourage me to approach random girls and "pick up", 'cuz I'm outgoing, fun, etc. I usually know girls through classes/friends, common interest, but if I were to approach random girls, whom I'm attracted to, which places are the best? which places do girls go , other than bars/clubs, to be open to get picked up, I don't wanna bother ppl. when they're going about their business(like library) and be rude :) and Ladies, how do u like to be approached? just be yourself, smile, confident, no pickup lines, what signs do you express, so that I know when to ask for your contact (email, phone#, msn), i.e. laughing, telling details about urself. which of these contacts are u most willing to give?

2006-10-20 20:51:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have dis relation for 4 yrs.so sometimes i feel he is bored.i know he loves me but i am afraid that he may stray.he has left me a couple of times but he has returned after a few months.this hurts a lot.once he left me and proposed another girl.but when she refused he came back to me.how can keep him forever?

2006-10-20 20:50:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is around 35 years old and I am 20 years old. She has a shop near to my friends shop. She is very cute blond, nice body but she has 3 kids and her husband cheating her with other women every day. She knows that as my friends told me. She is smoking and she is very playfull. She doesn't know me but she have seen me.

2006-10-20 20:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by ben 1

who would you rather date a guy that is tall or a guy that is short and why?

2006-10-20 20:46:48 · 24 answers · asked by justaguy 1

I'm dating a man who's IQ is 175 or above. I have noticed that he thinks differently than most We are getting along very well but I am wondering if anyone else has been in this situation. Im looking for insight or advice so I can be like to be better informed...

2006-10-20 20:42:40 · 8 answers · asked by Lucky 1

2006-10-20 20:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i see her in hallways at school
i dont even know what grade she is. i'm a senior. she might be a freshman for all i know. (hope shes not though) BUT SHES THE PRETTIEST GIRL IVE SEEN IN MY LIFE ( i know im being vain haha)

we always have eye contact every time. (but i think it's cuz im always starign at her and then she stares back cuz i was doing it first lol)

ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO APPROACH her?
practical ideas?? for example, something YOU or NORMAL people would do? i wouldn't randomly go up to her and just start talkign to her because she's a TOTAL stranger who just happens to go to my school. feedback?

2006-10-20 20:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 28 and been with my bf for 7 years but still no proposal. he moved to another country last year for work but asked me to wait for him. saw him last month and still nothing, no plans. in that 7 years he's been pretty reliable and straight -- no cheating, whatsoever. not getting any younger and feeling really frustrated.

2006-10-20 20:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by Seraph78 1

2006-10-20 20:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by just me 2

when my boyfriend and i decided to have unprotected sex for the first time, the weirdest thing happened to me. it was really emotionally charged (we had had a fight a few days earlier and we had ended up telling each other we loved each other) and relaxing (my boyfriend has more... experience than i do, so he knew what he was doing). anyway, right in the middle, i had this feeling that i had never felt before. i was shaking and everything. a while later, when we finished, i was instantly knocked out. was this an orgasm and why did i fall asleep right after? also, does this have anything to do with the fact we had no protection?

2006-10-20 20:29:43 · 11 answers · asked by brokenchick06 1

your talking to this guy, and you like this guy alot, you find out that he is talking to other girls (the guy is single) would you still talk to him or forget about him...? if you choose to talk to him how would you feel...?

2006-10-20 20:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy that goes to my school and i really like him, but he doesnt like me and he told my friend he thinks im hot and every time i ask him out he says NO!!!! WHAT SOULD I DO??????

2006-10-20 20:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by playboybunnyamy 1

what are your views on this?

2006-10-20 20:24:05 · 22 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

could use some of the answers

2006-10-20 20:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by The Hitman 4

How would you describe you man or woman of your dreams?
Or a celberity if you want

2006-10-20 20:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by playboybunnyamy 1

met a girl 18 years younger than me on internet dating site, im 42, we have talked loads and meet next week, we love each other allready and we get on great, neither 1 of us is unnatractive or desparate, ive never experienced anything like this could it really work in real life?? its kinda scarey, thanks

2006-10-20 20:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous