I really miss my boyfriend, but i broke up with him. I had a really stupid reason, and i totally regret it now. He wont even talk to me, and ive tried EVERYTHING. I love him more then anything, and i would do anything to get back together with him. We loved eachother so much, and I still love him. What should i do???
2006-10-18 06:51:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a copy of the book, "The Five Love Languages"
Find out which language speaks best to him (you'll know if you know him well).
Then use that knowledge to persuade him how much you care.
You might get alot of great ideas from this board, but if they don't speak to his love language it won't help much.
2006-10-18 06:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Iridium190 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write him a letter and explain your feelings. Once you do that though, I would suggest that you really leave him alone. In other words, once you say what you have to say, the ball is in his court. Understand that he maybe very hurt, afraid to try again, or just completely done with the relationship. If he does decide to come back to you it may be right away, or he may need some time. You will have to accept it either way. But once you let him know what you want, you have done all you can... anything else would be too much. If he wants to get back with you I wish you together all the best. If he doesn't let your love for him let him go and move on with your life as best as you can.
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2006-10-18 06:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you really love him then let him know you were stupid to break up with him over a dumb reason. Tell him you love him, even if you have to write a letter and leave it in his mail box. Its funny b/c I did the same thing this weekend and I am regretting it terribly, I want him back but he does not even know if he can do it b/c I hurt him. I just told him how I felt and reminded him of all the s%$* we have been through and I was just being Immature. Just leave him with alot of good thoughts about your relationship and reassure him you won't pull that s$#*& again, then you just give him space to think it out, don't call or nothin for a few days or so. It won't help if your in his A$$. Good luck girl.
2006-10-18 07:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and try and find someone else, doesn't sound like it's really gonna work out, sorry, but that's just the way it seems, **** happens. Life goes on.
Besides, maybe you're just feeling this way right now. I know this girl who is a good friend of mine, she broke up with her boyfriend and then got back together with him because she also missed him a lot, missed talking to him and so on and then a week later she remembered why she broke up with him and it didn't seem that stupid to her that she did that the first time.
And like I said, life goes on...if you let it that is.
2006-10-18 06:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 23:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect that you hurt him and it will take some time for him to trust you again; if he ever does.
Give him his space. It sounds like you already apologized; right?
So he knows you feel you made a big mistake... just give him time to get over it, and if the love is there he will come back.
But make sure you don't just tell him how you feel show him. Walk your talk.
Dito gdf888 - what you can't say to a person you can always write down. Then he can read it (with out walking away, of not listening) and have time to think before he responds.
2006-10-18 06:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Feather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, this just happened to my sister. All I have to say is that if you aren't ready for a mature relationship (not getting upset for stupid reasons) than I wouldn't waste your time. Your ex knows how things work with you, and if he is not even willing to talk to you, chances seem pretty slim. Try being honest with yourself! Maybe it is time for you to move on and grow up a little too before you give a relationship another try. Good luck!
2006-10-18 06:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt him alot when you broke up with him, and he is not wanting to relive the pain that you caused.
I can understand him not wanting to talk to you, look at it from his POV if someone you really loved dumped you over something stupid would you really want to talk to them again?
It is time for you to move on, you broke with for whatever reason and he is not ready to forgive much less talk to you. He doesn't want you back. You caused this and now you have to pay the price for it.
Maybe next time you won't break up with someone over something stupid.
2006-10-18 06:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... He could be so hurt that you might do it again... he might not take you back... but then again depending on the reason you broke up with him for he may just be able to live and forget the whole thing. Best advice I could give is to meet for coffee or something and talk it out...but don't force yourself on him.
2006-10-18 06:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
awweee sweetie.... I've done that plenty of times too... but what you need to do is try talking to him again... sit him down and talk to him. If you go to him face to face lookin all pretty, he won't be able to just turn away.... he's going to have to stand there and listen to you. (BUT YOU GOTTA MAKE YOURSELF LOOK REALLY HOTTTT. DO UR HAIR, HIS FAVORITE PERFUME YOU WEAR, MAYBE MAKE UP AND COlORED EYE CONTACTS! whatever makes you feel you are hott enough.) back to the story... explain... and then try to hold him... and just apologize.... You must really decide if youre gonna stop breakin up with him for stupid reasons or not... if you decide that you are, then do it. But you must think... he might just get back with you to break your heart the way u broke his... you must really think....
2006-10-18 07:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by SwEetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋