he avoided me so I was advised to either avoid him or make him want to talk to him...well its the same...
does this sound ok for a message to him?
should I post this now or to wait and see if he wants to talk to me after I "avoid" him...
hey, muffin is everything ok?
you dont seem like talking lately?
please tell me if Im boring you or if Im doing something wrong...
wub you!
should I put love instead or nothing at all?
he always puts like wub or luv so maybe to sound like him...?
2006-10-20 21:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no dont say that...just wait
2006-10-20 21:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if hes avoiding you there is a reason. You need to just straight ask him if there is something going on. Don't avoid him back because if he's just having some thoughts about things he doesnt want you to worry about and you avoid him it could cause some unwanted problems between you guys. Secondly never tell a guy to tell you if you're boring, most guys dont like confrontation so they aren't going to tell you that you're boring in being afraid that you'll break down and start asking a lot of questions and what not so dont ask that question unless its a have to situation. Give him some space and let him work things out in his head, then if he really is avoiding you then just move on. Involve yourself with things that intrest you such as maybe take a dancing class or something to occupy your time and he may realize that he liked spending time with you and whatnot. Just give him time. He'll eventually come around if he thinks you're not thinking about him.
2006-10-20 22:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is avoiding you I think you should do too.He must be avoiding for 2 reasons either he is not interested or he wants you to pursue him.He might like the chase.So why don't you let him chase you.Be courteous and formal if he approaches. You don't worry things will work out fine
2006-10-20 22:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Specky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's avoiding you, it's time to move on with your life.... unless you are into playing cat and mouse and living everyday wondering what the mood will be for that day!
2006-10-20 22:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't send that .And you might as well learn sometimes things don't turn out.Just let it go move on and you couldn't have done anything wrong if your being yourself sometime two selfs don't click even if it started out good be yourself don't play games and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to chase them you just concentrate on being your best self.
2006-10-20 22:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out from his Mom what his favorite food is and cook it for him. Over his favorite meal he will be much more willing to talk.
2006-10-20 22:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by sjp_amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy and that i myself dont decide for to be persued i love to do the persuing. i think of in case you quite like this guy (in spite of if it is frustrating) i think of you need to style of permit him on my own for a on a similar time as.If he likes you he would be thinking and commence thinking approximately you greater and calling you. it is that if he truly likes you.solid luck!
2016-10-02 12:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the exact same situation as u...u should just wait and don't talk to him,,if he really likes u he will comeback to u..trust me ;)
2006-10-20 22:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by RoobZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go with your instincts. cuz not only does none of us know him or you as much as you do urself, i say just do what ur heart tells u
=) hope he doesnt keep avoiding you.
take care
2006-10-20 22:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the only one that can decide to send that, if you think it'l work then go for it if not hold back....Good Luck....
2006-10-20 22:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, life is too short.
2006-10-20 22:01:52 · answer #11 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋