i've been seing him for 2 years now and i recentely found out he was cheating on me but i havn't said anything
should i ? please give me good long answers
thankyou so much!!
2006-10-08 21:13:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i too have been in a relationship for 2 years... but i can honestly say that if a guy can't be faithful now... what is it to say about your future? I know it may be hard, because i can only think how hard it would be for me... but you dont deserve someone who doesnt love you the way you love them! nobody deserves to be cheated on... it hurts! if you dont say anything to him, the guilt will haunt you and you will constantly question what he is doing, who he is with, what girl he is seeing... you dont want that... leave now before it gets harder... dont waist your time on someone like that... He isnt worth it and you deserve better!! =) good luck!
2006-10-08 21:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's cheating you should leave him. I know it may be hard because of the time you've been together, but unless you leave him, he's coing to continue to take advantage of you and do whatever he wants cause he'll know you won't leave.
I hope this helps, I know it can be devistating but don't let anyone have that much control over you to where you would allow them to treat you any kind of way.
2006-10-08 21:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you want the truth explained to you:
If you ARE sure your info is correct concerning your boy friend, then you have to remember that once a cheat to that mate (you) always a cheat.
Now if you just want to back out of the relationship & say nothing, keeping the peace & friendship or no friendship,maybe or, bring it up, fight over it maybe. At the end of the day do you want some one loyal & faithful as yourself? If so take this relationship no further.
If you do it will always be a needle in your side maybe worse children may come into play, can you cope with that?
Sorry I wish my answer could have been more positive, either way their will be tears & heart pain, make sure you got good friends around, but only you can make that final decision. Good Luck
2006-10-08 21:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by devilinme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend and he's cheating then actually you don't have a boyfriend
2006-10-08 21:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure he is cheating why would you want him?? he doesn't respect you & you must not respect yourself or you wouldn't put up with it would you?
you need to tell him you know what he is doing & you deserve better than that & tell him it is over & you make sure it is over.
don't give him another chance because he doesn't deserve another chance because he knew what he was doing!!
you are lucky you didn't marry the cheater.he can never be trusted
good luck girl
2006-10-08 21:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe... u KNOW you should leave his a$$... none of that bullsh*t of silently waitin 2 c if he'll change... no... it doesn't work that way... if he thinks he's gettin away w/ it now... he'll keep doing it.. i know 2 years is a long time... my last relationship lasted nearly 2 years n he left me for another girl... buh he ended up askin me back.... they don't know what they got until it's gone and apparently this boy doesn't appreciate you so you get up and walk out on him... since you haven't said anything yet... i'd say leave... n leave w/out a word... juss 1 random day... take all ur stuff out of his house... block his numbers... ignore all this emails IM's etc.... and if 1 day he was 2 c u and ask where the hell u've been... u tell him straight out... "i wasn't the only woman in ur life n u seemed so busy... so i made it easy 4 u n left... ur not worth the explaining." n just leave... don't put up w/ it... you deserve better...every lady out there does...
2006-10-08 21:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 2 years and he can't keep it out of other womem, how many do you think he'll do in 10 years? He's your bf not your husband, let it go and find someone true.
2006-10-08 21:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him!! It's simple,right?? You will found a new boyfriend which much better than him. Don't waste your time with that kind of boyfriend,ok.. God bless..
2006-10-08 21:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet hart you need to tell him right away! don't be a ***** about it, but be the mature one! your not the one that cheated you should be the one walking away with your head held high and don't look back! he will be the one thinking to him self; wow i should of did things different! not all guy's are like that! just take it as a lessen learned and watch out that it dose not happen in your next relation ship.
2006-10-08 21:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by SUNSHINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should I give you good long answers? It's very simple. You have to decide whether or not you want to continue the relationship with him. What you do after that is up to you.
2006-10-08 21:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋