i am a bit shy to ask her if she is single or to ask her out.
2006-10-18 06:56:00 · 17 answers · asked by suby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem like you are shy,get a friend to ask her if she has a bf and if she says yes then back off,if she says no she might want you to approach her instead of one of your friends then she will know you are more interested in her.And you send a friend how do you know your friend might not ask her out and be a snake behind your back you just can't trust too many people.In that case send a girl friend to make it easier.Good Luck
2006-10-18 07:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get into a casual conversation with her and slowly bring it up. If your shy ask 1 of her friends.
2006-10-18 14:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not work yourself up with whether she has a boyfriend or not....it really does not matter. Talk to her like you would talk to any GUY you meet for the first time. All you need to do is make her feel at ease whenever you are around, like she does not need to act girlish (believe me acting girlish is just that, acting). Once she feels really comfortable around you, even if she already has a boyfriend, she will dump him for you. Oh!, a word of caution, just remove yourself from the scene whenever her boyfriend is around (does not mean do not ever meet him or ignore him. Just keep your interactions to a strict hi, hello, bye with him and do not get pally with him even if he does get pally with you.)
2006-10-18 14:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by dreamermon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over that shy stuff. You don't get anything you don't ask for. So just ask if she is seeing anyone regularly. Simple as that. If she's not, ask if she would like to do something with you.
2006-10-18 13:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. I've been in the same situation before. Honestly, the easiest and best way is to just ask. The results, usually, came out well for me and if not its a great learning experience.
2006-10-18 14:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you need to get to know her first, then after ur friends for like a week or so, casually bring up the subject about girlfirends and boyfriends, then if she hangs around girls too, then she will say if she has got a date or likes someone...if she doesn't, ask her out....if she says no, don't be bummed out, ask her to a casual study date or anything school related
2006-10-18 14:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by hawaiigrl33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could it hurt to find out she has a boyfriend or not... it's the first step to finding out if anything would work between you two. If she has a boyfriend then be her friend... if you can't handle being her friend then forget her and move on. Jealousy won't help your situation.
2006-10-18 14:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys are soooo cute - and they make great boyfriends, so just tell her how you feel and that it almost killed you to talk to her but it would have killed you not to - ask her if she is seeing anyone - if not - ask her if she would like to go out just for fun and to get to know each other ... be sweet and it will work out for you..
2006-10-18 14:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pfffft....just act normal, don't even think does she have a boyfriend or something or whatever, most of the time it doesn't mean anything at all. Just go on like you are and court her or whatever. Don't ask her.
Or just move on.
2006-10-18 14:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out anyway, but don't get your hopes up. It may require that. Harsh but true. Good luck.
2006-10-18 14:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋