My ex-boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 3 months now because we were argueing alot and in those 3 months I met someone new and went out a few times with him and he is the complete opposite of my ex, he treats me like gold and wants to take it to the next level, but I was truely in love with my ex and he kept telling me he used to love me intensley but now because we have been fighting so much he wants to take it slow and he has been saying "take it slow" for the last2 months and it seems like he is using me to come over every now and then and doesnt want the relationship anymore, so I kept seeing the other guy, I am just really confused!! I ended the relationship with my ex 3 days ago and he hasnt called or nothing and I am trying to persue this new guy who is awsome but my heart is still with my ex! even though he treated me badly! what should I do!!!
ps- the reason I ended it completely with my ex is he was calling me a ***** behind my back to family relatives.
2006-10-18 07:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by KV 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should have dumped the old b/f a long time back, well before meeting the new guy. But it is definitely right to have dumped the old guy and if he tries to contact you at all, just don't pick up or tell him very firmly that he is not to call/email/message you anymore. You don't want any more of that on-again/off-again agony you endured for three months, right?
2006-10-18 07:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by explorationredwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur bf is a asshole because if he loves u he shouldn't be calling u ***** behind ur back. He doesn't love u he guest want to have fun with u. Like my mom says the girls have a nice guy by there side and they rather go for the **** like the mean guys. Give him a chance to the other guy he might be ur true love, u never now!!
Don't let ur ex bf see u sad. It better that he think u have forget him and he will look for u. He will see that he last a precious girl like you. U never now how much u love someone until u lose them!!
2006-10-18 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me start by saying that just b/c your ex treated you badly does not give you the right to cheat on him - NO ONE deserves that. Secondly, if you were this badly treated, then stay away from him as this would be called a "toxic relationship" and isn't good for you or your health.
Keep pursuing the new guy. He could be the right one for you.
2006-10-18 14:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered this yourself. If he can call you names behind your back, he does not respect you. It sounds as he just wants you around when he wants you around and nothing more. Give this other guy a chance and get over the ex. If you were argueing alot before it will just continue as you are not right for each other. Move on.
2006-10-18 14:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... You need to live for the moment... Dwelling on a past relationship that didn't appear to be working out is just a bad way of starting something new. When you think about your Ex just think about everything that annoyed you about him and use it towards your new friend. If you're ex hasn't called or made any effort to get a hold of you, he really doesn't care about what's happening in your life...
Goodluck
2006-10-18 14:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv been there! Trust me move on, sounds like your new guy is much better for you. I think you should take it to the next level with him, you will soon completly forget about your ex. Why would your heart still be with your ex when he's talking s-hit about you to your own family? Trust me Iv been in your shoes exactly. I left his *** behind and absolutly adore my new guy. Just make sure your family doesnt listen to the crap he says about you.
2006-10-18 14:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually hang out when he calls? Does he put forth an effort to be different? In that case, he may be worth investing some time in. If it's just sex, and he's still the same old ***, forget him.
2006-10-18 14:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself. you are gold babe. dont let anybody treat u otherwise or allow anybody talk down on you. you are special any man who has u has got something special and should be grateful to have a gift in you. so love youself girl cos no one can love you more than u love youself.
2006-10-18 14:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by afrohottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make the right decision
2006-10-18 14:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋