im a virgin, i want to have sex, but i dont want to have it with a guy i dont have real strong feelings for...but i also dont want to have to go through a 2 year relationship before i feel im able too...help?
2006-10-16 15:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you're dating someone you have strong feelings for? A couple months in should do the trick. And if you're really feeling the need, your hormones will trick you into thinking that you have strong feelings and you'll do it anyway.
Then when you have it out of the way, you'll go 'Wow, that wasn't such a big deal" much like the first time you rode a roller coaster.
Hopefully, you won't be having sex as often with as many different guys as you do ride roller coasters, though, that might not be healthy for you...
2006-10-16 15:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Michael F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm a virgin and I want to have sex" is the mantra that every single teenager is saying either quietly, vocally, or physically (as in the t-shirt I saw that displayed the message "You must be this tall (indicating a spot just below the neckline of a 5 foot tall guy) to ride this ride"). Well, I'm a 24 year old virgin and I want to have sex. But I have standards that I won't break. Sure, I may kid around with a girl online and tell her I want sex RIGHT NOW, but ultimately, I have my standards and if she doesn't match up to that, then I have to say no. Of those standards, amount of money and how she looks do not matter to me. What does matter is that she is older than 18, knows what she is doing, and should she become pregnant she would keep it. I would kill myself if I found out that the girl I made pregnant was going to kill the baby by aborting it.
2006-10-16 22:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's the right guy, it won't take a two-year relationship to have strong feelings for him! And when you do meet him/fall in love with him, it will have been worth the wait!
2006-10-16 22:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready, youll know when its the right moment. Its too special to give up cause you dont want be a virgin anymore. And its worth waiting for the right guy, youll know when its the right moment.
2006-10-16 22:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to go through a 2 yr relationship... babe it's not able time... it's about how much you truly love him... coming from someone that's been there... please take my advice... wait till marriage < yes ppl i said wait > sex is a gift... a blessing even... but to be shared in the sacred-ness of marriage... it's not something physical you do to "feel" closer together... no... trust me if you wait... losing your virginity would be ONE HUNDRED times better then to lose it now... especially to someone you're unsure about... babe... your body is precious and your purity is priceless... your worth waiting for... if he TRULY loves you... you're worth the patience and wait... don't ever doubt or question that... don't be in a rush to lose it just to lose it... just for the "experience". you don't want to give it to someone not worth it and not deserving... make him work for it... make him wait for it...
advising song: lyfe jennings: S.E.X.
i know you know what im talking about
think CAREFULLY before you act... ultimately it's really up to you
2006-10-16 22:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virgins are over rated... had a few and after its over they think its love,,,,,not,,,,,,man want woman who get wet all over them not bleed on there nuts........find a little boy to get it over with then find a man to show you what its realy like...
you can not have sex with a virgin you can only **** a virgin,,lucky if you can nut
2006-10-16 22:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by dewstate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down! Take your time! Find the right person.
2006-10-16 22:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by dark.axxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait....don't do it just cause everyone is doing it!!! When the right person comes along you will feel it in your heart!!
2006-10-16 22:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have plenty of time for sex. until then use the o' finger
2006-10-16 22:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by twisted 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Benjamin one word... plastics....
GET A BLOW UP DOLL
2006-10-16 22:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋