Singles & Dating - 20 October 2006

Why do girls feel bad when they turn someone down? It's not like they can force themselves to like the person, either they do or they don't.
I showed interest in a girl at a club, I winked and starred at her for the longest time and she didn't even want to look at me. So I walked over to the pub bar to wallow in my sorrow and when i turned around, i saw the girl looking at me all sad. The girl approached me but i think she did it out of pity. Why do girls feel bad for turning someone down?

2006-10-20 22:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by dnice 1

he was avoiding me well hed like say ill be on later and then he would not message me and once I said hey and he didnt respond. I was told to avoid him a bit to make him want me more because he probably feels loose around me knowing Im always there and im not going anywhere how 2 make him want me more?

does this sound ok for a message to him?
should I post this now or to wait and see if he wants to talk to me after I "avoid" him...

hey, muffin is everything ok?
you dont seem like talking lately?
(please tell me if Im doing something wrong) - I was advised not to put this in.
wub you!

should I put love instead or nothing at all?
he always puts like wub or luv so maybe to sound like him...?

btw Its ONLINE so I cant see him to tell him to his face

2006-10-20 22:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by ██████████ 3

i have an asian boy friend thank you.its just when we walk around alot of english lads shout things like what u doin with one of our gals.i love all nationalities if there nice with me then its great

2006-10-20 22:21:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i think i have a high sex drive, cause i well its hard to say but, my mum has it too...but i dont know how to handle it..i just feel like haveing sex all the time...

2006-10-20 22:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by maz999379 2

how do u no if a guy likes u. can he sometimes be shy and other times not be.

2006-10-20 22:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Fay 1

i like my best friend but right now he is in some other place finishing his 12th. he has a girl friend out there, but she is damn stupid and i am sure they will not be continuing once he is back. i know him since a very long time and i am very compatible with him. he is going to be back in 6 months. what should i do? i sometimes feel very bad when he talks about his gf to me but i as well know that he can leave her for me. should i help him in his relationship? or should i be selfish enough to see what i like and to act accordingly?

2006-10-20 22:16:54 · 16 answers · asked by angel 1

does it bother you when you see english girls going out with asians

2006-10-20 22:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you all think that the people that get on here to make racists comments have the guts to say these things in front of the race they are talking about?

2006-10-20 22:05:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is 29 and i am 21 years old- we´ve been going out for 3 years and soon were getting married.. al my girlfriends are planning on going abroad, to europe or south america, for a year or so.. i want to go with them a little but i i go for a year, i know and my bf know we would break up in the meantime, and he is THE MAN of my dreams... he is perfect, loyal, atractive, fun, etc. i have already been abroad twice in my life... should i go with my friends and risk the best thing that has ever happended t me or stay with the person i love and want to spemd the rest of my life with? do ur life plans shange when u meet the one?

2006-10-20 22:04:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my first time to enter into a relationship, my bf comment is I dont demand anything from Him, I thought it would be better if I will not do that, most guys are complaining bec of demanding gf. am a lil bit confused on that and actually I dont know what to ask him, I might go beyond my limit line if I do.

Please help me before it's too late, I might loose him for not doing so, aint?

2006-10-20 22:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he avoided me so I was advised to either avoid him or make him want to talk to him...well its the same...
does this sound ok for a message to him?
should I post this now or to wait and see if he wants to talk to me after I "avoid" him...
hey, muffin is everything ok?
you dont seem like talking lately?
please tell me if Im boring you or if Im doing something wrong...
wub you!

should I put love instead or nothing at all?
he always puts like wub or luv so maybe to sound like him...?

2006-10-20 21:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by ██████████ 3

money,power

2006-10-20 21:54:20 · 19 answers · asked by macdonna06 1

Guys, would you flirt with or touch a girl you are not interested in or find attractive?? thanks! :)


ALSO, would you tell a girl she is beautiful if you don't think she is??

2006-10-20 21:53:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i considering to start dating this guy, some friends of mine told me that he is'nt cute while others told me that he is really hansome,i think that he is extremly hot, lovely face and a great body. what are your opinions of him?

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2006-10-20 21:53:09 · 22 answers · asked by sexylisa069 1

i haf been goin out wit a guy fer more than a year now....bt v dun live in da same city n if i continue i myt get 2 c him once in 6 monthz til 2 yrs wen i finalli go settle in da same town...v both r vry serious abt each otha n our relationship, bt i dun thnnk it wuld wrk since itz vry painful but yet i dun wnna brk up wit him! i cnt get ovr him. what shd i do?...shud i continue n try n wrk it out fer 2 more yrs or shud i give it a brk?

2006-10-20 21:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1

Everyday i get hit on or harrased by a black man & have to hear dirty language such as, " oh babe..u know u wan dat black tin " . Why do black men have no respect for women , especially think that they are God gift to women & white women are dieing to sleep with them ? Sorry i had to write this, but i'm sick & tired of been harrased sexually by them on a dailly bases & i don't even dress or act provocative.

2006-10-20 21:51:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

so here is the story..i had a crush on this guy for 3 years already..he is the heartrobe type of guy..we had been close friends for 2 years..then we weren't classmates this year..we have this mutual friend..then this friend tells me that the guy ask questions about me and wants to be close to me again..what does this mean?im confused.

2006-10-20 21:51:02 · 5 answers · asked by shoelaces 1

Me and my ex-fiance broke up a few years ago. but I still love him more than anyone in this world. I know he still has feelings for me.
We broke up over a long distance relationship. now we are close together again. But we barely ever talk... This guy is the one. Like the one you would refer to in a nice fairy tale. I love him very much. should i fight for him and try to get him back?

2006-10-20 21:49:03 · 19 answers · asked by Harmony22 2

I'm having serious dating issues.I recently met this guy,we have some serious AMAZING time together.Everytime we go out we can't keep our hands away from each other!We enjoy each other's company,he introduced his friends and his family to me within one week!It's so hard for me to find someone I am attracted to AND have a good time with,but it's him!I work at a bar,so I meet men every night.I really like him! He works as a restaurant manager and I am SO INSECURED.I feel like he meets girls all the time..He came up to me in the restaurant he works in, I feel like if he can come up to me,he can go up to anyone he feels like!I like him a lot, but recently, I've been texting him a little too much during his work hours and we had a "chat"..He thinks I am too clingy and I must admit,I am.But I truly like this guy and I believe he likes me a lot too.But after that "chat" we said give it a few days.Think he will call?And when he does,how can I change to keep him?I need help!I really like him!

2006-10-20 21:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by Gina C 1

we look at you as a soft beautiful creature and a gift from god to us we love you alot and desire you alot to the limit that we desire your toes
but how do you look at us? we men are less beauty ,less soft ,less sexy , more agression , we have hair and muscles in our bodies
do you find us lower creatures and less sexy than you? or you attracted to us becuse the attraction to opposite? and do you find other women bodies are sexy to you because thier beauty and softness?

2006-10-20 21:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it is wrong, I met a girl Jessica when I was about five we were inseparable for many years. She was less than a month younger than me but she had graduated a year and a half early than me, and she had already started collage heading for a medical degree. When she was about eleven her family moved away, when she was thirteen her family finely moved back to our home town of Hallsville, Mo, when she was fifteen her family moved to Columbia, Mo we had started dating about two month before they moved, we continued dating. On April 20th her seventeenth birthday I asked her to marry me, she told me yes, but she would like to wait entail I got out of collage which was only in about three years. After that I was the happiest I have been in years but that was not to last. In May, she found out one of my friend was throwing a kegger for his graduation party, she asked me if I wanted to go over and over, but I had to do some work so I could not go with, the last time she asked I kind of snapped at her and hurt her feelings. So Jessica asked one of her friends Kim from collage to go with her, from what I was told they had a little too much to drink at the party. The next morning I was feeling bad for snapping at her so I got up early, picked up some red roses and went over to here house to apologize to her and to tell how big of an *** I have been lately. But her car was not there, so I figured that she went over to her moms and dads house. I called her parents house looking for her but nobody was not there, so a called her friend’s cell phone and I did not get any body, so I called my buddy that had the party and he told me that they left about 1am. So I went back home to wait for her to show. About 2 o’clock in the after noon I resaved a phone call from one of my buddies telling me how sorry he was and asked me if there was any thing he could do for me, I asked him what he was talking about and he told me what had happened. They was driving back home after leaving the party, Jessica was sleeping in the passenger set and Kim was driving, Kim was so drunk she did not see the train on the tracks or she thought she could beat it. The train hit the car broadside; the police think Jessica was killed instantly; Kim lived for a little more than a day in the hospital. The next day I went over to her parent’s house, I went in and her older brother saw me and started kicking my *** for not going with her, because I do not drink and I would have been a sober driver, her father told me to get out of the house and that that he never wanted to see me again. Her father and brother blamed me for what had happened to her, later that night I got a call from Jessica mother telling me she was sorry for what had happened earlier and I should not show up at the funeral, she was afraid the Jessica father would shoot me. To find out he was very serious about it to, he was packing a 9mm. So I did not go to the funeral, but I did go to her grave the next day. She was the love of my life; she was five feet tall angle, with ice burg blue eyes, blond hair that was so light it almost looked white in the sun, lightly tanned skin, and light as a feather. She was the only ray of sun shine in my life, for the last five years I have been living in shadow. Most of the people I knew from back then tell me that I am not the same person, that I am more hostile, that I have a hatred for the world around me, I have problem letting any body in to see the real me and I take unneeded risk with my life. Which I can agree with them on some things.

2006-10-20 21:37:20 · 11 answers · asked by Sir CJ 3

Why does flirting make someone feel happy and good on the inside?? Anyone know?

2006-10-20 21:37:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

'm 26 years old, attractive and I think I have a nie personality. However, all the guys I've dated after my 8 years relationship, all said the same thing to me: I AM TOO CLINGY AND I DON'T TRUST THEM! They are right. For 8 years I was comfortable and alway had a boyfriend around, but my ex cheated on me, so I am having trouble trusting ALL MEN. Now I am seeing this hot restaurant manager, who I truly feel is the most sincere guy ever. He told me that he likes me a lot and just let his action show me how much he likes me. However with his 16+hrs, 6 days a week, he hardly ever has time for me. And to split it amongst his friends and family, I'm really talking just hrs/week. Also he came up to me while I was eating at his restaurant, I feel like if he comes up to me he can go up to anyone, right? But this guy already introduced to me his best buddies and his dad (I was over at his place when his dad arrived from Missouri). I shot pool w/his dad too.Confused! Help! What should I do? :(

2006-10-20 21:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by Gina C 1

who is honest and attractive in love with a guy?

2006-10-20 21:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by mdo72000 2

ive just started going out with this guy and hes somebody i dont usually go out with. everyone i know is commenting and sawing wtf is she doing with him. even my close friends are telling me that i deserve better and its making me think. i dont want a serious long relationship with this guy but he does. im just up for a bit of fun i dont see it going anywhere. i cant dump him now cos it will break his lil heart (lol) and i wont look very good either people talked when we strted going out let alone if i dump him less than a week later.

2006-10-20 21:29:43 · 11 answers · asked by just a girl 3

I have had a lot of girls who want to have sex and who say a lot of deep, commital, I'll love you forever, take a bullet for you and so on kind of statements, but I have experienced that when I really needed these girls they weren't around or when there's a problem these same girls instead of working out the problem are quick to cut to cord on the relationship. What are some of the things that girls will do, show, reveal, when they truly love a guy?

2006-10-20 21:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 21:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was sobar and she also bartends there....

about 6 monthes ago i was in the bar just got done w/ my shift adn a i was talking to a girl and she was hitting on me but i 'm too dense to realize it and then she hooked her leg around mine... well i didn't act on it and no i'm regretting it should i still go for it what would you girls do if you were in her situation i guess you could say, if a guy comes up 6 monthes after the fact..

2006-10-20 21:18:01 · 3 answers · asked by justaguy 1

my boyfreind is a great person and we love each other as well it's been a year since we knew each other,while working together, but we are involved just 2 mnths over,now my bf is serious abt settling but says he's not sure if he can keep me happy coz we are of diff religions,my family n lifestyle are way better off than his .he does'nt want me hurt later on in case we're married and things don't turn out for the better though he'sdoing his best to get there,but says it will take a few years.he's even changed jobs to start off with,.Should i take the risk of losing my family and lifestyle and stand by him or chicken out and play safe .i already regret asking myself this coz i love him.,but what abt practicality he's asked me to decide,coz he's serious abt this.

2006-10-20 21:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by icequeen3 1

theres this guy...and well every one ones he likes me including me! and he has also told me that. but the thing is i only like him as a friend... and he has asked me out so many times and today i told him i was going out with another guy (im not really) but at least he stoped asking me.....

do u guys think i was mean ...... did i do the right thing......please help im starting to feel bad

2006-10-20 21:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous