Singles & Dating - 18 October 2006

A foreign friend of mine has studied English in his homeland for a long time. He loves English culture, and one of the things he was told was that the English are very conservative towards sex.

A few months ago he had a chance to go to study in England. Incidentally, the press recently ran many articles about the popularity of the swinging lifestyle (having sex with someone other than one's partner) in London and some parts of England. What is perplexing is some newspapers even let readers know about the particular addresses of some swinging clubs. This kind of coverage seems to give swinging an aura of legitimacy, something people are proud of.

My friend is very confused about this, and so am I. Do you think English culture has changed so much that swinging is now acceptable?

2006-10-18 07:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by lankhai2006 1

2006-10-18 07:04:31 · 10 answers · asked by Boho 1

There is this girl I like that is in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her(a few weeks ago) and once I even gave her a teddy bear(3weeks ago) and I’ve been really nice 2 her without her acting different in any way. But in the last few days (the end of last week and now) I’ve noticed that she’s acting differently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me (Thursday of last week). Just so you know she hasn’t given me back the pen. When she said bye on Thursday to me she started to say it in that I like u-ish tone. I’m not sure if these signs are enough to qualify as her liking me so I was planning to say to her “You have a beautiful smile” How should she react (what should she say or do) for me 2 find out if she is interested or even likes me? I'm asking this cause this is the 1st girl I’ve been interested in.(I'm 17, she's 18 or 19) Also how do I say it without coming on 2 strong? This isn’t a pickup line-just 2 see if her reaction shows if she’s interested

2006-10-18 07:04:01 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 1

She smokes about 3 times a day and is 18, I enjoy everything about her except this nasty habbit. She dosent want to stop smokeing, If there anyways i can presade her to stop? Or should I Look for someone else? WEebeen together for 6 months

2006-10-18 07:04:00 · 29 answers · asked by Tigger 2

I was thinking today at school what if I just walked up to some guy at school I found attractive and planted one on him what would he do?

2006-10-18 07:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Lanie 3

My ex-boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 3 months now because we were argueing alot and in those 3 months I met someone new and went out a few times with him and he is the complete opposite of my ex, he treats me like gold and wants to take it to the next level, but I was truely in love with my ex and he kept telling me he used to love me intensley but now because we have been fighting so much he wants to take it slow and he has been saying "take it slow" for the last2 months and it seems like he is using me to come over every now and then and doesnt want the relationship anymore, so I kept seeing the other guy, I am just really confused!! I ended the relationship with my ex 3 days ago and he hasnt called or nothing and I am trying to persue this new guy who is awsome but my heart is still with my ex! even though he treated me badly! what should I do!!!

ps- the reason I ended it completely with my ex is he was calling me a ***** behind my back to family relatives.

2006-10-18 07:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by KV 1

ok so im a virgin and my bf wants to have sex. He talks about all this stuff that i dont know about. does it hurt? do i bleed? i mean, what happens?

2006-10-18 07:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by shauna 1

I went on a blind date once and the guy was 7 years older than me, he took me to some party and some guy looked at me and was like...sorry dear, no kids allowed...(I was 19 at the time)...my date said, "no she's with me" and the guy was like.."Wow you should date people your own age" lol...so What is the most embarassing thing that ever happend to you on a blind date???

2006-10-18 07:00:32 · 11 answers · asked by Fantasy686 4

2006-10-18 06:59:59 · 7 answers · asked by chick 2

See my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months and it's both our longest relationships and he tell me how to dress where i can go and when i can go. i love him and have stuck through alot that he has put me through but now my family's nickname for him is Daddy what should i do . or is it just me.

2006-10-18 06:59:51 · 29 answers · asked by j_sweetness18 1

2006-10-18 06:59:14 · 6 answers · asked by launa b 1

2006-10-18 06:57:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a freshmannnnnnn. we've talked a little bit before, and he asked me to come to the party without a date. should i go? idk if there's going to be supervision or anything

2006-10-18 06:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Julie 1

i am a bit shy to ask her if she is single or to ask her out.

2006-10-18 06:56:00 · 17 answers · asked by suby 3

i ran into this guy about 7 months ago and we really hit it off talking.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating on me(he is mutual friends with my ex)he listened and understood.he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he did not try anything.the next morning things were awkward when he left,a mutual friend told me he liked me but is freaked about my ex(who is still trying to get me back)i saw him once since that night and he came to me and said"your killing me",i have thought of him ever since.there is this yearly party coming up and both my ex and this guy will be there,i dont mind seeing my ex,for i m over him now,but i want to see this other guy in hopes of talking to him again,although he rsvp'd for himself plus a guest,so i assume he has a date,should i still go?the host of the party is more my ex's freind than mine.

2006-10-18 06:55:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in an 'OPEN relationship' and my question is whats your definition of it? I was ok with it,but now its kinda getting personal. I feel different about it now that we have been together longer than 10 months. I feel like im leaving myself open to stds.

He's the one afraid of commitment. When we first met all we did was mess around. But now we are starting to get more exclusive we probably havent had sex with anyone in 4 months. But it was just yesturday that he mentioned we were in an open relationship and I really didnt like the way it sounded. We havent been sleeping around, but im starting to get to the point where i want him to myself and he is all i want.

2006-10-18 06:55:33 · 23 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3

I'm a 4'11, 19, female, virgin. For about the 3rd time, I've had my b/f to finger me. This time when he did it, I spotted on toilet paper with one wipe and with another, it was gone. I had gotten over my period on Sunday and I was producing plenty of lubrication. What could this be from?

2006-10-18 06:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy at my school that won't leave me alone. He walks every day to lunch with me and i tell him thanks but i really want him to leave me alone. Any help?

2006-10-18 06:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by juniorteen312005 2

I really miss my boyfriend, but i broke up with him. I had a really stupid reason, and i totally regret it now. He wont even talk to me, and ive tried EVERYTHING. I love him more then anything, and i would do anything to get back together with him. We loved eachother so much, and I still love him. What should i do???

2006-10-18 06:51:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like girls between 26 - 33, who are attracted to men in their 40's.

2006-10-18 06:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by Skuya!!! 4

Is it really cheating if you don't get caught ????

2006-10-18 06:49:42 · 33 answers · asked by irishlad 3

i am not a virgin but my current boyfriend is eight and a half inches and im quite small "down there". it is kind of scaring me to the point where i dont want to do it. i am with him like three months now.

2006-10-18 06:49:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

THere is this girl that I like and it seemed that she liked me. I saw some signs so I asked her out. I was so confident that she would say yes but I was wrong. It turns out that her mom does not like her dating black guys. I was so mad but I really like her still. She used to give me hugs but now she doesnt even say hi to me in the halls. What do I do to get her off of my mind and how can I move on? This is really important to me because I think about her constantly. Please help!

2006-10-18 06:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by prodigy 2

m y girlfriend is a 40 yr old virgin,her best friend is a 40 yr old also, we never have sex we only have fourplay she performs oral sex on me never me on her she does very well and tell me she learn from reading a book she goes out of town faithfully every other week end to hang out with this girl, we only spend if i'm lucky 2 days out the week togother we never talk on the phone we only chat on cpu the only time she callis to tell me to get onine when she received a phone from a so call cousin overseas she tell me let me call you back tommorrow , when i tell her call me bac shes get quiet an say bye but when were to gether she gives me all the affection in the world.when i tell her about what she doin all she replys im sorry no body tryn to mess over you.the friend call 24/7 on her cell she never answers her phone when she with me . iask her why she laff and say my friend crazy i want some answers please. i hope she reading this why you hurt me so i pray i'm on this one.

2006-10-18 06:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by king tyjomi 1

We were out at my local Susuki dealer and i really want the Katana 600cc.She probably wouldn't leave me but more then likely act different towards me.Should i get anyways,or listen to her? Thanks.

2006-10-18 06:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to be able to walk up to an lady and let her know that I'm interested in getting to know her better without her thinking that I'm some kind of crazy person. If she's not interested it's ok. At lease I know that I tried.

2006-10-18 06:44:10 · 8 answers · asked by rejix 2

2006-10-18 06:43:38 · 53 answers · asked by pink 3

2006-10-18 06:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

boy problems?
there is this boy who i like and he likes me too but he saids he doesn't think a relationship would work out good between us too. but he wants to hang out this thursday cause it is early relese and i have know i dear how to change his mind. i know he likes me cause he addmited it to me. please help

2006-10-18 06:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by abercrombie babe 1

2006-10-18 06:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3