The only strings attached with a Muslim partner is, there is almost always the compulsion for conversion to Islam. I quote out of real-life incidents. There may be a few liberals spun around, but on the whole, it's a very sensitive issue.
2006-10-08 22:06:26 · 18 answers · asked by quilm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My cousin sister is in love with a Muslim guy. He's nice, so is his family, her parents still don't know anything, I wanna make things work out, but this as I said, is a sensitive issue.
2006-10-08 22:10:51 · update #1
I don't need opinions of those who aren't Indians, take care.
2006-10-08 22:15:15 · update #2
im indian- sikh and i know sooo many, infact tooo many indian girls dating muslim guys, i dont know whats going on, but they are just seem to be connecting like magnets! my friend is hindu and is dating a muslim guy and her family would completly disown her if they ever found out...
If your cousin wants to get married to her bf, her bfs family will expect her to convert to islam, if she is willing to change her religion and leave her family it is HER decision, and all you can do is support her and be there for her... Truthfully even if she doesnt want to convert she will eventually have to, because she will have no hinduism around her.. personally i dont agree with converting to a different religion just for somebody else... it has to be up to the individual!
I feel sooo sorry for your cousin sister, she is in a very vunerable situation... i mean i have heard many storys about indian girls getting married to muslim boys and yes they do convert and they even change their NAMES to a muslim girls name... All you can do is talk to your sister and tell her to not rush into marriage and date this guy for a while and see what happens from there.. good luck!
2006-10-09 00:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to provide there ages and financial position of them and their families are they dependent on eachother.
If boy and girl are dependent and ready to start therelife no one can do any thing as far as conversion it should be by choice not with compulsion i guess good sense will preavail even parents undestand but give them time dont insist the solutions will come
2006-10-09 00:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an issue at all. Just dont bring religion into the relationship.
But just to add: One of my friends was dating a muslim girl for 7 yrs. When they came of age and wanted to get married - the girl (muslim) insisted that my friend (hindu) convert to her religion. She also insisted on the circums*ition . This broke up their relationship of 7 yrs.
2006-10-08 23:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have seen many such cases. Before marriage the boy will force her to convert and one who forces to convert is not really a liberal person nor he loves the woman. He is essentially a fundamentalist who will expose his real self only after the marriage. Mohammedans violate womens right much more than hindus. Even after conversion, he and his family will never give her right amount of respect. Finally , the very bitter fact is, she runs the risk of being forced by him and his family, in to various unethical activities with in 3/4 years of their marriage. Her parents may also face various problems.
I would like to mention that I'm neither a hindu nor a Mohammedan. I'm a staunch atheist. I hate all religions equally. I think Ishwar, Allah, God all r pig S~H~I~T~S. I only described my experience above.
2006-10-09 09:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a theorotical Q it is not wrong. As Sharmila tagore successfully married to Nabab of Patudi. & Agarkar is married to muslim girl.But in general both casts donot have good relations in terms of marriages & dating Hindu boys to muslim girls is not exceptable to muslim society.
So if you are assured of that muslim family that your sister will be happy there then there is absolutely no problem.
2006-10-08 22:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive known a few couples who are muslim and hindu and it seems to be working out for them but both have very liberal families.
on the whole i think it would be difficult because both religions are very strong. i dont think i would want to change but i wouldnt expect my partner to change either.
its something the couple would have to work out between themselves. if they love each other then one will probably have to compromise. tough decision.
im comfortable with any couple who love each other and can accept each others culture and religious beliefs.
2006-10-08 22:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a dangerous situation to be in but if they are brave enough, let them take the plunge and stand up and be strong for the decision they make.
Personally, yes, it makes sense because the girl is happy after her marriage. She is treated with respect and she escapes the dowry and caste system once and for all.
2006-10-08 22:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hello, well as you said erlier, if do you sister really love this guy and wanna marry him, it is best for your sister to convert to muslim since islam is very good to sut with human nature. well you should ask you sister to do so after all being a muslim dosent mean that she is not your sister anymore.
2006-10-08 22:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mohd G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey r u really thinking about religion.
no does'nt think again b'coz this religion's and all etc.. are kept by us
before birth u does'nt which religion u belong's to.
so dont think about religion we are puil of this country.we all r neighbour's and friends.dating is now a day's passion so their is no case of applying religion to this passion
2006-10-08 22:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not okey i think so most of muslim guy n hindu gal marriage have bad end like divorce or suciede of gal always. cause both r very different n cant handle the religious n social matters always !!! so i m not agree with this marriages...
2006-10-08 22:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋