Singles & Dating - 18 October 2006

I've been attracted to my hairstylist for about 2.5 years now. We have a lot in common and our personalities are very similar, but I've only spent about 30 minutes with her every couple of weeks during that time. I was married until about a year ago and she just told me on Sunday that she's getting a divorce - husband cheated on her. That afternoon we went to see a movie together (Jackass 2 - i.e., not a "date movie") and then talked a little afterwards. I'm an honorable guy and absolutely will NOT take advantage of her when she's vulnerable, but I want her to know that when she IS ready to date again, I'd like her to at least consider me. So, do I tell her all this now or do I wait until I get some cosmic sign that she's open to dating again? The last thing I want to do is add more chaos or drama to her life right now.

2006-10-18 14:49:17 · 3 answers · asked by ricktheirish1967 2

i hardly know him. he is a peer started 3 months ago with me.i dont see why its any of his business.

2006-10-18 14:49:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the signs that hes cheating?

2006-10-18 14:47:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know how to go about and date women of another race, Im a latino male and im really attracted to Black women, thick ones to be exact lol but I have never really dated them because I just dont know how to approach them or if they would be attracted to a guy of another race pretty much im scared of rejection and just scared period but Im just really attracted to them they are my type of women, also I live in Utah and lets just say its kind of hard to meet black women here, so i dont really interact with them much and i just dont know what to do, so any suggestions or advice would be helpful.

2006-10-18 14:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a women who is 42 and had her tubes tied 17 years ago had sex in August and has had 3 normal periods since, pretty well know for sure that she is not pregnant?

Also she took a home test just to get me to leave her alone in september which was negative.

Is it safe to say this lady isnt going to have my baby?

Is it 100% positive that she didnt get pregnant

2006-10-18 14:45:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is really confusing (and from what I can see also shy). At the end of school last year, I thought this girl liked me because she would glance at me constantly and would get kinda nervous around me. I didnt ask her out then because I was way to busy to have a girlfriend. However this year, we dont have any classes together anymore. Occasionally we lock eyes in the halls, but sometimes it almost seems like she is avoiding me. Whats up with that?

2006-10-18 14:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 5'6 I have had a tramatic brain injury, and thats on top of about 10 years of fairly heavy drug use and a stroke... I had a Hot thin wife i was maried to for 6 years, had 2 kids with too boot.
after my tbi she divorced me and all the sudden i find out "girls dont like short men." god damn it.. now im fighting my way through college trying to play catchup for the last 8 years.. How is it that no one along the line said "Hey stupid ****!! You have a wife that is Far too hot for you and you are are just some short doushbag drug addict *** wipe!! get your shi7 togather you fuc8ing loser!!!!!!!!!!"
Now i sit home doing homework with few friends, no social life, little money.. and I am supposed to be happy just because i have 2 years of being drug free??? I just want to die, thats all!!! I want the **** out.. Im never going to have a hot wife again am i?

p.s. How is your day going? :D

2006-10-18 14:44:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy that i like but i dont think he even knows my name i dont think he is out of my leage but i dont know if he'll like me i dont want to look like a dork so i need serios advise i have him in 1 of my classes but we have assigned seats so i have know idea what to do i told a couple of my friends i liked him but thats it

2006-10-18 14:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by danielle! 1

If so how come they didnt ask me out! This is in the dancing section too btw lol

2006-10-18 14:41:41 · 16 answers · asked by popstar452003 2

ight so i like this guy n' he likes me....we goin out now, but ma parents dont want me datin cuz im only 15......but i'm goin out wit him anywayz......what should i do cuz he really wants to meat ma parents but i dont think they would approve especially since ma bf is 17....

2006-10-18 14:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by P.Adaire 1

Well this guy named Jonathan is my tipe of guy but he has a lady and i dont know what to do because he is fine and he seems like the right guy but i am confused HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

2006-10-18 14:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by *L!$+3n 2 Ur h3@r+ n0+ uR bR@!n 1

2006-10-18 14:41:11 · 11 answers · asked by DIANA 1

well I was going to call this guy named todd because he asked me out and he asked me in July and now its october and I haven't called him because i'm kind of shy and I don't know what to say to him if I called him. can you people please tell me what I should do because he's really sweet?

2006-10-18 14:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by green_eyed_sexy_bi*** 1

my boyfriend and i are so cute together i love him and he loves me,we do everything together,but he always comes home from work and smells like perfume and its NOT mine.

2006-10-18 14:39:24 · 12 answers · asked by drama queen 1

Ladies have you ever bumped&grinded your man so hard on the dance floor that either of you got off?

2006-10-18 14:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

2006-10-18 14:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mickey 2

to me.girlfriend is such a tiring word.

2006-10-18 14:38:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. My friends get jealous of me really easily. Im very nice and very outgoing but they seem to always be mad at me. so i finnaly asked them and they said its because i get all the guys. They said all the guys in my grade want to go out with me and none of them like them. What should I do or say to them?? Please help! Im sick of losing friends cus im pretty. sorry dont mean to sound concieted. or however u spell it lol :)

2006-10-18 14:37:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sweetchicky292 @ 2

I really like this girl, but she has a boyfriend. She has kissed me on the cheek, sort of gave me a hug, and then today she rested her head on my shoulder while we were walking down the hallway. Our conversations go really well and she smiles a lot, and looks in my eyes. I've wanted to tell her how I feel for a while now but her having a boyfriend has held me back. I really want to be with her. Especially since it is our last year of high school, it would be amazing.

I think she is beautiful, smart, funny, has a great personality, an amazing smile, and i love being with her.

Should I tell her how I feel?

Yes or No?

Extra Comments/Advice is appreciated

Thanks to everyone who answers!

2006-10-18 14:36:55 · 82 answers · asked by ARt 1

my boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but i dont think i'm ready. i love him very much and i dont want to regect him or deny him that what do i do? help

2006-10-18 14:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by hawaiian 1

2006-10-18 14:34:32 · 29 answers · asked by crazybitch 1

okay..
this guy i've known since 2nd grade (my little brother's best friend's big brother--i kno, confusing) asked me out yesterday. He said (and this is the important part) "Are you free on Sunday? Because if you are, maybe you can go to the movies with me?" But, of course, being the weirdly-shy girl that I am, i said, "I'm not sure, maybe.", because... well, to be honest, i didnt know why i that. because i've had a crush on his since like, 5th grade. but i DID say that.
and so then, when i got home, and went on my AIM account and asked one of the guy's best friends if he thought i shud go out with him. he said, "i dunno, maybe." and so then, i went offline and went i went back on, the guy's bff IMed me and said, "he didn't ask you out. he just wanted to go to the movies."

and then, now, i'm really confused. because the way he said it, a girl wud think he was asking you out. and yet he says he didn't. maybe he was embarassed to admit to his friends that he got rejected? HELP!

2006-10-18 14:33:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 14:33:16 · 8 answers · asked by babygyrl19832000 1

I find myself logging on to YA just to see if this goddess "impeccable_tayst" is logged on too. I think I am falling for her, I lie awake at night thinking about her, she seems to know me so well even though we have never met. Can an online relationship work? Even a slightly weird one?

2006-10-18 14:32:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

For some reason, whenever I get close to people they start calling me names , or telling me to shut up. Doesn't this piss you off? People telling you to shut up? I don't know how I can make them stop. Please help

2006-10-18 14:32:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says i mess with too many dudes....he likes me but want 2 wait till the middle of the school year..every time he gets really mad at me he calls me a hoe or i'm turning into one

2006-10-18 14:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by num1lovagurl 1

Why do women always go on about how men should treat a women like a women? i.e open car doors, move the seat out for her, pay for them going out, make the first move etc..

Yet those same women don't want to do what the same sterotype says women should i.e cook, clean etc..

I think it's only fair if women want treated like women then men should be treated like men.

2006-10-18 14:29:52 · 21 answers · asked by dif f 2

i'm not cheating.
nothing. im not even flirting.

should i just end it?

i mean, i don't want to be cold hearted
i just hate a guy who
accuses me of cheating
dayin and dayout.

thank you for your
advise and opinions.

xtegan

2006-10-18 14:29:49 · 27 answers · asked by xtegx 1

my brothers freind might like me but i don't know why he won't ask me out already.help me please

2006-10-18 14:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I spoke to this guy that I have a crush on and who has a girl, I told him that im upset because I cant call him when i want to or see him when i want to. So he said he knows how i feel, so then i asked him what should I do about it and thats when he told me that i have to decide for myself and let him know tomm. But see the problem is that he's confusing me, 1st he tells me because he doesn't have a ring hes not taken and he came to me 1st. Hes the one with the other person, but yet he wants me to choose what i wanna do. I really like him alot and I don't not want to talk to him, but I dont wanna get hurt either. What should I do plz help I have until tomm morn to figure out what im gonna do...

2006-10-18 14:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by minnie26ny 1