i haf been goin out wit a guy fer more than a year now....bt v dun live in da same city n if i continue i myt get 2 c him once in 6 monthz til 2 yrs wen i finalli go settle in da same town...v both r vry serious abt each otha n our relationship, bt i dun thnnk it wuld wrk since itz vry painful but yet i dun wnna brk up wit him! i cnt get ovr him. what shd i do?...shud i continue n try n wrk it out fer 2 more yrs or shud i give it a brk?
2006-10-20 21:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually long distance relationships do work, it forces you to COMMUNICATE. I'm in one right now because my g/f took a better job out of state and we talk every single day on the phone and travel to meet one another when we can.
2006-10-20 22:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by show_em_your_badge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relationship---my ex was stationed overseas for 2 years. We were together the entire time, only because we made sure that we worked hard at the relationship. You need to ask yourself, how much do I care about this person? Do I care enough to work extra hard to make sure he knows how I feel and to make sure he feels the same way. Ask him how he feels about the distance. Maybe he will feel that you should take a break until you can get a chance to see each other more. Talk to him, that is one of the most important characteristics in a relationship, if you dont communicate, you'll fail in an instant. Good Luck.
2006-10-21 05:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with allansc20, learn to spell. Also, I was in a long distance relationship with a man who lived 3 hours away for an entire year, I was even engaged to him. But you need to understand that when someone is that far away, they could get away with murder and you would never know about it. Be with someone that you can see on a regular basis. Those are the relationships that stand a fighting chance.
2006-10-21 05:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for example i really think that it really depends on the person. Because if u reall-y love some one u will do what ever it takes to actully be with that person.U see L_O_V_E is something stronger than the word it self and if dont feel that sprit with in ur self than u you should let flowwwwwww................
2006-10-21 05:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by macdonna06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep goin, im in the same situation at the moment an its hard but the thought that we will be together soon keeps me going, be strong if you want to keep him.....
2006-10-21 04:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your spelling and grammar problems,might as well end the relationship
2006-10-21 04:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no they don't. i've been in 2 of them and they both ended up the same, no matter how much u may feel for them it doesn't work! p.s. do ya have dislexia?
2006-10-21 05:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by lonestar-redskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off
2006-10-21 04:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋