I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend. She has kissed me on the cheek and hugged me after our last soccer game tonight. We are pretty good friends and we have pretty good conversations. After our soccer season flew right by, I realize our senoir year is going to go fast. I don't want to regret anything about this year so I need to tell her how I feel. Would she consider giving me a chance if I told her how I felt about her, like how i think she is beautiful, smart, funny, she has a great personailty, and I just love spending time with her.
I need to know. Girls help me out on this one
2006-10-16 15:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her if she would go out with you if she didn't have a boyfriend. If she says no but I like you as my friend. Nothing lost. Go find someone else. If she says yes just pray that she breaks up with her boyfriend and tell her to look you up if she ever does break up with him. If you tell her how you really feel about her it might scare her off from even being her friend. Don't risk it.
2006-10-16 15:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u told her she might think that you want her to break up with her boyfriend or just jealous of her boyfriend. all i can say is that if you guys are still super tight at the end of the year and she still has a boyfriend then tell her then. if she breaks up with him soon, be there for her and help her through it. take her out and show her a good time. dont like automatically say i like you cuz she mite think u are just going after her cuz she just got outta a relationship. wait a while and tell her when you two are by yourselfs like walking or something. DONT do it on the phone because then u wont be able to see her reaction and it may be ackward
hope that helped
2006-10-16 15:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would definitely consider giving you a chance, but you never know what she will choose. If she feels that chemistry with you, then she's going to want to choose you. The hug and kiss on the cheek were very good signs that she is attracted to you. If I were you, I would build up the courage to ask her. Tell her the things you wrote in your last sentence. Good luck!
2006-10-16 15:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, would you want to end up dating a girl that dumped her boyfriend for one of her 'friends'?? Are you going to tell her she can't have any more guy friends because you will be afraid of her doing the same to you?
2006-10-16 15:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just leave her alone for now...Would you want to be the one to know you broke up someone else's relationship?You might want her, but it's not fair to the other guy...What if you were the other guy? I'm sure there are other girls that you can date...You shouldn't only think about yourself :)....But maybe sometime soon they'll break up and then make your move!! Good luck!!!
2006-10-16 15:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something like this happen to me. I have a boyfriend whom I love to death. One of my guy friends this summer decided that he wanted to date me. I wasn't about to give up the boy I loved to be with him. So he went ahead and made his feelings clear. He even crossed the friendship line. We are no longer friends because of this. My advice would be to stay friends. If they break up, make a move. But don't be the cause of their break up. Remember that if she dumps him for you, she might dump you for someone else.
2006-10-16 15:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that is so sweet. Tell her that. Everything you said here tell her. She needs to hear it. I'm not saying it's gonna get her to dump her bf, but it gives you a better chance!
2006-10-16 15:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay just start hanging out with her and tell her that you are beginning to have feelings for her. If you tell her she is more likely to accept you. If she likes you to, her feelings for her boyfriend might change. This has happened to me. ~Meghan~
2006-10-16 15:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by ReBeLrOcKeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl is committed and values commitment, there's no chance.
2006-10-16 15:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it all just depends on the seriousness of her relationship.
2006-10-16 15:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋