I was wondering. Do girls like guys who don't make the first move *sexually* but instead leave it up to you even it means being a virgin until marriage in the entire relationship.
Do woman tend to let go of guys like these since they're not impulsive in that manner? Or do you hold onto them for as long as you possibly can. A guy who takes care of you shows he loves you and makes you feel like the most precious thing on the planet to him?
This kind of thing puzzles me so that's why I ask. What do you girls think?
2006-10-16 15:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it really depends on what kinda chicks you want coming after you..........i mean sure your average ho-bag is gonna leave you if you dont make the first move *sexually* but then again if she is desperate enough for male attention then she will make that first move herself......
average good wholesome chicks like things to come naturally between their men and them......and most of them prefer A guy who takes care of you shows he loves you and makes you feel like the most precious thing on the planet to him...
2006-10-16 15:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dani A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a man to be the man in the relationship and that means making the first moves. A woman doesn't want to have to ask a guy out, kiss him first, say I love you first, initiate sex because most women feel that is the man's job. If the man doesn't do his 'job' then a lot of times it is not going to get done and the woman is going to get sick of waiting! This doesn't mean going in for sex when the woman isn't ready, but discussing when both parties are ready and then initiating it when they are.
2006-10-16 22:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally from my experience i would like a guy who isn't all about the sex and you know most girls expect the guy to make the first move but if you don't then that just means you have respect for the woman and most women like that. I would hold onto a guy like that if it was me .
2006-10-16 22:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by zachsmomsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 and I would have loved to have been romanced and treated like a queen instead of men trying to get down my pants. As long as you explain to the girl that you find her very attractive and explain that you want to wait until she is ready to do anything- she will feel like she is on top of the world. Good for you for not wanting to just have sex just because. So many girls (or at least girls worth having) want to be romanced and made to feel like they are he only woman on this planet. I hope you stick to not having sex until she is ready. It will mean so much more to her and in return- it will mean A LOT to you as well.
2006-10-16 22:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is different with every single girl. some of them want the guy to make a move because they dont want to do it. but the other girls who believe in sex after marriage, well they would be delighted if they could find a guy who will treat them right and who will wait until they are married. it really depends on what a girl thinks or believes.
2006-10-16 22:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like for him to initiate the first move but if we don't want to then I hate it when a guy tries to pressure me. Just initiate, leave the option open but if we resist then just cuddle with us instead don't make us feel bad cause we won't we will only think of you as a desperate b@stard! hope this helps and treat the ladies right! : )
2006-10-16 22:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when I met my husband that I wasn't the one to make the move because I was rather innocent and I thought that if I made the first move he might be weirded out.
2006-10-16 22:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be respectful. Remember, you can make a move and determine her reaction. Never force her to do something she doesn't want to do. If you're a guy who can wait and be patiant, then you are going to find a really great girl.
2006-10-16 22:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that girls tend to like guys who make the first move.it makes us feel attractive and wanted. but the guy cant be too agressive
2006-10-16 22:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont i prefer the guy to make the move first most girls like a dominant guy when i comes to sex.
2006-10-16 22:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋