i am not a virgin but my current boyfriend is eight and a half inches and im quite small "down there". it is kind of scaring me to the point where i dont want to do it. i am with him like three months now.
2006-10-18 06:49:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is going to hurt because you are so uptight about it.
Relax, take your time, get nice and wet, wait till it feels right and then do it.
2006-10-22 04:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, eight inches should be just fine, as long as you've had plenty of foreplay before sex. Foreplay will help because you will be a bit wetter. But "nerves" might dry you up pretty good. So -- take your own sweet time. (No rush, right?)
You know, you may want to check out the film "Kinsey". In it, the main character's wife felt she was a bit small. Eventually, she (they both!) visited a doctor and got a little help. Would you think about it -- visiting a doctor? Anyway, the film might help because it treats sex rather openly, and perhaps a little opennes between you and your boyfriend --- wouldn't hurt?
PS: I don't advise you watch this film with your boyfriend! (Too intimate.)
Good luck!
2006-10-18 13:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Janet712inEngland 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try not to think about it hun.................... that will make you nervous and then all the foreplay you have before your first time will be useless as you will have dryed yourself all up again with the nerves!!!!
Try and relax, you go on top and control the depth that he goes in and lean slightly forward, do not lean back it will be sore!!! You will get used to it tho and then you will think back and feel silly for worring about it!!!
Speak to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel and what your worries are if he is a real man he will be fine with you!
Good Luck and enjoy!! xx
2006-10-19 06:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about size worry about weather or not you want to have sex at all is the relationship going anywhere
if you are in a loving relatuionship and it does hurt tell him to stop if he respects you that wont be a problem for him to stop
if you do go head with it relax and im sure it wont hurt take it slow tell him too
god im good and im a bloke
take care
2006-10-18 13:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by krissydee9282 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It might at first, but he needs to go slow and relate to your fears. Start with a little at the time and keep going until it's all there. If at any point it hurts, tell him to stop or slow down.
I am assuming you are young. Please protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy. I won't say don't have sex because you will anyway. Always have him wear a condom.
2006-10-18 13:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by country girl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Measure it, and it'll be much less. I've yet to come across a man of that size. Excitement can trick the eyes.
2006-10-18 15:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months!!!!!! you should of done it a long time ago. just do it, and you'll find out, what are you waiting for.
I'm sure it could hurt but there's ways of working around that like certain positions, extra lube and to go slow, maybe for just at first.
2006-10-18 13:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the more you worry the more it will hurt because you are anxious, take it slowly with plenty of oral first and maybe use a lubricant, more importantly talk about your worries and relax and get to know each others bodies
2006-10-18 13:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must already have given him head if you know the size 8 1/2, have fun and enjoy it :)
2006-10-18 13:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by happy go lucky tonight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A baby comes out of "down there". You do the math!
2006-10-18 13:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ah! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋