Today, my girlfriends ex-boyfriend came over. We were talking online. and she went to the bathroom. He came on and said he's going to try to get with her and shes so hot. She said she wont ever cheat cause she knows how it feels but i worry constintanly about her. Im trying not to. Im trying to turn my life around. And the thing is he cheated on her. I just need help to make me feel better. Im scared and worried.
2006-10-05 10:23:38 · 19 answers · asked by eighty dee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-05 10:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your GF should stop contact with the X. No matter what she says about not cheating, she should build your trust by being firm with her X. She should certainly not let him in her house when she is alone at home. Gosh, that is worse than a date!!!!
You have every reason to be scared and worried. Run if she cannot sever the tie with the X. You are too trusting.
2006-10-05 10:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this ex-boyfriend has no respect for you and yoru girlfriend. He should't go online a send you messages that he's goin to get with her. He deserves an *** beating because that's just not right. As for your girlfriend, you shouldn't let her hang out with her ex-. I could understand if they were just good friends, but he clearly disrespected you and wants to get with her. That's not good buddy . If your relationship means anything to her then she'll drop him and tell him not to come over.
2006-10-05 10:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh the ex is inside her room hmmm i dont care if she is mother theresa. I don't think its appropriate for her to have guys just waltz into her room and check her messages. I suggest a nice face to face with the good lil girl and ask her how shed feel if you had hot babes hanging out in your room all day.
2006-10-05 10:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie Im so sorry :( It doesnt sound like shes one to trust either. Why the hell is she having her ex over in the first place? Why the hell is she letting him talk sh** to you online? You can do so much better, you sound like a sweet caring guy. Dump her.
2006-10-05 10:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you have been together and how much trust is there, but if you trust her than you have no worries. We as women are not thease fragile flowers. Like we used to be and if he crosses the line or tries you have to trust that she can handle that and that you are the only thing she wants.
2006-10-05 10:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you seem like good people, and i bet that she really wont do anything, so try not to worry!
however, the ex sounds like a dirtbag. if he keeps saying things like that, you totally have the right to share your worries and ask her to tell him to stop acting like that, or even to see him less.
2006-10-05 10:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by jumpoutjane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's accomplished what he set out to do, which is to set you off! Why does she still hang out with her ex? Have you asked her that?
I think there is more information that you are not sharing with us that we need to assess the situation.
2006-10-05 10:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he coming over to start with? if they don't have kids together and he is just coming over let her know that you don't like him being around. if she cares about you and respects you and you explain to her what he is telling you she should agree he needs to stay away
2006-10-05 10:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust ur gf then what is the problem... if the ex is an issue then it's something that u should confront ur gf about and then she's suppose to handle the issue w/her ex...
2006-10-05 10:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋