I dont know how to go about and date women of another race, Im a latino male and im really attracted to Black women, thick ones to be exact lol but I have never really dated them because I just dont know how to approach them or if they would be attracted to a guy of another race pretty much im scared of rejection and just scared period but Im just really attracted to them they are my type of women, also I live in Utah and lets just say its kind of hard to meet black women here, so i dont really interact with them much and i just dont know what to do, so any suggestions or advice would be helpful.
2006-10-18 14:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go for it and get over your fear. You will either be scared for the rest of your life and never get what you want, or you will GET OVER IT and get what you want!!!!
2006-10-18 14:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know a woman (any race) above your facsination with how much you love her skin and hair. This is quite a challege for most men, but if you understand the woman in the body, your love with her will be returned to you 1000 fold.
Just be genuine. Go up to her and let her know, you noticed her and how beautiful she is and how her smile warmed your heart. Ask her if you can have a short chat and a drink with her away from her friends if that's okay- if not, you understand, but had to tell her that tonight, she was noticed.
2006-10-18 21:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the kind of woman you want then go for it. I'm a white girl but I've only ever dated hispanic men and I come from a very small town in Ohio. It's possible to find someone, just keep looking! Good Luck! You'll probably have to go to some clubs in some bigger cities close by...just a suggestion.
2006-10-18 21:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you meet a woman you're attracted to just take that frightening step and you might be wonderfully surprised at her response. Women are women, Dude!
Let me know what happens when you start dating that woman you're longing for. I'm believing for some great news, and remember that expression "If at first you don't succeed try, try again". Good luck!!!!!!
2006-10-18 21:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it matters about the race as long as you will treat the girl right and with the respect that she needs. I say stop being scared and just go for it. I f she rejects you then its just her loss and move on thats all. U will never know unless u try
2006-10-18 21:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by minnie26ny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure how you can find a black woman who'd want to date you since I have little knowledge of your location but I can say your genuinity and honesty will reel the ladies in. Personally race doesn't restrict who I want to date. I'm sorry I can't be much help to you but I hope you find someone you'd like very much... Good luck
2006-10-18 21:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet a black woman who is unattached...be careful there...go for it! Don't look at color at all...approach her as you would any one else. Be bold and confident...all women love that in a man. All women of all races are flattered when men notice them and are respectful and bold.
I think interracial relationships are great. From experience, I can warn you that long term relationships are difficult...be prepared!
2006-10-18 21:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you approach a woman in a friendly manner it's cool. Don't be pushy and rude, just make a little joke or something, build a friendship first. She might grow to like you or you may realize she's really not the one for you.
2006-10-18 21:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are the same as women of any other race. so far as you are a nice, genuine man, you should not have any problems. forget about the colour and go to them as you would approach a woman of your own race. we don't bite!
2006-10-18 21:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by naa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should approach them just like you would approach any other woman. A woman is a woman no matter what her race.
2006-10-18 21:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋