why didnt anyone tell me i was/am a fuc8ing loser!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Im 5'6 I have had a tramatic brain injury, and thats on top of about 10 years of fairly heavy drug use and a stroke... I had a Hot thin wife i was maried to for 6 years, had 2 kids with too boot.
after my tbi she divorced me and all the sudden i find out "girls dont like short men." god damn it.. now im fighting my way through college trying to play catchup for the last 8 years.. How is it that no one along the line said "Hey stupid ****!! You have a wife that is Far too hot for you and you are are just some short doushbag drug addict *** wipe!! get your shi7 togather you fuc8ing loser!!!!!!!!!!"
Now i sit home doing homework with few friends, no social life, little money.. and I am supposed to be happy just because i have 2 years of being drug free??? I just want to die, thats all!!! I want the **** out.. Im never going to have a hot wife again am i?

p.s. How is your day going? :D

Answer 1

u didn't ask me..i would have told u

Answer 2

Not with that attitude you will never have a wife again. I suggest that you get involved in the community in different activities - it's a great way to meet other people, and other singles are doing the same thing! Don't let your past control your future. You are clearly capable of reasoning, whatever happened cannot be THAT bad. And 5'6" is not short considering the average height of women in america is 5'4". That means not only are many of them that height, but many of them are shorter than that too! Keep up with what your are doing; 2 years drug free is awesome and I applaude you for that acheivement. Take my advice, and go out there, make more friends and maybe, your wife too! Good luck!

Answer 3

Your not a loser. If people can't accept the way you are then the hell with them. Don't let people like that get to you,and wanting to die it's wrong. BE STRONG and hang in there you'll never know you might meet another hot wife again. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.
I think for someone who has had 2 years of being drug free that is bloodly goood.


p.s My day today has been good.

Answer 4

Next to your day, mine is fine. However, you are on the right track. Drug free and in school and you can now plan your future. Stop the "poor me" routine and look around at all the sad, depressed people, especially teens who don't have much at home. Mentor a boy and do for others and it will come back to you in ways you cannot imagine. You say you have two kids, they need a whole lot, most of all a father who sees them on a regular basis, even if it is twice a year. And 5'6" is perfect for most women who are 5'2" anyway. There are amazons with strange fetishes, you know but don't go there. Now get on with the day and get your kids back in your life and find a lonely teen boy who feels about himself a lot worse than you do. Good luck,

Answer 5

Wow! all that in one breath. Look dude lift your chin up, put a smile on your face and set some goals for yourself. You should be patted on the back for being drug free for two years. As to losing your wife you did that all by yourself. As to will you ever get a hot wife again. I have no clue. I do no this much... There is someone out there for everyone. I would say concentrate on your school work first. Stay clean and when you least expect it someone will drop in to your life. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

my day is not to bad thanks, a load of aches & pains but what the heck, there is allways someone worse off than me but as of yet ive not met them,
BUT it looks like your days not too good,
IT is NOT your fault that your (HOT) wife was not hot enough to stick around after your TBI, at least you have found out what she was REALLY like, if you had married a woman who loved you instead of a hotty you would still have her by your side, as for you being a drug user for years, a bet you never thought you would end up as you did, but thats how the cookie crumbles,
NOW you sit at home with a few friends BUT at least they are loyal friends, why no social life there are places to go & things to do, SO get out & do them, there are clubs & outings to help you,
wanting to die is no good, everybody thinks that at some time, what you have to do is face up to how you are now,
THEN start your new life doing things for yourself, living with any illness is bad enough BUT when you look at others & see how they are you are quite lucky,
SO, get use to how you are NOW not how you were before, have a look at the sites i have found for you, then start about getting busy,
OH & by the way who said women dont like short men, have you not seen danny devito"s wife she is a model very tall & he is 4"- 10",
SO stop wingeing & get yourself sorted, short men are ok its wingeing men we shy away from, have a nice day,

Answer 7

wake up ur in college again so of course you will meet plenty oh hot chicky babes and no ur not a looser 4 doing drugs and now being drug free

Answer 8

It depends what kind of friends you had. Were your friends into drugs at that time too? If you had good friends who cared then they would have said something. and yeah like said before it's called karma.

Answer 9

wow! thats intense. i know how it feels though. not necessarily for the same reasons, but i understand what you mean. you'll find someone and you'll be happy again. you just have to give it time.

And I'm crappy too!

Answer 10

Your only a looser if you give up. so don't.. Finish school straighten your life out then find some one nice. ps i'm having an OK day..

Answer 11

Don't start using drugs again! I hope things get better.