How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me I am really stressed.?

Question

Ok first of all for everybody I am only 11 so i am not gettin freaky with him

Answer 1

I just went through this. I was so stressed I lost about 15 lbs. I knew deep down in my heart he was cheating. I found some things around his house, he was acting differently, and the sex went from the best to the worst.

Look at why you think he is cheating. Write down the signs and try to find someone unbiased to talk to and see what they think, or ask another question on here with that information. If you have enough, try to catch him in the act. This is the only thing that helped me move on because I absolutely did not want to believe that a man who I was with for 5 years and engaged to would do this to me. So if you are like me, catching him will help you move on. If he is not cheating, you are risking a lot so be sure before you act.

Good luck and I hope you are wrong and he is not cheating.

Answer 2

Sweetie don't get yourself all worked up over this. If may not be happening and even if it is u shouldn't allow it to stress u out, u need to either trust that he's not, ask him or call off the relationship.

Anyway, what makes u think he's cheating? did someone tell u, did he give clues? U really shouldn't have to stress over this

Answer 3

Im sorry to tell ya this but if you could actually think he could cheat...he probably is...ive been there sooooo many times...ure gut feeling is usually right.....if hes acting strange "all of a sudden"..doesnt want to see u as much....always disapearing...not into sex or whatever u do....not answering his phone when he usually would....there are so many signs...but one thing first...is he stressed about something thats happened to him recently?..or got a new job?...or anything else that might cause him to act these ways?...its always good to think about those first before u get all parinoid....and yea this is dumb but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do...SNOOP.....even follow him...but if u get caught and ure wrong..ure screwed.....

Answer 4

If you have all trust in him you shouldn't be stress and if this is a problem that you can't shake off talk to him you can't stay feeling like the way you are it would start to change your life and your going to be come very unhappy to the point he will leave because your feelings have changed

Answer 5

well talk to him, tell him why you think he is cheating on you and discuss it. If you feel like he still lying to you, then you need to re-evaluate the relationship because either you dont trust him or he is cheating on you, either way the relationshiop is in a bad place right now, and if its really stressing you out, it might not be worth keeping.

Answer 6

to be quite honest if you feel like he is he usually is never doubt your female intuition. If you really want to do something extreme find someone he dosent know and have them go hit on him at a bar and see how he reacts, but just make sure you really want to find out the truth!

Answer 7

First of all you need to ask yourself "what made you think he was".Was it from other peoples advise - or has his WHOLE personality changed/pattern etc....
TRUST is the key to a relationship and to be honest if you don't have that in him - then he doesn't deserve you....move on.

Answer 8

Well, depends, does he avoid questions you ask? (example: where were u? Why didn't you call?) Does he cancle dates for no reason? A lot of girls' numbers? Doesn't talk to you as much... Gone all the time?
That's all I can think of from my past experiences

Answer 9

Why stress? Life goes on. If he never takes you out,never has an explanation of his whereabouts, etc, Instincts will tell you. Just ask him?

Answer 10

The answer is you dont,and what makes you think he is, its so easy to go down the wrong path when you think you are right, find out for sure