I have been talking to this girl for a while. She keep ask if I would like to meet up sometime this week. I say sure, but when end of week get closer, I tried to email her and she didn't answer it until few days later. She would apologize and talk about how busy she have been and ask if I would like to hang out again. Same thing happen again!
I have been through this with a girl I use to date and it's my biggest pet peeve when a person cancel plan more than half of the time. So I want to somehow tell her that I'm willing to meet up but this is her last chance to stick to her words.
I'm thinking about telling her "if you really want to meet up, I guess we can, but if it's so hard for you to find a hour or two to meet up, then may we shouldn't make any more plan"
Would that sound good? Or do someone got any suggestion?
2006-10-20 20:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about her. She doesnt think you are important enough since she keeps doing this. If you know you are important then drop her like a bad habit and put yourself first.
2006-10-20 20:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jiggley Wiggley 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Basically come out to her like this
Look girl I know that life gets hectic and we all get tied up. Now I am willing to meet up with you and chill but you just don't seem to be that interested.
Now at this point she gonna be like alright lets make plans
and then when you do say you better stick to these plans because I really want to spend time with you but I can't keep hoping for something that is never gonna happen.
It took my boyfriend telling me this in the beginning for me to actually go see him. I was so taken aback that he was really bothered that I would never go chill with him that I had to do it at least once...now I've been with him 2 years since the first time I went to see him.
2006-10-20 21:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's making plans just to make you feel better and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no. By always being conveniently un-available just before you're supposed to get together it sounds like she may not actually want to go out with you.
Don't let her get away with "sometime this week", make a firm date. If she doesn't stick to it, than back out. Stop wasting your time and find someone that is going to rock your world for real!
2006-10-20 20:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Heather M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds straight forward and to the point! Don't put your life on hold for that type. But you the two of you are young"in your teens and living with your parents" keep in mind that she may be expected to be at family gatherings,maybe she has responsibilities in helping out at home etc.!
2006-10-20 20:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 16:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all this girl reminds me of a friend of mine
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she is leading you on , by her asking you out then cancelling in the last minute means she is just stringing you along untill she needs something from you.
my friend use to do this to 2 people who were unimportant in her life but always has them hanging around waiting' only actually seeing them if she wanted someone to pick up the tab. just simplily to use when its convinient for her.
maybe your in a different position but because of wittnessing my friend treat people this way im passing off what i saw happening to these gullable souls....
2006-10-20 21:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by asian_smartie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she gives that excuse, tell her "I get it. Have a nice life". Then forget about her, whatever her underlying issue is she obviously does not value you or your time enough to deal with it. You deserve better than that kind of being taken for granted.
2006-10-20 20:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds fine, if she is really busy and trying to get together with you, then saying that would be fine. But if she is continually doing this to you, then you need to not waste your time. Tell her your time is just as valuable as hers.
2006-10-20 20:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her keep trying. She may like to talk, but avoiding to meet you for some reason.
2006-10-20 21:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she is afraid to meet you bcz she must be thinking that what you will think of her after seeing her! what if she dosen't appeals you!?.,..................
seriously i think you must tell her that you don't care what she looks like! she has a nice nature so be frank and tell her that you have nothing to do with her appearance! then she will definitely come!
don't ask her that how she looks or is she hot and seductive?
just tell her that you like her from heart and tell her that you want to meet her not to see her but to spend some quality time with her! to know her better!
2006-10-20 21:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋