An old friend of mine gave his sister my number as she was coming to London, she phoned me up and asked me if it would be OK to turn up at my place and stay with me, I didn't think twice and said yes. I have space, it would be no problem. Then before I knew it she arrived. Very polite, very nice, I helped her unpack and make her feel at home, I noticed a vibrator, she made no gesture to hide it but told me quite openly that she took it everywhere with her, I nearly chocked. I must have blushed, that evenning when we had both retired I couldn't believe my ears or the situation, she had left her door open and I could hear that vibrator, I could have died, I felt very uncomfortable, more so when she unashamedly moaned loudly. She must have known I could hear her. Three nights on the trot this happened, on the third she crept into my bed, took a hold of me and used me. What am I meant to tell my friend and her brother ? She leaves in two days.
2006-10-16 15:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are just a normal guy. If she was attractive as you implied by your actions then it would be very hard to say no in such a situation.
As a comedian once said, guys can be trained not to hunt down you know what, but if it chases them, it is all over. That was a huge paraphrase but you get the gist.
I would not tell her brother anything unless you plan to get serious. It's not lying to omit details. If he asks you outright that is your call. I tend to be honest. Personally I had a good friend that dated my sister for a while. I was not offended. I would have been happy for it to have worked out.
Sounds like you had an experience out of a Penthouse Letter. I hope this is a real response. Personally I could conceive of it as I have had my share of strange experiences.
2006-10-16 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you wish this hadn't have happened, but yet you seem to have done nothing to stop it when she came into your room. Not passing judgment, just noticing the discrepancy. I would simply not say anything. This is none of your friend's business. As for his sister, it is up to you whether or not to continue to let her "use" use - if you wish to be used, then fine. If not, then say no - that is your right. Just make sure you don't catch anything - sounds like she's a very busy lady.
2006-10-16 15:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Stef 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both consenting adults, and notexpecting anything but a little fun for a while why feel guilty. She's astranger in a strange land and if she didn't give it to you than she wouldhave given it to someone else. Unless your friend asks if you balled his sister I don't see a need to bring it up
2006-10-16 15:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by foolsowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you're not spending the next two days rocking her world? Do you have feelings for other men, by some chance?
And why do you think her brother wants to hear about her sexual escapades??? NO brother wants to hear about is sister having sex - just bringing it up is giving him permission to pound your face into the floor. He knows she does it, he doesn't want to hear about it...
2006-10-16 15:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Michael F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sounds like something right out of "Penthouse".
If it were me (and I were a guy) I wouldn't say anything to anyone unless they brought it up first. And then, I'd just tell the truth.
2006-10-16 15:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Avie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you accepted the gift from her as a payment for the room. Keep the good memory for yourself. She can visit me too..
I have extra room.
2006-10-16 15:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question, stupid to have been taken advantage of, or stupid that you did not have sex the first night
2006-10-16 15:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have sex with her she sounds like she knows how to please i bet she can give some good head did you get some head from her was it good damn right it was now ur in love wid her aint cha oh and your a dumbass
2006-10-16 15:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened between you should stay between you.
2006-10-16 15:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get tested right away..yikes!
2006-10-16 15:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋