Singles & Dating - 20 October 2006

I don't where to start,,
OK, I do have a boyfriend and I do love him sooooooo much and I don't why. I mean, he's very sweet, patient, and so on. But it was only at our first year. After that he's totally change, he's become mean, unfaithfull (but I can't prove it) etc etc.
I think he doesn't love me anymore, I think I know that, but my heart won't believe it. I'm totally depend on him. I feel unhappy, useless, embarassing, not confident without him. I kept thinking nobody wants me like he did. Whereas everybody said to me all the time that I am a pretty clever young girl and I deserve to get more than him. but my heart just won't believe it.
Can somebody help me to get through this situation? Can't somebody help me to try to find "someone" for me?

2006-10-20 18:24:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 18:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Mhel 2

i live in another city. he is a weathy professional. his relationship with the girlfriend predates mine by two years. i believe that he has narcissistic personality disorder. i also (perhaps erroneously) believe that he loves me. he does not have a commitment from the other girlfriend (this is not conjecture).

2006-10-20 18:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by pame 1

I like this girl; she is not too pretty, but I think she has many charms. We talk quite often and sometimes work on our math hw (by the way I'm a college freshman). However, I ain't so sure if she thinks of me as a datable guy. I'm actually kinda dying to know. My friends tell me I shouldn't give her an impression that I'm trying really hard to be with her. I'm bad at this game of love, and I just want to tell her straightforwardly that I like her. The problem is, I don't know when the best time is. I unfortunately have never had success with girls so far. This time, I don't wanna be rejected. My mind tells me that I should take it slow, but at the same time it is losing patience. I don't know what to do. If you know how to get a girl successfully, please give me some constructive advice.

2006-10-20 18:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok Over the summer i met this amzing girl who lifeguarded at my park and noticed she had a little thing for me, but she also lives a half hour away. I ended up only getting to talk to her a few times because of my football. so my summer had past and i didn't even know her. But somehow i ended up asking to homecoming.but a little late, like 2 weeks away. but anyways the dance went horrible because her stomach wasn't feeling to good at the time so all we did was sit and talk but at the same time it was good because we got to know each other better. after the dance we went to an afterparty and then we went to my house, where she was going to sleep of since her parents didn't want her driving late. so anyways we go downstairs and watch a movie then end up making out for about 3 hrs and at the end she was dry humping me. lately i have been trying to make plans with her but she cant seem to make up her mind. is she telling me she doesnt want to hang out or am i overthinking this one?

2006-10-20 18:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by Chunga L 1

Is it because they think ugly women are easier to get in bed?

2006-10-20 18:20:26 · 14 answers · asked by Newcomer 2

there is this guy that i really like. We been seeing each other for sometime. I really want to tell him that im a virgin but cant because he thinks i did it before and that im very experienced. Yes i had bofriends that i fooled around with in the sex department. the only thing is that im a virgin and havent lost it yet. we are planning on having sex and i really want to do it with him but im really nervous about it. How do i tell him im a virgin when i told him im not. I dont want to hurt him more than i already have. I care about him and he cares about me too. Help i dont want to lose him

2006-10-20 18:18:47 · 15 answers · asked by sue 1 2

does that mean something? And he put a hat on me today, then flicked my hair because it gets me mad...but he does that thing with the eyes too, I dont get it.

2006-10-20 18:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do u do wen ur boyfriend tells you that you dont treat me any different than my friends you treat me like a friend. Even though you wait for him to call, you luv to hear his voice, you wait at his bus stop for 2 hours to see him, you smile when you look into his sky blue eyes, you fall asleep thinking about him.....♥ ??

2006-10-20 18:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Skaterboii's Best Friend 1

so i really like this guy. he's soo sweet, 'n he's SUPER funny. i have every class with him, and his locker is right next to mine, we talk to each other a lot, and people always tell us we flirt.. okay maybe we do but whatever. he's always so mean to me, in a joking way of course, and it seems like he likes me, my friend thinks he likes me too.. but he says he likes my other friend, and i know i can always trust him so i believe him that he likes her.. so what do i do? cuz it seems like he likes me, but at the same time it doesn't.. he's such a great friend, and i would never wanna ruin our friendship, but i like him a lot!!

2006-10-20 18:13:34 · 2 answers · asked by soccer loser0903 3

for people12 and older. I have a really awesome boyfriend but I don't think its going into anything. I mean we kiss but I think hes cheating some girl is always coming up to us. And getting all over him and he says hes busy or can't go out tonite. Its been two weeks since the last date. How can I tell hes not or is cheating on me?

2006-10-20 18:13:17 · 5 answers · asked by •mercury• 1

2006-10-20 18:11:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if some poop particles got mixed in?

2006-10-20 18:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any tips? This is the first time dating a soccer mom (literally) but she is about the most grounded and prettiest woman I've ever met. I have no kids and never been married. How do I approach this?

2006-10-20 18:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2

2006-10-20 18:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by CDog 3

Okay, I am in 8th grade. There is this guy in my class named Chris. I have liked him for the past year. When I told him this he freaked out! He said that he hated me and would never go out with me. But for the past week he looks back from his seat( I sit in the back of the class and he sits in the front). He just stares at me for about 1-2 minutes and then looks away when I see him looking at me. Also, about 2 days ago, I was doing a math problem on the board and he told the entire class "She got Jeniffer Lopez's @ss over night." I didn't find this out until the day after from the entire class. So, my question is does he really like me or is he really just that perverted? I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. He might just want to"get some" off of me. Can you please help?!

2006-10-20 18:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I like this guy. I have no idea what to do, We've dated before but it didnt work out. But this year at school he turned into a total sweethart! I want to ask him out, but I dont know if I should. Please I need help. By the way I think he likes me.
I am also moving far away. and he's like very upset. He says he's gonna buy me somthing before I leave so I dont forget him.

2006-10-20 18:06:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 18:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, my fantastic movie which is going to top the box office. Also does anyone know who 'Tommy and Gina' are who he sings about in several of his songs?

2006-10-20 18:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well we had two really good conversations that I felt pretty confident about. However... our last one I had asked her if she had a locker partner. I told her that my locker buddies kept messin around with me, and that yea it was funny but I was gettin tired of it. She said she already had one I was like oh that's cool, where you headed next? She said Bio so and so. But then we kinda drifted apart without saying goodbye.

The next day *She knows my sister but doesn't know I'm her brother yet* she was talking with a group of friends, my sister was in the group and she heard her bring me up in a conversation. She said something like, "This dude I didn't even know asked me to share a locker with em the other day"

So I don't know if she was trying to get their opinion on whether a random person approaching her like that would have interest or is just creepy.

Either way I'm lost on my next move.

2006-10-20 18:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok is the deal with girls saying they want all this (nice, charming, good looking, sensitive) stuff from guys, but they end up going out with the wanna be gangsta types? Very seldom do these so called "gangstas" have any of these qualities. In my opinion it's immature and all you girls that promote these kind of qualities by dating these dorks need to get with the program. Don't you realize all your doing is setting yourself up to get treated like crap, like a whore, and more than likely your "gangsta" guy isn't gonna be able to support you. So girls let me know ... Agree/ disagree?

2006-10-20 18:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by travis R 4

I am plus-size woman, and i found out alot of men like that, but at the same time, some men make jokes of plus-size woman saynig that they be too big for this or that, So i wonder how many men like their women to be plus-size?

2006-10-20 18:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by red74745 2

2006-10-20 18:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by sadgreeneyes3 3

Hit me, should she? She nailed me with a softball bat yesterday and cracked me in the testicles with a 9 iron while I was sleeping. Is it okay to hit her back a little? I only weigh in at 90 lbs but she's a fat woman. I want to leave her but she said she'd kill me. She said she'd smother me in the shower...what should I do?

2006-10-20 17:56:21 · 8 answers · asked by Rabid 2

2006-10-20 17:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by cute 1

2006-10-20 17:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by CDog 3

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was drunk dialing him. . . so maybe she will stop .

2006-10-20 17:50:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So...this girl and i broke up after 2 years of dating..We started doing all the sex stuff about 3 or 4 months into our relationship...Now I am worried that I will never find someone like that ever again..I know its probably not true, but I keep feeling that she will start doing that with some other guy any day now and I will never do it..She was the one to start everything pretty much in our relationship...I didn't want to feel like i was using her..I have MANY girl friends but I just feel like Im never going to get into the sex stuff ever again...Does this happen often???

2006-10-20 17:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2

there's this guy at my school, and im positive he likes me, but i don't like him, but, because of my curiosity, i like to be in his view to see what his reaction would be. i don't want to end up liking him, but i don't know if i am or not. am i starting to like him, or if not, will i, at any time soon? i hope not.

2006-10-20 17:49:56 · 22 answers · asked by Rachelnpl 2

A guy gots 2 know

2006-10-20 17:49:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous