I'm having trouble in my romance life.?

Question

for people12 and older. I have a really awesome boyfriend but I don't think its going into anything. I mean we kiss but I think hes cheating some girl is always coming up to us. And getting all over him and he says hes busy or can't go out tonite. Its been two weeks since the last date. How can I tell hes not or is cheating on me?

Answer 1

Most importantly, if it's been two weeks since the last date and he's making excuses to avoid dates with you, it is an obvious sign that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you to a higher level of commitment (no offense). With that said, it is best if you shrug him off and move on. At this point it is irrelevant as to whether he is cheating.

p.s. if he allows a girl to be all over him in your presence, how can you give him so much credit for being an awesome "boyfriend"? He is so disrespectful!

Answer 2

go read the wikipedia entry on narcissistic personality disorder. often cheating people fit into this category. does it fit?

the key here is that he often has other things to do. does he tell you what or who they are? if not, you can assume that there is a reason why he doesn't.

you give him the benefit of your doubt. do what you need to do to reassure yourself. where does he hang out? go there on a night he declines your company. or send a friend. do what you need to do to disentangle yourself.

it only gets more painful later.

Answer 3

if its been that long since youve talked something is not right. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site

Answer 4

I hate to break it to you but your first instince is usually the right one. Break it off, don't waste your time.

Answer 5

if your in doubt its probably true