So i found out that my girlfriend has a crush on someone in her college (she doesnt know that I know). I read that she likes him and that she plans on asking him out to coffee.
Today she calls me and tells me that she needs someone to do a photoshoot for her (she is a photographer) and of course its him. She said that she needed someone else to photograph besides me(per her teacher) -- I found out that this was a lie.
However, over the weekend she said she loves me and wants to be with me etc. She even mentions us as friends etc while she is up and im devistated because of this (we have been dating for over a year). I'm beginning to wonder if she is cheating or what...
what should I do? not worry? find my own study buddy?
2006-10-16 15:11:24 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that she's acting a little strange, maybe distant and ask her if she still loves you like she used to or if there is anything she wants to talk to you about.
2006-10-16 15:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by ciaotutti1027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion if she has the chance i believe she will go for it i don't know what she's like but obvious she making up excuses to be around him and she's lying to you there are plenty of women that would love you and treat you with respect like you deserve who knows how many other times she has lied to you you just happen to find out this one time ,i know its easy for me to say let her go but in the long run you'll be glad you did . no need to hurry into another relationship good things come to thoughs who wait good luck hope you make the right decision dont let her make a fool out of you .
2006-10-17 00:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by BIGL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like she might be cheating, or planning on it. maybe you should just let her know, that you know she is crushing on someone else. it would be wise to confront her early on before you really get hurt...good luck!
2006-10-16 22:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋