m y girlfriend is a 40 yr old virgin,her best friend is a 40 yr old also, we never have sex we only have fourplay she performs oral sex on me never me on her she does very well and tell me she learn from reading a book she goes out of town faithfully every other week end to hang out with this girl, we only spend if i'm lucky 2 days out the week togother we never talk on the phone we only chat on cpu the only time she callis to tell me to get onine when she received a phone from a so call cousin overseas she tell me let me call you back tommorrow , when i tell her call me bac shes get quiet an say bye but when were to gether she gives me all the affection in the world.when i tell her about what she doin all she replys im sorry no body tryn to mess over you.the friend call 24/7 on her cell she never answers her phone when she with me . iask her why she laff and say my friend crazy i want some answers please. i hope she reading this why you hurt me so i pray i'm on this one.
2006-10-18 06:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by king tyjomi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think for you to know the truth, the only way is ask her, and she admit she is les. Coz it's difficult to differentiate between really gd galfriends and lesbians...unless you caught them in the act or etc....
I think if you truly tell her what you are going through, you might get some answers from her...but remember, dont try to force her into telling she is a les/or not, coz to most people, even if they are, they would rather remained in closet, and never tell the truth
2006-10-18 06:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, doubtful. She said herself that to be with another girl would be gross and unnatural to her. Besides, if she was lesbian, what would she gain by pretending to be straight? Why bother? When she said her friends are trying to turn her lesbian, she probably didn't mean it seriously. Her friends are probably more than aware that sexuality is not something you choose. It sounds more like the kind of playful teasing that occurs between friends. Girls are so much better, aren't you sorry that you're missing out - that sort of thing. You not meeting her friends could be rooted in something entirely different. Like you said, she hasn't met all your friends either, so it goes both ways. And you worrying about her always being with her lesbian friends - don't. She most likely doesn't hang out with them because they are lesbian/bi. She hangs out with them because they're her friends. Just like you hang out with your friends because they're your friends. Her's just happen to have a different sexual orientation.
2016-05-21 23:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be a lesbian, I mean, as a female, I have really close friends that are like family that I talk to and hang out with all the time, but I'm not sleeping with them. To me it seems as if she maybe seeing another guy and is using her friend as a excuse. Which also could be why she isn't having sex with you, and why she's so good with giving oral. Maybe she knows if she have sex with you, you'd be able to tell she isn't a virgin.
2006-10-18 06:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Whether she is a lesbian or not, she is certainly a crap girlfriend. You will just have to have it out with her why she doesn;t want a normal relationship with you ( or any other man for that matter). This is never going to be a fulfilling relationship for you as she is clearly stringing you along for some reason best known to herself. You sound like an affectionate person. DUMP HER AND FIND A PROPER GIRL WHO WILL TREAT YOU DECENTLY.
2006-10-18 06:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Cream tea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you question was a little bit confusing..but I can advice you a few things you can do..try asking her" What do you think of homosexuality?" "do you think people are born like that?"....does she go pro homosexuality? ask her why does she think some women prefer lesbian relations...and listen carefully to what she says..you will probably get your answers..
A lesbian will always defend themselves and will always give you answers you would maybe never even though about ..trust me..i have a lot of gay friends....I dont know if she is a lesbian, but I can assure you she is definetly up to something and is hidding something..believe me..and most of all, listen to your instincts..they ussually are right!
2006-10-18 06:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by mswildsexycool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something very wrong with this picture. The fact that you're not seeing through the smoke makes me think you want her so badly that you'll take way you can get. Is that how you want to live?
2006-10-18 06:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by TRIX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find someone else. Shes playing U
2006-10-18 06:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her candidly. No bsing. Tell her your concern & read her like a husband should be able to read his wife.
2006-10-18 06:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Joan McBitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her breath smells like fish.
2006-10-18 06:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a lesbian you are a very lucky - and i mean lucky guy - try to get her to let you watch - oh yeah
2006-10-18 07:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋