This is my first time to enter into a relationship, my bf comment is I dont demand anything from Him, I thought it would be better if I will not do that, most guys are complaining bec of demanding gf. am a lil bit confused on that and actually I dont know what to ask him, I might go beyond my limit line if I do.
Please help me before it's too late, I might loose him for not doing so, aint?
2006-10-20 22:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and HE doesnt want to tell me what do you want me to demand. I must know what to demand as per him, but honestly I DONT. He's complaining, HE cant cant even any reaction, and I dont care even if he goes out with and dont even ask who's with him.
2006-10-20 22:30:46 · update #1
That's such a strange but interesting question.
What would you 'demand' of him? What would he have you 'demand' of him? Perhaps, some men are insecure and need their partner to be 'needy' somehow, in some way. Maybe, he feels that you dont act like you 'need' him...but you are comfortable with him and you have no insecurities. Seems like he's needy darling.
It's a tad immature, but if it's a first relationship, maybe he'll grow out of it. Best to ask him what he would like you to 'demand' of him.
2006-10-20 22:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) The fence is his property he need only fix it when and if they want. 2) If he hasn't any dogs why should he have to fix his fence simply to help confine your dogs 3) Confining your dogs is your responsibility not his. Have a fence installed to safely keep your dogs confined and free of harassment from his kids. Not an ugly temporary green fence but a wooden 6' stockade fence. No you can not take it upon yourself to fix the neighbors fence without permission. Why you would not have gotten a fence knowing your neighbors kids were teasing, tormenting and throwing things at your dog is beyond me. 4) To appease your neighbor and not have too listen to them why not simply show him the rabies vaccination certificates. Generally you don't need to prove anything unless your dog has been bitten but there is no harm in showing them. 5) Contacting 3 police departments id not enough to look for the owner of the stray you have taken into your home. You have to contact all of the local shelters, vets offices and put up flyer's. It could very well be that the pup was not abused but could have been stolen or had escaped fro his property. The pup also need to be checked for a microchip. You can NOT keep a pup/dog until you have exhausted all avenues to find its owner or it could be construed as stealing when and if the owner finds that you have their dog. 6) Did you even take the pup to a vet to get its Rabies vaccination or not. Could this be a reason as to why you are reluctant to show the rabies certificate for it? Since usually people have to wait at least 30 days after searching with the above methods I mentioned I doubt that the pup would have been taken for its rabies vaccination. Generally they wait to scan the dog for its owner and for you to have actually searched for the owner before administering a rabies vaccination.
2016-05-22 07:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As this is your first relationship, I assume you're on the younger side, so don't put too much weight on whether you loose him or not. I know that's easy to say but you will have many more opportunities. and unless you plan to marry the first person you have a relationship with, this one is, in effect, just practice. Furthermore , don't try to follow a prescribed plan, people complain to complain. For all you know, he is complaining to he friends right now about how overly docile his girlfriend is.
2006-10-20 22:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you are demanding. But I think certain expectations still exists in any relationship n some are even necessary. Only the 2 of you can agree and come to some kinda compromise which will eventually benefit the relationship.
2006-10-20 22:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make demands like a martyr, but be your own person in the relationship. It is not a good idea to let your identity be defined by him. He will not respect you if you don't have your own opinions. Enjoy spending time with him and away from him.
2006-10-20 22:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably meaning he wants you to come up with ideas to do an stuff like that, just try being stronger in the relationship like if he wants to do something you dont want to then stand up for what you believe in... Good Luck...
2006-10-20 22:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an equal partnership, neither partner should "demand" things from the other.
2006-10-20 22:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur guy must be lucky and its the first case i hav seen that grl is not demanding......i do a lot and he doesnt cares
2006-10-20 22:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the other person..whether he likes being demanded or not
2006-10-20 22:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by RoobZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes the demanding type and see hwo it goes otherwise see what you can do
2006-10-20 22:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by maria b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋