Singles & Dating - 5 October 2006

I have been dating this wonderful woman for about three weeks now. I can't believe how much I love her even in this very short time. When we make love it is incredible, at least it was. I was beginning to get concerned that she was faking it so I asked her if there was anything I could do to make it better for her. She confessed to me that when she orgasms she loses bladder control. Quite frankly I don't care, I just want to please her and make her happy, but she seems unable to relax enough to go ahead and let herself have an orgasm for fear she will wet herself or me. Please do not post any unkind remarks. I really just want to know if anyone has any suggestions for helping her trust me enough to know I won't freak out over this.

2006-10-05 10:36:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just started dating this amazing guy a couple of days ago. the trouble is, this weekend is my school's homecoming and i was going to go with a group that consists of a guy that i had a crush on while my current bf was thinking about asking me out. i really like my bf for his personality but i feel more physically attracted to the guy i'm hanging out with at homecoming. i don't know the other guy's personality as well as i know my bf's. and i feel bad that i'm going with this group instead of with my bf. he lives 45 minutes away and i had already agreed to go with this group. they both have attributes that i like but i have to decide. it's not that i'm not physically attracted to my bf, it's just the other guy is more physically attractive. and it's only now that he's beginning to notice me. and i was talking to my bf on the phone the other day and he was under the impression that i was going on a date with this guy. i told him no but i can't help to think that he is jealous. advice?

2006-10-05 10:35:54 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

he is my boyfriend we have been going out for 5 weeks and his birth day is coming up and I want to suprise him and let him hold my hand and kiss me how should i get him to do it (hes 14 and I'm 13)

2006-10-05 10:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 2

2006-10-05 10:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jake B 1

trust a girl who is somewhat a player? I guess this girl I think is ok, but she talks to alot of guys and will give hugs if asked. Sometimes she will give playful touches to this one guy, but it could possibly be a tactic to piss me off. But today she did say my name and puckered up her lips. She also did give me a hug even when I didn't ask for it. Is she worth it? Or is she just hungry for attention?

2006-10-05 10:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 10:33:15 · 17 answers · asked by Jake B 1

Ok, the guy i like feels the same about me. However, he says he does'nt want us to be in a relationship. This is because i don't believe in sex before marriage and he says for him, sex has to be included but he doesn't wanna force me and have to deal with the guilt that comes along with it. Even though he says this, he still sing songs to me and flirts with me, that kinda stuff. This leaves me in a spot, cause i really don't know what to do. Give me your opinions and advices. Thanks!

2006-10-05 10:33:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Feels only good to have a guy older and also its only right when the boy asks the girl...etc. Yeah, I'm old fashioned. Anyone else agree?

2006-10-05 10:31:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to knowwwwww
he's a really good friend

2006-10-05 10:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by errrin. ♥ 2

i can't imagine find someone really interesting on internet. Am I wrong?

2006-10-05 10:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by takethetube222 1

He constantly calls me its been over two years since i've been with him i was with him for a year, i mean i don't really mind calling him but i know he has a girlfriend and she's pregnant but he still wants to pick me up and chill with him its like he's trying to rub it in my face i don't care because i'm in a relationship and i'm happy and he knows that, and everytime i tell him i don't want to hang or chill with him he gets mad and hangs up and then calls me a couple weeks later and says the same thing? i don't mind staying friends, but i have no feelings for him, but i don't think its right that he has a baby on the way and i don't want to disrespect my boyfriend or his girlfriend, i wish i could tell his girlfriend because no girl derserves that especially if she pregnant!! I don't know what to do and i can't change my house number !!

2006-10-05 10:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2

I am a VERY tall 16 year old guy. I am close to 7' tall, and only about 160lbs. Over all, I am a very shy person. I am a decent looking person overall (exept for being real thin). Most girls in school think I am real weird. I am not unpopular, and am just an average person. Many girls are afraid of me (i have been told), and one even ran when I was near. Today a few girls were laughing at me. I just don't get it. I have no clue about chicks. I am kind of bumbed about this. I am as I said real shy, and people for some reason dislike me untill they get to know me. I am too shy, to even ask a girl out now. What I need help with is how do I get better around girls? What do I do to make them more comfertable around me? Aside from working out (already started). It is kind of herd for me to describe. Smartass ansers are ok, but try to give some help too. Don't be real mean, I need some confidence now.

2006-10-05 10:26:59 · 12 answers · asked by all 1

Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?

Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?

When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?

I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.

Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.

It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.

2006-10-05 10:26:27 · 11 answers · asked by stephen 1 1

2006-10-05 10:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by james44_20 2

I am 58, moderately attractive and haven't dated in many years (I was raising children). Is it too late? The other problem is that men older than myself look soooooo old to me.

2006-10-05 10:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a crush on this girl but were not freinds how could i talk to her

2006-10-05 10:25:03 · 13 answers · asked by Samuel C 1

ive agreed to go out with this guy
but i really like someone else. and the feelings are at least partially reciprocated
but im trapped now by the first one.

all options:
go out with no1 for a while
tell no1 ive changed my mind
go out once with no1 then not again

are horribly mean and pretty shallow, but i dont really know what else to do. ive got myself in this stupid situation myself :(

what would u do in my place

2006-10-05 10:24:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today, my girlfriends ex-boyfriend came over. We were talking online. and she went to the bathroom. He came on and said he's going to try to get with her and shes so hot. She said she wont ever cheat cause she knows how it feels but i worry constintanly about her. Im trying not to. Im trying to turn my life around. And the thing is he cheated on her. I just need help to make me feel better. Im scared and worried.

2006-10-05 10:23:38 · 19 answers · asked by eighty dee 3

There is this girl that I like very much. She has everything that I look for in a girl. All I think about is her, day and night! The only problem is that I have been friends with her for only a short time. Should I ask her out now or should I wait a bit and get to know her better. The only problem with waiting is that some other punk might come along a ask her out! Help plzzzz.

2006-10-05 10:23:31 · 14 answers · asked by Andy 2

my "bf"says that i am cheating on him with another guy because thats what his friends are telling him..... now he will not listen to what i have to say about it.... crys.......but i never did that to him
will some one help me out on what to say so we can get back together?

2006-10-05 10:22:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just picked up the last of my belongings from my ex g/f i was happy and jolly (although not inside) but she would not pass me the time of day. Is there a postive i can take from this?

2006-10-05 10:21:49 · 20 answers · asked by Boney 2

let's face it, some of you have slept with worse, right and that was for nothing!

2006-10-05 10:21:46 · 25 answers · asked by *JC* 3

2006-10-05 10:21:39 · 8 answers · asked by Mae 1

Me and my boyfriend has ben dating 8 months and 2 weeks and i would like to know is that a long time to be dating someone

2006-10-05 10:21:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My only relationship ever lasted like 2 weeks. I've only made out with a woman twice. I just feel like it's all pointless and unfulfilling. I just have no desire to go out and meet women. If I'm still a virgin at 40 I'll be happy.

2006-10-05 10:20:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing a book on pick up lines. I have the bad ones. Would like the good ones that work. I don't want to hear that I shouldn't use lines and be myself. I do do that! I am doing research for a book.

2006-10-05 10:18:22 · 6 answers · asked by Too Cool For Me 4

One of my favorite things is to have a woman over to cook her dinner and watch a movie. The problem is I have just too many guy movies (action, war and crude comedy) so what do you suggest I add to my movie collection to remedy the situation?

2006-10-05 10:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by DarkWolf 4

What do you do when your boyfriend say he "loves" you but told his friend that he doesn't?

2006-10-05 10:17:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl at my school who I refuse to call a friend, she's happily dating a really great guy right now, but she cheated on him once, and he took her back after the other guy wouldn't go out with her. And now she's involved with another guy. I feel really bad for the guy, and I've decided not to get in the middle of it. But sometimes I think he likes me. We say hello to each other in the hall, and we talk any chance we get in World Cultures. Then it makes me want to tell him about her fooling around with another guy. I'm a little confused right now, anyone got some advice?

2006-10-05 10:16:48 · 25 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4

Im a guy dating in midlife, do I need to see this so that I know everything not to do, even though I hate this show, and the idea that women talk about guys private things over lunch?

And, is it bad to tell other people about your lovers' bodies and sexuality, using their name? Or am I just not with it, and in the future everyone's genital sizes will be listed in the phone book next to your address?

2006-10-05 10:14:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jeremy 2