2006-10-18 06:43:38 · 53 answers · asked by pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is not true - I have cheated on my gf for about a year before she caught me , now i do not cheat anymore
2006-10-18 06:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna b controversial here, & say no. But if the person cheated on YOU, u won't regain that trust, so the relationship should end asap. U need ur self-respoect, & believe me, u deserve better.
People cheat 4 different reasons. Just cos the outcome is the same every time, doesn't mean the source of the problem is.
If u're wiv some1 who cheated (on some1 else obviously, NOT YOU), & u're not 100% sure that they love u 110%, save urself the heartache in the long term.
Sorry if this advice sounds the same as the rest.
Good luck, x
2006-10-18 06:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by viv friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot say that. a cheater cheated you must be accepted by you. Same if he always cheat one who already known his traps. He will be only a hunter. Psychology he cheats people with a heavy duty of care and he is not happy at all. He is a poor guy. He is a stupid guy.
2006-10-18 06:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by johnkamfailee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.....I am a firm believer that everyone deserves a second chance. However, that is ALL they get. As cliche as it may sound, if they cheat once, then shame on them, but if they cheat twice, then shame on you. Twice a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-18 06:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by ehcgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAAAA!!!
i was with a guy who had a repuation of being a player. we fell in love (at least i thought so!) and were together for more than a year. and then i find out he's been cheating on me all along!
after we broke up he got into another relationship with this other girl, and he cheated on her too!
well..that's my opinion anyways, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. i've got my reasons =]
2006-10-18 06:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by peacegal91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all the people that answered YES to this question. I'm sorry that you may have been cheated on and your heart has been hurt. If you really love someone and this person knows that. They will realize that it was the biggest mistake they may have ever made. But I believe in the good in people. If you meet that someone that makes you feel like you can't live without them and they hurt you. I can understand why you say yes. But we all make mistakes.
It's what that person does afet that mistake that matters. We all fall but do you get back up?
2006-10-18 06:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by rejix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say..... i think once that guy or girl finds the right person they won't want to cheat.... but there are cases where it is in their blood to cheat ... doesn;t matter what you do .. they are going for the nasty with whoever will give it to them...I just think it's a matter of taking the risk or not... hell no don't go out with someone with a rep for cheating but ....if for some odd reason that special person cheats on you ONE TIME.... look out.. cuz if they could do it then they could do it again... and you'd better put that muther on a shirt leash!
2006-10-18 06:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jill c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all! People learn form their mistakes. It really depends on what type of person the cheater is.
2006-10-18 06:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my own personal experience.....cheating in your past does not necessarily mean you will cheat in the future. I have cheated on past boyfriends (not proud of that, and there was no sex involved, just kissing), but never with the man I am with now because I love him and I would never do that too him. I am older and more mature now and have found the one I love. I do believe if you are with someone and they have cheated then they will probably do it again. Once is enough. Get rid of them if they cheat.
2006-10-18 06:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right. I thought maybe in the past that someone could change. I gave her a second chance and I was proven wrong. Twice, by two different women. Men are no different. Once they cheat, never go back. Nobody deserves to be cheated.
2006-10-18 06:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can't answer for everyone but the cheaters i know (incl myself) has never stopped cheating and if caught only attempts harder to keep it a secret , so i guess yes always a cheater
2006-10-18 06:46:37 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋