Singles & Dating - 16 October 2006

2006-10-16 15:28:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this person. His name will be...Guy.
So, Guy and I work at the same theatre company. We are permforming Oklahoma.
I am the lead, and so is he. We are suppossed to be all in love and we sing lovedy dovey songs. Normally, I would not have a problem with this. But. I like Guy. A lot. He is attractive. Funny. Nice. Smart. But he doesn't seem too into me, and I am not letting anything off that I am into him. It is rather complicated. Sometimes, it appears as if he likes me, I have caught him staring at me wistfully. But then, it seems like he doesn't like me at all, even as friends. I know it isn't very good to get involved with cast members, I have been in theatre for many years, but, this is really hard! I have just met him, but he seems nice and fun. I am really bad and shy when it comes to men and relationships. How do I let him know that I like him, or maybe at least get him to be close friends with me? Any help would be nice. Thanks.

2006-10-16 15:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by Norah 6

I called my ex and told how I wanted him back. I mentioned about him cheating, and he said with a straight trustworthy voice he didn't. I don't know because now he's in a school 3 1/2 hours south from here. It sounded as though since he's "busy" he didn't want me back. We didn't have a full conversation since he's "busy". I think he was. What should I do? I know I will feel terrible double the amount if he says no. What do I do if that happens? Was I foolish telling him that I wanted him back? I'm the one that called it off. What do I do now?!!!!!!

2006-10-16 15:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

Ok.... this may sound stupid.. but I just recently started seeing this guy.. we had one date.. but we talk every day.. So I'm going out with him this coming sat night..actually just pizza and movies at his house.... do I bring something for sweetest day? Like bake a cake.. What do you think? That's not too much right.. We get along really good.. but I don't want to seem to forward....

2006-10-16 15:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by cincyduck97 1

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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12 hours ago
I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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3 days ago
i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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4 days ago
but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-16 15:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by robinson z 1

2006-10-16 15:24:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 15:22:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it wrong to sleep with someone out of lonliness, horny-ness, and just plain need of attention?

2006-10-16 15:21:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, plain and simple, I like this guy I've known for a year and we really got along well in 8th grade cause we sat next to eachother in class. Well, now my secret that I liked him sort of "escaped" and he found out. Now he stares at me from across the lunch room whenever he is alone and he smiled at me the other day and said hey, blushing as he walked by. He is a shy type. Last year he woul always want to study with me and look at my stuff whenever I wasn't looking. Does he like me?

2006-10-16 15:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned 32 and it makes me feel kinda funny. All of a sudden I feel really old... I feel like I look old and I act old. I feel unattractive to men ... and washed-up. Like I'm a desperate single gal. My friends, of course, think I'm crazy. How this happened to anyone else? How do I stop feeling like this?

2006-10-16 15:20:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sophie 1

2006-10-16 15:19:43 · 7 answers · asked by I wonder.. 1

2006-10-16 15:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hitoshi 1

There's a guy in one of my classes- and we've got some things in common. We've talked before, but we don't know each other too well. He's in the same "social status" as I am, so it's not as if he's out of my league [or the other way around], it's just we struggle with social things- such as dating. He already knows someone in my grade likes him, and he's desperate to know. I really like him, and wouldn't mind if he knew it was me, but I'm afraid he might like my friend. A mutual friend between us is "helping" me, but I'd like an outside opinon- anyone have any ideas on what I should do?

2006-10-16 15:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by LC223 1

i'v hadn't had any boyfriend ever and i'm in the eighth grade but a girl at my school is so ugly and all these guys like her but she's a good flirt people think thats why they like her and i'm so much prettier than her but how do i become a good flirt.

2006-10-16 15:18:42 · 19 answers · asked by starbucks_365 1

Christina Aguilera or Jessica Simpson?

2006-10-16 15:18:13 · 5 answers · asked by Free 3

An old friend of mine gave his sister my number as she was coming to London, she phoned me up and asked me if it would be OK to turn up at my place and stay with me, I didn't think twice and said yes. I have space, it would be no problem. Then before I knew it she arrived. Very polite, very nice, I helped her unpack and make her feel at home, I noticed a vibrator, she made no gesture to hide it but told me quite openly that she took it everywhere with her, I nearly chocked. I must have blushed, that evenning when we had both retired I couldn't believe my ears or the situation, she had left her door open and I could hear that vibrator, I could have died, I felt very uncomfortable, more so when she unashamedly moaned loudly. She must have known I could hear her. Three nights on the trot this happened, on the third she crept into my bed, took a hold of me and used me. What am I meant to tell my friend and her brother ? She leaves in two days.

2006-10-16 15:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he knows it too why isnt he doing anything and how can you tell if he likes you

2006-10-16 15:15:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 15:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by cometcat 1

I was wondering. Do girls like guys who don't make the first move *sexually* but instead leave it up to you even it means being a virgin until marriage in the entire relationship.

Do woman tend to let go of guys like these since they're not impulsive in that manner? Or do you hold onto them for as long as you possibly can. A guy who takes care of you shows he loves you and makes you feel like the most precious thing on the planet to him?

This kind of thing puzzles me so that's why I ask. What do you girls think?

2006-10-16 15:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy and i like him alot we have a lot of fun together hes sexy and i know we are both attracted. problem is he has a gf. but one min hes happy with her next he isn't and wants a relationship with me or he has said it before. at a dance we left and we ended up making it to 2nd base dawm near 3rd. and now he's distant i sont want our friendship ruined? what do i do?

2006-10-16 15:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-16 15:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by ReBeLrOcKeR 2

Do girls keep pictures of guys (like lots of guys keep magazines and model posters) just wondering cuz I jjust dont like it shen girl are like talking about some "hot" guy like boyst talk about A girl with a good ody

just wondering

2006-10-16 15:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so my friend and I both like this one girl. He knew her longer than I have we both just met her this year. I just met her a couple of days ago at our homecoming dance. We both like her but I don't know if i should just let my friend have her. At lunch she always walks over and calls me over to talk. Today she made me go to her locker with her when my friend could have gone with her. At our dance she said she was cold so she just got really close to me. What should I do?

2006-10-16 15:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 2

So i found out that my girlfriend has a crush on someone in her college (she doesnt know that I know). I read that she likes him and that she plans on asking him out to coffee.

Today she calls me and tells me that she needs someone to do a photoshoot for her (she is a photographer) and of course its him. She said that she needed someone else to photograph besides me(per her teacher) -- I found out that this was a lie.

However, over the weekend she said she loves me and wants to be with me etc. She even mentions us as friends etc while she is up and im devistated because of this (we have been dating for over a year). I'm beginning to wonder if she is cheating or what...

what should I do? not worry? find my own study buddy?

2006-10-16 15:11:51 · 24 answers · asked by Kyle W 3

im a virgin, i want to have sex, but i dont want to have it with a guy i dont have real strong feelings for...but i also dont want to have to go through a 2 year relationship before i feel im able too...help?

2006-10-16 15:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Ally 2

So i found out that my girlfriend has a crush on someone in her college (she doesnt know that I know). I read that she likes him and that she plans on asking him out to coffee.

Today she calls me and tells me that she needs someone to do a photoshoot for her (she is a photographer) and of course its him. She said that she needed someone else to photograph besides me(per her teacher) -- I found out that this was a lie.

However, over the weekend she said she loves me and wants to be with me etc. She even mentions us as friends etc while she is up and im devistated because of this (we have been dating for over a year). I'm beginning to wonder if she is cheating or what...

what should I do? not worry? find my own study buddy?

2006-10-16 15:11:24 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle W 3

2006-10-16 15:10:13 · 4 answers · asked by MELISSA G 1

I'm a really good guy, and I don't want sex from her but I'm 17 very soon and she's 15, I'm a junior in high school and she's a sophomore.
I honestly love her, I think she's my high school sweetheart.
She's more mature than other girls her age and we get along perfectly, and ect.
Her mom, however, does not like me because i'm older than her daughter, what can I do to prove to her mom that I'm a good guy?
Is it okay that were dating?

2006-10-16 15:08:33 · 17 answers · asked by Andrew J. G 2

I have this ex bf that is a frequent drug user. He's been in and out of rehab many times and just recently got out. He keeps calling me. I have told him many times that I am finished with him and I don't want anything to do with him. I just need some help on how to get rid of him, can anybody help? Or does anyone relate to this? Please help!

2006-10-16 15:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend. She has kissed me on the cheek and hugged me after our last soccer game tonight. We are pretty good friends and we have pretty good conversations. After our soccer season flew right by, I realize our senoir year is going to go fast. I don't want to regret anything about this year so I need to tell her how I feel. Would she consider giving me a chance if I told her how I felt about her, like how i think she is beautiful, smart, funny, she has a great personailty, and I just love spending time with her.

I need to know. Girls help me out on this one

2006-10-16 15:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by ARt 1