Ok is the deal with girls saying they want all this (nice, charming, good looking, sensitive) stuff from guys, but they end up going out with the wanna be gangsta types? Very seldom do these so called "gangstas" have any of these qualities. In my opinion it's immature and all you girls that promote these kind of qualities by dating these dorks need to get with the program. Don't you realize all your doing is setting yourself up to get treated like crap, like a whore, and more than likely your "gangsta" guy isn't gonna be able to support you. So girls let me know ... Agree/ disagree?
2006-10-20 18:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi I was one of those girls a few years ago.I thought being with a "Thug Gansta" was all that! At first it was fun my boy was bad and everyone knew it and everyone wanted him,It's like a power trip!And then we were all lovie dovie and after that he started treating me differently.He started cheating and selling drugs and he was always really jealous if I guy looked at me or talked to me and I thought he really must love me if he's that possessive! Wrong he accused me of cheating on him and then started smacking me around with his big biceps sticking out in his wife beater shirt! I put up with it for a while like a idiot and then I came home from work 1 night and found him and this whore doing it in my bed!! I kicked her *** and beat him with a baseball bat and put him in the hospital,and that was it for me! These girls don't have any self worth and feel like this guy is going to make her feel like something,But they'll learn the hard way like I did! I learned a lot from that creep and now have a honey who treats me right!
2006-10-20 18:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of those ganfsta guys are wimps for one thing, but they make women think that theyll protect em, whcih is crap anyway. there was a girl at my old job who had a "gangsta" boyfriend, he was tough, as long as he was only emotionaly abusing her. one day i decided to put an end to his crap, adn threatened him.(moree like a given ultimatum then a fist under his jaw) adn he was a foot and a half taller than me. im only 5 6 with tattoos and peiircings, not verry threatining. he never did that crap again, a week later they broke up. myt point is this, girls think that they will be protected, but teh gangstas are jsut older bullys, the true wimps of society.
2006-10-20 18:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you like cheaters-real gangstas dont cheat they can be tough but they put their faith in Jesus and serve him fearless or others and like girls that love Jesus heart and soul too. What you like is a cheating immature guy why not get real and do the deal? this is the deal=Relax you are in the best position right now-your free. socialization is a good thing-hang out in a good group if you dont have one go to a good Bible church and go to their youth meetings-watch the others and make friends-everything else will come natural-and one clue is if you cant see yourself with a certain guy the rest of your life married=he isnt humorous enough or caring-dont waste your time-be careful with your heart dont just make a guy your b/f and do whatever to keep him-let everything be mutual-give and take-if he doesnt honor you and respect you and your body-dont even go there-you will have a bad reputation and only the losers will go after you and use you and throw you away too. John 3 has the key-let Jesus into our heart to help us, asking forgiveness even for one lie-sin and he will come in and be your best friend too. have a good relax and dont worry it will all come out good -if you sow good seeds you will reap good. David
2016-05-22 06:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK for the most part you are wrong. I have a "gangst" MAN. We have been together for quite a while and we have 3 kids. He treats me wonderful and supports us while a attend school. He has all those qualities. But most women we for some odd reason are turned on by the bad boys.
2006-10-20 18:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by mirandau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls want a man that treats them good and is nice to them but they also want someone that can protect them, be tough when it comes to other things, they want like a guardian that will make sure no one hurts them, not only physically but emotionally too thats why they go for the tough ones, gangsta types....but that guy must treat them like a queen too
2006-10-20 18:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're forgetting the fact that if there are wannabe gangster guys there's also a counter-part. The wannabe gangster woman.
Most of these woman are the sleezy type and the normal sensitive guy wouldn't want to date them. So they go to the scum.
2006-10-20 18:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like the ALL gangster type
but not the the othertyps
like the people that are in between: like jean pants(not all the way to the floor but...) and like polos or button up shirts
so i get what you mean but im not all like that
*well ya*
<3
2006-10-20 18:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by ballet_tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i got 2 have me a gangsta not a sorry little boy holla
2006-10-20 18:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all gurls like the gangster type! its really just what the by does,,,if hes a goodie tooshu who like never talks to gurls then they will probably forget about him and stuff! but if like he talks to gurls then they 'd feel more comfortable!! so ya,,,,it could be either way!
~~~me~~~
2006-10-20 18:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they provide an over-all protected feeling.
It feels like if someone messes with you, he'll kick their ***.
<3
stranger.
2006-10-20 18:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋