Singles & Dating - 8 October 2006

I found txt messages on b/fs fone, (yes I shouldnt have looked i feel bad but thats not the issue i dont think).

He went to the beach on the weekend, said i couldn't come because it was a boys day, then later said part of the reason I couldnt come he said was because he cant handle other guys seeing me in my bikinis, (we just got back together after breaking up 4 a month, we are trying to make it work). I was like yeah cool boys day, bikini things a bit over the top

The day after he went to the beach i found messages to about 3 other girls asking them to come, so I have no idea what's going on there. Im mad, do I tell him i went through his fone, I do think that's not the issueI think I will but what would you do, how would you feel?

2006-10-08 22:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by idk 3

The only strings attached with a Muslim partner is, there is almost always the compulsion for conversion to Islam. I quote out of real-life incidents. There may be a few liberals spun around, but on the whole, it's a very sensitive issue.

2006-10-08 22:06:26 · 18 answers · asked by quilm 3

2006-10-08 22:05:46 · 14 answers · asked by nirupam 2

So what are some ways to help us to relax the next time we try?
I know many of you are wondering if we are virgins. Yes, we are I am 24 and he is 25.

2006-10-08 22:03:06 · 12 answers · asked by lee-lee 1

my parents told me that i must first finish my studies before entering in the relationship..they said that it can destruct my studies......but i think it s not true..... i dont know what to do..... help me...

2006-10-08 22:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by sempron_mitch 1

Actually she was a nice girl..she is very honest to me , told me everything whats are in her mind N always sms or call me..One day..She told me that she was missing somebody n MAYBE she was in love with him...(my god. I felt my heart was broken...he he..)...but lately,she found out that guy is not her type.. about 3 days ago, I told her that i may reconcile with ex-girl,she suddenly angry n said that she didn't like my former girlfriend...... so i need to know what does it mean?.....(i still contact with her)..may thanks for your helps

2006-10-08 21:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by cl zon 2

I recently found out my boyfriend has been looking at loads of pics of girls half naked on his computer such as Jordan, he claims he doesn't even find her attractive but then why would he look? he constantly tells me he would never cheat, never looks at pics on the net and then i find them. he then lied about it and when i said i feel let down because he lied he claims il 'never find anyone like him'. I no he'd never cheat on me and is a great boyfriend, but this really really bothers me as I'm such an insecure person. Please help me

2006-10-08 21:56:04 · 20 answers · asked by Tara B 1

Most are married or in a relationship? How do you deal with rejection if faced with it? What things do women like to be asked? How do you keep the interaction from getting boring?

2006-10-08 21:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by stupidreplier1 2

I had this boyfriend when I was doing one course, after the course he travelled. While he was away he never called. I met this other guy who is rich and willing to do any thing for me. I love the other guy cos He is so loving and prayerful, I have even told him of the new guy and he is still insisting I leave him. Yes He is back. What do I do? Cos presently he doesnt work. But deep down I love him more than the rich guy, What do I do?

2006-10-08 21:47:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a huge crush on military guys

2006-10-08 21:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by jhey 2

My ex of 3 years dumped me 3 months ago. We had several issues, but one major one was my jealousy/controlling behavour. Now, I know all of the reasons this isn't good and so on and tried to change at the time, but it was deeply engrained. It is NOT who I want to be.

Is it worth working on this NOW when I am single and convince my ex it is better? She doesnt believe people can change. I think I can and know that I put her on too much of a pedestal and didnt take care of myself enough first.

Has anyone gotten over bad jealousy? and how would you convince an ex you have changed? She is very adamant about our break-up so if nothing else, I will have to be better for the next person, but we both (ex and I) still love one another

2006-10-08 21:44:29 · 10 answers · asked by afterdinnermint 2

I love some guy the other guys just turn cold and won't come on line and chat so I would leave them some messages and when they do come on line they would shout at me and say don't bother me..I feel wierd. They are 7-9th graders.

2006-10-08 21:44:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always loved bringing my girlfriend to orgasm during foreplay, but I'm just wondering if that can be too much too early, and maybe it's better to let it build gradually through the evening or is it simply the more orgasms the better. I know everyone is a bit different. Just lookin' for some 3rd party feedback.

2006-10-08 21:40:39 · 16 answers · asked by zinger 1

sometimes i really hate my girl fren's sis also when she(my gf) spends most of her time with her.

2006-10-08 21:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was once hurt by a special girl whom i dont care for any more (8yrs ago). But i cant seem to love the ones im with fully like i loved back then. Im 30 yrs old single full time father (good looking i might add) with a great job, have my choice on who i want, but get with them and lose intrest immediatley. Just wondering how to trust and love someone? This is a seroius question!!!!

2006-10-08 21:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by tom b 1

iam somali student i student in malaysia when i was there only six month my father call me to comeback my country i feel desire after that i need to i need to be loney i started smoking driking even bad habbit i have 5 sisters and six brother some mother and some father all of us were poor my father hate particularly please help me

2006-10-08 21:37:02 · 5 answers · asked by joseph nimcaan 1

Why can't men and women live independently...???
Is marriage necessary...?

2006-10-08 21:35:29 · 15 answers · asked by naresh_cer 1

I thought that I had found "The One" previously in my life, but that failed miserably. I know that I am only 22 and still young... sometimes I just think too far ahead in my life, and I was just wondering if I will ever find that one person that will make everything better... and take all my pain away...

2006-10-08 21:33:14 · 11 answers · asked by Navy_Male 2

can anyone tell me what's that mean??

2006-10-08 21:29:48 · 10 answers · asked by bones042004 1

desperate looking for one ~

2006-10-08 21:28:34 · 16 answers · asked by gila_paulineling 1

ok long story short....me and this girl started off to a fast start....and now she tells me she needs time...

what am i suppose to do...
i do everything a girl ask for...
im super nice and pretty much do anything for her....
i call her in the morning to make sure she is up and not late for class, to tell her goodmorning, and to have a nice day!
i dont tell her that she is hot, but that she pretty and "linda"
i tell her that my number one goal is not to disrespect her in anyway.
i make her laugh so that life isnt boring...
i always buy....
i make her smile when she is down.....
i kiss her forehead so that she feels special...
and her hand to let her know that i care...
i cuddle with her when she is cold....
i help her wih everything
i tell her that I respect whatever decision she makes..
i tell her that I will never make her do anything...sexual and not non sexual...lol.....i open her door...im a gentlemen to her....and so much more....what am I doing wrong?...what do I do? Do I wait?

2006-10-08 21:26:25 · 16 answers · asked by El 1 1

a young african girl who has a major crash on a young muslim guy. what should she do so he could recognise her?

2006-10-08 21:25:11 · 3 answers · asked by chris pamela 1

I dont know but it seems kinda like if your a nice guy your getting used in the end right...a fallback plan? Why not just become a jerk and get the women early on? I always hear women say they dont want a jerk, but in reality they know they want that free, possible abusive (emphasis on possibly), ego filled, agressive type male..I have researched the characteristics of what attracts a good percentage of females to men and it seems like utter b*******. It always goes sour and the relationships end badly...and then us good guys are supposed to come in and clean up when we've been there all along?
Anyway do you think this is why most 'nice guys' are so hard to find...I mean looking at what the jerks have is enticing...why should we stick with being nice when it doesnt make us happy...why should we stay nice guys when you women dont give us the chance of day? Considering the 'real man' ends up becoming a jerk should we conform and save ourselves the hastle of wasting our time in wait

2006-10-08 21:20:52 · 10 answers · asked by stupidreplier1 2

I like this guy and we lost touch for awhile. We used to have sex a lot. Ok and now we started talking again. Everytime I think of having sex with him I get kinda shakey and I tremble. Don't get me wrong the sex is good but I'm kinda wondering why I tremble. So if anyone has advice for me contact me on messenger if ya want my screename is worriedprincess. Otherwise just leave a comment on here for me. Thank you.

2006-10-08 21:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

boys following you around at school carrying your bag and books for you?

What is the crazist thing a guy has done to try and win your affection or prove his love for you?

2006-10-08 21:17:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been seing him for 2 years now and i recentely found out he was cheating on me but i havn't said anything

should i ? please give me good long answers
thankyou so much!!

2006-10-08 21:13:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 21:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2

i lost my b/f of about 4 years off and on, because i just cant handle that he has a past with all these other girls and more and more i keep fineding out things about it that he did not tell me. but i love him and i dont want to let him go. what should i do?

2006-10-08 21:03:50 · 11 answers · asked by SUNSHINE 1

Am meeting my boyfriend whom i met on a dating site seven months ago.We've been communicating alot,i've met his friends and some few relatives.I feel like he's the one for me.I've not been seeing any other man for the past one year.Do u think it will be right if i make love to him when he comes?

2006-10-08 21:01:55 · 29 answers · asked by nyam12 1

I'm starting to wonder if she just hates me.

2006-10-08 20:59:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous